Confused and disgusted

[Lisa R]

I'm confused and upset with myself.I have grown-up with my twin brother seeing him naked everyday. We have bathed together since we was little and never thought anything about it sexually.Now i have these weird thoughts every time i see him naked.I know that masterbateing with my brother is wrong in some peoples eyes but can't stop having these thoughts. Have you ever wanted to or have masterbated with your brother? Is this a part of puberty to have these thoughts or am i weird?

[mango2020]

Well your just going trough puberty and your hormones are kind of all over the place right now, so being horny towards a member of your family admittedly is a bit weird, its understandable. And no it does not make you weird its just the hormones, and im sure that plenty of kids have those feelings at some points.:)

[Sarah_Ward]

Yeah, i agree with mango2020... its just hormones and no i dont think your weird coz i have had the hots for my cousin for ages too. I think it is more common too but I do think its wrong to actually 'do' stuff with him but I cant judge, its whatever makes you both happy i guess, have you ever thought that he might be having the same thoughts about you too? :)

[ChrisTJ]

I really wouldn't worry about it. I think it's pretty noraml to have thoughts like these during your teenage years. We get pretty horny through those years you know :P

[Pensive]

It's genetically programmed into us as humans to find the naked body (of whichever gender you are attracted to) attractive, that and hormones making you curious about the male body. Your brother is both male and convenient (he's naked often) to explore your curiousty by checking him out.

This is why I don't believe those on here who claim to never feel sexually attracted to naked siblings in the above context. Why? Because it's just normal biology!

In terms of having thoughts, what kind of thoughts? Do you act on them in any way? (I.e. Fantasies?). I think we've all been there in some shape or form (or will at some point)

[Lisa R]

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In terms of having thoughts, what kind of thoughts? Do you act on them in any way? (I.e. Fantasies?). I think we've all been there in some shape or form (or will at some point)[/QUOTE]

No i have never acted on my thoughts besides mastbating to the thoughts and visions i have experieced. But if given the chance to act i probably would without thinking. ...

[Sminkelaks]

Nothing wrong by having those thoughts. As others already said, it's hormones and curiosity mixed in a bag, don't worry about it. ;)

[vickilynn]

My family and I are always nude at home. So saying that, we have issues that we have to deal with. In my close family, I have my parents, older brother and sister. I see my dad and brother all the time. My brother moved out but we still see each. When he used to live with us, I use to see him masturbate. Hitting puberty, I had mixed feelings myself as I watch him all the time. My dad and I sat down and talked about the urges. He'd said the same things like the other entries. Even though we see each other nude 24/7, we are all human but we have to come to our senses. We are not beasts, but with our family we prefer not to wear nothing due because we are very comfortable with nothing on and not nothing sexual. Most people today, I feel, are afraid or don't know that being nude has nothing to do with sexual acts. The lowest ratio of rape or sexual assaults are areas where people are allowed to be nude. If people are used to nudity and not ashamed of if, most likely we have to deal with most of those criminal sexual crimes. If people were used to nudity like people are used to people wearing clothes, we won't have most of those people craving to hurt people. But my family does the same thing as clothed family. It is just those thoughts that you have to control. You will be fine, it just takes time.

[Pensive]

No i have never acted on my thoughts besides mastbating to the thoughts and visions i have experieced. But if given the chance to act i probably would without thinking. ...

There are some highly unusual 'out there' thoughts about nudity in the above comment lol. I think you'll find rapists have a lot more wrong with them than nt seeing enough naked bodies - they tend to watch extreme porn for a start. There is no correlation between a decent person like Lisa and a rapist. Stupid comment.

Back to Lisa; to be honest I have the same thoughts about my older sister, but then I accepted years ago I love her romantically. But that's just me, i'm a bit of a freak :( . At least you don't feel like you want to date him right? Cus that's horribly complicated...

It makes sense as a young horny girl you'd be excited by any reasonably attractive male of roughly your age. Cumming over thoughts of him is very different to making him cum though. Think long and hard (sorry pardon the puns) about how that would change your relationship. It's a risk thing, it could make you closer than ever or drive you both apart for the rest of your lives. Especially if you're better at making each other orgasm than a future partner...

In terms of having the fantasy, maybe it's just a kinky thought of the taboo turning you on. In that case you won't act on it, and nobody can read your mind hun :P Just don't moan his name when you cum lol

[Pretty_Girl]

I'm confused and upset with myself.I have grown-up with my twin brother seeing him naked everyday. We have bathed together since we was little and never thought anything about it sexually.Now i have these weird thoughts every time i see him naked.I know that masterbateing with my brother is wrong in some peoples eyes but can't stop having these thoughts. Have you ever wanted to or have masterbated with your brother? Is this a part of puberty to have these thoughts or am i weird?

Hormones are generally all over the place during puberty. My brother is only 5 so it would way way way perverted if I thought about him that way. It's a normal part of puberty I guess, soon enough the thoughts should subside.

[Shailene]

Hey Lisa, I think being twins you share a special bond with your brother. Twins are almost always closer than regular siblings. That said, going through puberty, I can understand why that closeness might start feeling sexual. I guess you have to try to stop seeing him naked as much ;), but like everyone else said, it's definitely hormones and you shouldn't feel guilty.

[Jennboh]

id says its perfectly normal. he's a boy with a cock and seeing his cock is making you horny. nothing wrong with that.

[Lisa R]

There are some highly unusual 'out there' thoughts about nudity in the above comment lol. I think you'll find rapists have a lot more wrong with them than nt seeing enough naked bodies - they tend to watch extreme porn for a start. There is no correlation between a decent person like Lisa and a rapist. Stupid comment.

Back to Lisa; to be honest I have the same thoughts about my older sister, but then I accepted years ago I love her romantically. But that's just me, i'm a bit of a freak :( . At least you don't feel like you want to date him right? Cus that's horribly complicated...

It makes sense as a young horny girl you'd be excited by any reasonably attractive male of roughly your age. Cumming over thoughts of him is very different to making him cum though. Think long and hard (sorry pardon the puns) about how that would change your relationship. It's a risk thing, it could make you closer than ever or drive you both apart for the rest of your lives. Especially if you're better at making each other orgasm than a future partner...

In terms of having the fantasy, maybe it's just a kinky thought of the taboo turning you on. In that case you won't act on it, and nobody can read your mind hun :P Just don't moan his name when you cum lol

N.B. What age is your bro?
We are only couple minutes apart as he is my twin. Its definitely not a romantic feels but more like thoughts. It started a few months ago when i accidentally walked in on him masterbating.Although that was the first and only time that happened and felt bad and embarrassed .Ever since i still have the image in my memory..And now every time i see him naked the image comes back to me and i have these thoughts that gets me horny .Sorry if tmi.

[Jennboh]

We are only couple minutes apart as he is my twin. Its definitely not a romantic feels but more like thoughts. It started a few months ago when i accidentally walked in on him masterbating.Although that was the first and only time that happened and felt bad and embarrassed .Ever since i still have the image in my memory..And now every time i see him naked the image comes back to me and i have these thoughts that gets me horny .Sorry if tmi.

don't think of him as your brother then. just think of him as a boy with a cock. did he have a nice cock?

[devon girl]

i wouldt worry bout it but like u i have baths and showers with my little bro (3 years younger) its fine for us but sunce he turned 10 he has got hard over me we have forrgoten bout this and didt bring it up again

[violetdaisy]

I see no problem with it. Perhaps you should let him catch you masturbate :)

[Lisa R]

Hey Lisa, I think being twins you share a special bond with your brother. Twins are almost always closer than regular siblings. That said, going through puberty, I can understand why that closeness might start feeling sexual. I guess you have to try to stop seeing him naked as much ;), but like everyone else said, it's definitely hormones and you shouldn't feel guilty.

Yea we are very close. We have always been there for each other in time of need. He has taken blame for things i did so i wouldn't get punished .And i was there to help anyway i could when he broke his arm . And many more times. So yea we are closer than most brother and sisters are. It is hard to keep from seeing him naked as now we share a bedroom untill my aunt gets her own apartment. I leave the room when he want alone time and vica versa. I often wonder if these thought will fad in time.

[Pensive]

Yea we are very close. We have always been there for each other in time of need. He has taken blame for things i did so i wouldn't get punished .And i was there to help anyway i could when he broke his arm . And many more times. So yea we are closer than most brother and sisters are. It is hard to keep from seeing him naked as now we share a bedroom untill my aunt gets her own apartment. I leave the room when he want alone time and vica versa. I often wonder if these thought will fad in time.

I'd say almost certainly these thoughts will fade in time, especially if not confronted by the sight of his penis daily lol.

The choice is really on you here. You say you would take it further without thinking given the chance, which begs the question - what is it you would do?

Masturbating watching each other is unlikely to change your relationship at all, besides making you a bit closer. On the other hand physically making each other cum will change it, how? That depends on your approach.

If you let him 'catch' you masturbating (say in bed when both awake) then that leads to setting ground rules, laying out what you both are comfortable with. For example just hands or oral, etc. Communication is the key to making that work, the second one of you stops saying how they feel it goes wrong. Like any other relationship!

But it sounds more like your hormones are going wild. Have you seen any other guys in real life like that?

[Shailene]

I think its very sweet how you and your brother have always looked out for each other. As long as you give each other space and respect each others boundaries, I am sure you will be fine. With all those raging hormones, may be a good idea to start dating so you can focus your energy on a new "object of affection" :)

[Lisa R]

don't think of him as your brother then. just think of him as a boy with a cock. did he have a nice cock?

I would say he is average for a 13 year old i guess.

[Jennboh]

well then i dont see anything wrong with thinking about him while masturbating. whatever helps u cum.

[Brenda1997]

I know how you feel since I have the same thoughts about my older brother as well sometimes.
He moved out 3 years ago, but when he's home I see him naked every day, and did so when he still lived at home.

I think it's mostly curiosity which is a part of puberty

[Pensive]

Lol very interesting thread in that nudists are conceeding points I've fought with them over before on here - muchos gracias!

[Sierra98]

well then i dont see anything wrong with thinking about him while masturbating. whatever helps u cum.

Haha! I like that part. But on the topic there's nothing wrong with you. I've masturbated with my brother cause we were both curious and as far as I can tell that didn't turn me into a horrible or messed up person :P

[princesscutie]

You can have thoughts of him and masturbate about that. But masturbating with him is another story. If you do, make sure you both are serious about it. Because if your parents find out about it, it will be very awkward.

And I have a brother which is two years younger than me. Sometimes, if I get in the mood I do masturbate by myself but not with him.

Finally, yes. Its both puberty and hormones in your body.

[Passenger]

Yes this is okay to do. As others have said it's just hormones and it's fine to be attracted to him and fantasise over him while masturbating however I IMHO it might be weird is you masturbated with him - I wouldn't with my siblings, ew! ;)

[kitten13]

be gone some time. i have cross the line my self with my bro. bj. in pass. i was ok with it myself. he has asked me for more past years. i gave in not to along. i was still ok with it. that is me. i'm not telling you to do it or that's ok. i don't think of myself sick. just think how you would fell if what you do get's out. me my self i'm ok with what i do.

[Karkat]

Incest is taboo, which is part of the reason you feel this way. It's taught to you that you should be ashamed.

However, there is the fact that you're only thinking about masturbating with him, not necessarily engaging in sexual activity or a sexual relationship. Like others have said, it's hormones. Don't feel bad that the sight of a naked human being riles those up. ;) It's your choice how you act on them, but don't feel bad about your curiosity and hormones.

[Lisa R]

Update i got up the nerve to talk to my brother. Without story telling things went pretty good. While we were camping him and i had a little talk and i told him my feelings and he let me give him a handjob. but that's all.

[StacyD]

Lisa, I think that is great! I'm so glad it went well and you two are so close. I m-bate with my brothers (and my sister and sometimes our mom and dad) and we are all very close too. It brings us close, it is pleasurable, it is fun, we all enjoy it and I don't think there is anything wrong with it at all. I love doing stuff with them. :)

[KaraaaHope]

I'm proud of you for talking to him about how you feel. That's the most important thing, even more important than anything sexual. Communication.

[Luverly]

I'd like to say that its ok that you and your bro have taken it to another level. handjob are alright to do and don't forget oral either if you both want to. let him have fun too if he needs to. but try not to let friends or anyone else know cause it could get out and make you look bad but yeah go ahead and enjoy its all just those pesky hormones needing release.

[Sminkelaks]

Awesome, congrats! :D And I agree with Luverly, you better keep it to yourselves, as friends and family may not approve. ;)

[Lisa R]

I thank everyone for the help and support that i recieved here.I wanted to let everyone know what has happened. My brother and i have been doing a lot of talking lately.We have decided that we had our fun and experience in experimentations and decided it would be best to control our hormones and concentrate on other things.We had our fun and experience and don't regret it at all as for it was a learning experience. Again thanks for the help.

[StacyD]

That's so great Lisa! So happy to hear how you communicated and how it was so positive. That's wonderful! And it's good to know you are both close enough that even if you want to do it more in the future, you probably can. That's wonderful!!

[athod]

I think its ok me and my sister had baths together and she walked in on me and 2 days later she did again and asked if she could watch

[lilmisslucylee]

Haha! I like that part. But on the topic there's nothing wrong with you. I've masturbated with my brother cause we were both curious and as far as I can tell that didn't turn me into a horrible or messed up person :P

Same here. I masturbate with my brother also..

[Emerald Dream]

OP banned. :locked: