Whats Going on??? He hurt my feelings...

[Techno Monster]

My mom took the liberty of booking a very nice vacation to Florida during spring break. When I told my bro about this he got all mad and when up stairs and started going on about how he does not want to go an he wants to stay at his friends house all spring break. I don`t know why he dos`nt want to go with mom and dad and me (im a girl 13) but ever since he turned 14 he won`t talk to mom or dad and he hates them both and he never talks to them. He moved into the basement and just stays down there and plays WoW all day. When i went to talk to him about it he got all mad and started cussing me out i did not cry or anything but it hurt me... But my question is why does he hate all of us??? will he ever stop acting like this???

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

He's going through puberty and getting older all at once. At this point in his life he just sees more fun in hanging with his friends than with his family. He'll likely come around within the next few years, but it's normal for tens to want to spend more time away from their family, and even to say that they hate their parents when deep down they really do care. Let him have his space. That isn't to say you should avoid him, but if he complains that you're bothering him, leave him alone. He won't think you're annoying, and you won't have to deal with his crabbiness.

[*Dissident*]

The second you said he played WoW I understood. As a WoW addict myself I can understand why he doesnt want to be away from home for 2 weeks. I'm going to make some guesses here...

Does his friend play WoW?
I bet he does if he wants to spend spring break there.

Ask him one question:

is he raiding over spring break? If yes, then you have your answer: he wants to stay home and play WoW.

Its an addiction, it really is. I used to be tempted to do the same thing...I have scaled my addiction...somewhat.

[jay92]

il put it down to
-no friends (other then WoW ones)
-bullied at school
-never done anything with a girl
-and he thinks your all annoying

he will grow out of it, if he doesnt its just a waste of time even trying (ive never actually seen "WoW" but people i know play it and they r freakS!

[Requin]

As jay92 said, it sounds like he MIGHT be being bullied, your parents could get in touch with the school and ask if he's all right. The fact that he's on WoW, sounds like he wants to make friends, only he doesn't actually have to meet them. That's my guess. Lol

[Hippie]

He's going through puberty and getting older all at once. At this point in his life he just sees more fun in hanging with his friends than with his family. He'll likely come around within the next few years, but it's normal for tens to want to spend more time away from their family, and even to say that they hate their parents when deep down they really do care. Let him have his space. That isn't to say you should avoid him, but if he complains that you're bothering him, leave him alone. He won't think you're annoying, and you won't have to deal with his crabbiness.

Couldn't of said it better. and she's right I'm a 14 year old boy aswell. And honestly thats exactly how it is :). I also say things to my family that I don't mean. and instead of playing WoW all Day I play Runescape. It's just at this age as a guy moods go up and down and stuff. Weird to explain. But yeah, It's just hormones ;).


Hippie

[The Batman]

il put it down to
-no friends (other then WoW ones)
-bullied at school
-never done anything with a girl
-and he thinks your all annoying

he will grow out of it, if he doesnt its just a waste of time even trying (ive never actually seen "WoW" but people i know play it and they r freakS!

I don't really think any of those has to do with his problems with his family right now because if he was getting bullied he would want to get away from that town and those people and also clearly he does have friends if he rather stay with them and why would him doing anything with a girl convince him not to go to florida with all of those hot girls in bikini's. What i thnk is that like jessie said he's going through puberty and he's at the point where he thinks his parents want to control his life and force him to do things he doesn't want to.