Sexuality is confusing...

[CosmicNoodle]

Well for a while now I have been Bisexual, I discovered I was about 2 years ago but only embarased it a few months back, until then I just pretended I was perfectly straight.

But lately I have been questioning myself. I have noticed, whenever I visualise myself in a relationship its with a cute guy, whenever I watch porn its always gay, fantisys gay. I just don't have any interest in women anymore, apart from being friends.
I am starting to think I may be gay, not bisexual. I jnowbits bad but it just worry's me for some reason...

I don't know why I bothered posting butbibjist needed to let that out.

[Just Sayin]

Nothing wrong with being gay man its cool

[gevans604]

Well for a while now I have been Bisexual, I discovered I was about 2 years ago but only embarased it a few months back, until then I just pretended I was perfectly straight.

But lately I have been questioning myself. I have noticed, whenever I visualise myself in a relationship its with a cute guy, whenever I watch porn its always gay, fantisys gay. I just don't have any interest in women anymore, apart from being friends.
I am starting to think I may be gay, not bisexual. I jnowbits bad but it just worry's me for some reason...

I don't know why I bothered posting butbibjist needed to let that out.
This is what happened with me too. I thought I was bisexual for about a year, but then realized I had not attraction, physical or romantic, to women at all.

[Lovelife090994]

This is what happened with me too. I thought I was bisexual for about a year, but then realized I had not attraction, physical or romantic, to women at all.

This is like almost how I am. But I still would date a woman. I just am asexual to women.

[Living For Love]

I'm a bit like that way you described. My attraction towards women has just faded away, or it has never even been there at all. You're 16, this is just a process you need to go through, you will meet lots of people in your life and you will find out about your sexuality through the relationship you have with the people that surround you. No need to worry so much right now.

[backjruton]

My attraction to women slowly faded away while my attraction to guys quickly grew. It was from probably around year 5 I started losing attraction to girls then around year 9 I started becoming attracted to guys. Year 10 is when I started to tell people I was bisexual, then changed my mind again and I'm slowly coming out as gay to people instead. You shouldn't worry about anything, and sexuality IS too confusing :lol: :)

[CosmicNoodle]

My attraction to women slowly faded away while my attraction to guys quickly grew. It was from probably around year 5 I started losing attraction to girls then around year 9 I started becoming attracted to guys. Year 10 is when I started to tell people I was bisexual, then changed my mind again and I'm slowly coming out as gay to people instead. You shouldn't worry about anything, and sexuality IS too confusing :lol: :)

Why sexuality why, why must you fuck with our heads so much?!

Its just that I'm not sure how to deal with this, do I explore it and see where it leads me, or do I embrace it. What do I tell people if I do decide to explore it with another guy, that would be hard to keep quiet.
Sexuality is hard to deal with on the first place, add social pressure and you've got one hell of a shit storm brewing up... :\

[backjruton]

Why sexuality why, why must you fuck with our heads so much?!

Its just that I'm not sure how to deal with this, do I explore it and see where it leads me, or do I embrace it. What do I tell people if I do decide to explore it with another guy, that would be hard to keep quiet.
Sexuality is hard to deal with on the first place, add social pressure and you've got one hell of a shit storm brewing up... :\

My brother keeps saying to me that I shouldn't bother labeling myself because of how confusing everything has been but unfortunately it's not that easy :lol: you could just say you're unsure or something... I don't know... and social pressure hasn't been a problem for me luckily as somehow some friendships got better once I came out :whoops::rolleyes: just say you're bi, then you never have to make your mind up

:teehee:

[darkangel91]

Don't worry bro, I'm gay and I'm like totally awesome. The thing to do is just try being in a relationship with a guy - nothing too big, just hand holding and kissing, play it safe - and see how it feels. It shouldn't be too hard to keep it secret. Just see what happens. If you feel like you can trust them, tell your parents about your confusion. They'll support you if nothing else. Obviously not if they're like fundamentalists or something, but you know. Just experiment, be careful, don't do anything too intimate until you're ready, etc.

Hope that helped!

[CosmicNoodle]

My brother keeps saying to me that I shouldn't bother labeling myself because of how confusing everything has been but unfortunately it's not that easy :lol: you could just say you're unsure or something... I don't know... and social pressure hasn't been a problem for me luckily as somehow some friendships got better once I came out :whoops::rolleyes: just say you're bi, then you never have to make your mind up

:teehee:

Good point, but I really can't trust my friends, they are not that sort of people, I think I'll just give it time and see what happens for now before saying anything. :)

Don't worry bro, I'm gay and I'm like totally awesome. The thing to do is just try being in a relationship with a guy - nothing too big, just hand holding and kissing, play it safe - and see how it feels. It shouldn't be too hard to keep it secret. Just see what happens. If you feel like you can trust them, tell your parents about your confusion. They'll support you if nothing else. Obviously not if they're like fundamentalists or something, but you know. Just experiment, be careful, don't do anything too intimate until you're ready, etc.

Hope that helped!

I would love to find myself a boyfriend to experiment with, the only problem is that none of the people I know are gay, it even Bi. Unfortunately Homosexuality isn't that common around me :(

[Body odah Man]

Well for a while now I have been Bisexual, I discovered I was about 2 years ago but only embarased it a few months back, until then I just pretended I was perfectly straight.

But lately I have been questioning myself. I have noticed, whenever I visualise myself in a relationship its with a cute guy, whenever I watch porn its always gay, fantisys gay. I just don't have any interest in women anymore, apart from being friends.
I am starting to think I may be gay, not bisexual. I jnowbits bad but it just worry's me for some reason...

I don't know why I bothered posting butbibjist needed to let that out.

Being gay worries everyone at first, cuz there's so much stigma against it. It'll pass once you get used to is (if your gay) and accept it-nothing wrong with it.
But it's hard to tell if ur gay/bi or straight-Heck, I'm still not sure if I'm bi, gay or straight and I've spent lots of time thinking bout it. Don't be to quick to jump to conclusions bout it :)

[kaydencorey]

I thought I was Bi from about 13 -15, was happy with that, but then I realised that I wasn't noticing girls at school anymore and lost count of how many guys I had crushes on.
I still think there is a small part of me that finds girls attractive and wonder if one day I will have a girlfriend, probably highly unlikely.
Anyway, I don't see why it matters, gay/bi/curious etc etc, your mind and your body will soon let you know what's what, trust it, go with it, and enjoy!