Liking my Gay friendd? HELP!!!

[Shabbychic]

okay so im just going to write it how it is and stuff like using his name i don't care about that :D


so my friend James and i are really close, I've known him since i was like 4 (i'm 15 and he is 16) we went out when we were like six and he was my first kiss and stuff :) since then we've always been really close, were best friends. The past year an a half, he has been gay. I'm totally okay with that, however, i think i have a crush on him. I don't know what to do, he said that hes not ready for a girlfriend and wants to focus on just boys at the moment, he seems pretty happy. This makes me happy. He is questioning weather he is bi sexual because he has done things with girls.
Last night we went star gazing together and it was so beautiful and just amazing, that was when i realized that i like him.


What should i do? Please help me

[Living For Love]

If he's gay, I guess there nothing you can do other than being a good friend to him. If he's bi, then you might have a chance, but as he said he wants to focus on guys at the moment, you need to give him some time. Remember he's struggling with his sexuality, you should help him with that instead of trying to pursue a relationship with him, at least for now.

[Body odah Man]

okay so im just going to write it how it is and stuff like using his name i don't care about that :D


so my friend James and i are really close, I've known him since i was like 4 (i'm 15 and he is 16) we went out when we were like six and he was my first kiss and stuff :) since then we've always been really close, were best friends. The past year an a half, he has been gay. I'm totally okay with that, however, i think i have a crush on him. I don't know what to do, he said that hes not ready for a girlfriend and wants to focus on just boys at the moment, he seems pretty happy. This makes me happy. He is questioning weather he is bi sexual because he has done things with girls.
Last night we went star gazing together and it was so beautiful and just amazing, that was when i realized that i like him.


What should i do? Please help me

He's gay and you may be gay. If it's real love don't be ashamed but go for it.

[Cook my Sock]

If he's gay, I guess there nothing you can do other than being a good friend to him. If he's bi, then you might have a chance, but as he said he wants to focus on guys at the moment, you need to give him some time. Remember he's struggling with his sexuality, you should help him with that instead of trying to pursue a relationship with him, at least for now.

This is a really good answer.

[JamesSuperBoy]

okay so im just going to write it how it is and stuff like using his name i don't care about that :D


so my friend James and i are really close, I've known him since i was like 4 (i'm 15 and he is 16) we went out when we were like six and he was my first kiss and stuff :) since then we've always been really close, were best friends. The past year an a half, he has been gay. I'm totally okay with that, however, i think i have a crush on him. I don't know what to do, he said that hes not ready for a girlfriend and wants to focus on just boys at the moment, he seems pretty happy. This makes me happy. He is questioning weather he is bi sexual because he has done things with girls.
Last night we went star gazing together and it was so beautiful and just amazing, that was when i realized that i like him.


What should i do? Please help me

He is questioning weather he is bi sexual because he has done things with girls.


Do you assume that he is questioning is sexuality - maybe this is what you hope for - be a friend

[backjruton]

I've questioned my sexuality a lot recently too but for slightly different reasons. I can't even tell if I've ever had a girlfriend :lol: As is said, you might have a chance, but I myself think it would be better to stay just best friends whatever happens and that's what I want to do while I'm confused :kitty::cool:

He's gay and you may be gay. If it's real love don't be ashamed but go for it.

The OP is a girl so that won't be a problem... :P

[Shabbychic]

He's gay and you may be gay. If it's real love don't be ashamed but go for it.


Sorry, but .. im not gay. im straight

Do you assume that he is questioning is sexuality - maybe this is what you hope for - be a friend

nope, we actually spoke about it last night, he said that he doesnt know if he is gay or weather hes bi

If he's gay, I guess there nothing you can do other than being a good friend to him. If he's bi, then you might have a chance, but as he said he wants to focus on guys at the moment, you need to give him some time. Remember he's struggling with his sexuality, you should help him with that instead of trying to pursue a relationship with him, at least for now.

Thankyou, this has really helped me, i guess i will just stay friends with him :)

[Body odah Man]

Sorry, but .. im not gay. im straight



nope, we actually spoke about it last night, he said that he doesnt know if he is gay or weather hes bi



Thankyou, this has really helped me, i guess i will just stay friends with him :)

Oh soz hahahaha, I missed your gender. My bad *blushes*

[Shabbychic]

Oh soz hahahaha, I missed your gender. My bad *blushes*

HAHA, it's okay. No worries :D