Is this a good deal?

[jjlewis]

Ok so, I finally found out my best m8 is bi I knew he was either gay or bi, just knew it.
Anyway im not gay, but he says he will give me hand jobs/bjs whenever I want it as often as I want it and I don't have to return the favour.
Am I getting a good deal or being an arsehole and using him?
I mean we are both getting something we want right?

[CosmicNoodle]

I would think of it as abusing power. But if he really wants to, and isn't just doing it because your a friend. Then why the hell not.

[Jack russell dad]

Not really abusing him, just slip your hands down his pants every now and then to return the favor if your truly a good friend

[Irishperson15]

If you are both comfortable with it, then go for it. But, be sure to not take advantage of your friend and ensure your relationship doesn't become dependent on erm 'activities' such as this. Otherwise, have fun!

[Boar]

I would return the favor to be nice.

[mychalo]

I'd say if you are going to receive it wouldn't be very nice to have him doing it like everyday. And if you were to maybe masturbate him once in awhile that would be fair.

[Cook my Sock]

As it's been said you should at least give him a handjob every now and then, it's not really fair on him if he's giving you blowjobs & handjobs and not getting anything back. Yeah you'll both be getting something you want, but be considerate and think about what he'll like as well.

[Fireangel]

Don't worry about anything, go for it!... I think you' ll enjoy it. Are you a virgin?

[bob97]

That's good but return the favor as well. Don't be greedy!

[DylanAwesome]

It's ok if your both comfortable. But if you want you could return the favor he probably wouldn't mind

[ComfortableInChaos]

I think it's an unfair deal on his part because of course, he gets boners, too. He needs to be given a hj too if you're going let him suck you or give you a handjob. I'd do it once a week if you're gonna have him do it everyday. I don't know, but just a handjob should be better than you giving a blowjob if you're straight.

[Curious.kid]

That's a really good deal and your lucky to have your friend like that especially if is going to give you a bj then every day is a great day. Wow. You owe him a lot!

[steellord321]

You should try find him a real boyfriend who will return the favor

Until then i guess its ok but he might fall in love with you while you might get sick of it and want a girl to do that instead. And despite this "deal" he may do it 30x and then guilt trip you into ruining favor. Is what i would do lol

I would stick to jerking off or find a girl for that, if your really str8. Avoids those risks

[ksdnfkfr]

it's not like he's performing a chore. it's obviously something he really wants to enjoy doing. it's a win win situation the way it stands. you're both very lucky.

[Stingray]

Although you could get a bj from a girl or a guy, the fact that it's a guy does put it on some sort of homosexual level. But if you're doing it just for pleasure, not because you're curious or you have feelings for your friend then it's not gay, simply a means of pleasure. Either way, what would it matter if it was a gay activity?

That's my opinion anyway

[Typhlosion]

CONGRATS!

Whatever you say it is, it is. I would say it's a homosexual but not homoromantic behaviour.

[Gamma Male]

Are you sexually attracted to him, and do you enjoy the idea of penetrating him orally, or do you simply like how it feels?

[JamesSuperBoy]

My m8 says he will give me hand jobs and bjs whenever I want hes bi im straight, I don't have to do it back to him so any straight guys not going to say no to this is he?
But its him that's putting a penis in his mouth etc and im receiving it so it wouldn't matter if it was a girl or boy doing it to me yeh?
im taking him up on the offer (everyday hopefully, he did say anytime:))
this is gay activity for him but not me right?

I reckon you should think about this -
a lot of straight guys would in fact say no -

Bit whatever -

[jjlewis]

Are you sexually attracted to him, and do you enjoy the idea of penetrating him orally, or do you simply like how it feels?

yeh I enjoy the idea of penetration him orally who wouldn't he is cute and it feels amazing

[jjlewis]

it's not like he's performing a chore. it's obviously something he really wants to enjoy doing. it's a win win situation the way it stands. you're both very lucky.

that's wot I thought, win win, he wants to do it and I don't want to do it to him
both happy :D

[Body odah Man]

Ok so, I finally found out my best m8 is bi I knew he was either gay or bi, just knew it.
Anyway im not gay, but he says he will give me hand jobs/bjs whenever I want it as often as I want it and I don't have to return the favour.
Am I getting a good deal or being an arsehole and using him?
I mean we are both getting something we want right?

I think you should just take advantage of him. Besides if he's offering, he's bound to get something out of it too.

[Catholic Guy]

That is a good deal, you only abuse it when you ask him for them a lot so if you keep it under control maybe two a month or something then it's alright, if he offers more frequently then that's cool and it's good for both of you, you get head and he gets to practice on somebody

[Just Sayin]

I would say its a good deal just make sure you dont over do it

[Just Sayin]

I would say that it is somewhat gay but that doesnt mean you shouldnt go for it. I would say you just have fun with it dont worry about if its gay or not its a free blowjob man lol

[kaydencorey]

Id say its a very good deal for you :P
So long as your friend is getting as much out of it as you are, and you should return the favour sometimes, don't you think ;)
Have fun and enjoy :D

[backjruton]

I'm going to refer back to South Park here and say the stupid thing of...

If you were to suck him off, that would make you gay, but I don't think it does if he does it to you.

There you go... I think :whoops:
That's a very short example. :lol:

[Luminous]

Duplicate threads were merged.

[allan_cris]

go for it! that's every gay guy's dream to do stuff with a straight guy haha and trust me i know that :P

[Cheesydog567]

Maybe you should return the favour most guys do

[Chrisscotland]

yeh that's a good deal, but dunno why hed not want anything back from u, help him out a bit, its only fair

[Liam TWB]

I think you both need to be careful that it stays at a 'fun' level, and he doesn't end up developing feelings for you - he could get hurt if he does. Otherwise if you're sure that won't happen then go for it. But ... as the other guys have said, don't keep it one sided and then there's no question of you using him. Go for it and wank him off as well. It wont mean you're gay or even bi to just enjoy experimenting with a friend you trust. Do you reckon you could do that?

[hairy balls]

I agree with jack Russell Not really abusing him, just slip your hands down his pants every now and then to return the favor if your truly a good friend

[Bluebyrd]

I'm not sure this is really puberty related but surely a mod has seen it by now and (clearly) hasn't done anything about it so it's probably okay. Anyway, if he wants to do it and you want him to do it too then you should!

[Ryan2013]

I Would do it and return the favour to :)

[Emerald Dream]

I agree with jack Russell Not really abusing him, just slip your hands down his pants every now and then to return the favor if your truly a good friend

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