19 year old chronic masturbation addict

[jamessapp]

Hi all, my name is James and i am a 19 year old chronic masturbation addict. I remember that i started to masturbate every day at the age of 6 when masturbation was just an "unconscious" habbit that i did 2-3 times every day to make my body feel good when i had nothing else to do during the day. At the age of 9 i started to collect porn photos from adult magazines that i found at the garbage of a local store that sold magazines of this kind. Looking at these photos made me very excited because i knew they were "restricted area" to me and my penis started to get constantly erected during the day and thus i had the urge to masturbate 4-5 times every day to feel satisfied. By the age of 12 i started to ejaculate and to watch with friends of mine some porn video tapes secretly from adults and this new excitment raised the number of every day masturbation to 6-7. Finding new ways to get my penis hard (peeping at my sister in the shower and toilet and other girls at the locker room, masturbating with other boys my age, and together with the old habbits to collect porn photos and watch porn video tapes, i raised ever more the number of my every day masturbation to 8-10 times per day. At the age of 17 i started to use some sex toys to masturbate (including anal play with dildos) which made my penis rock hard and my masturbation addiction to minimum 10 times every day. From 17 and up today i still mastutrbate about 10 times every day (my "record" until today is 15 times in one day). I have to mention that i am still a virgin and never had a relationship with a girl in my life. Masturbating constantly as a child and a teen got me caught red handed by my mother and my older sister many times. My mother punished me several times by spanking me and leaving me with no clothes out on the porch to give me a lesson and my sister "owned" me by blackmailing me to tell my mother that i masturbated with her panties and so i had to do her some favors like cleaning her room and masturbate in front of her friends when they had the urge to see a penis at their teen years. I never learned my lessons though because all these punishments just fed my addiction to masturbate in every chance. I wanted to ask if there are other boys out there like me, if i must make an effort to cut back masturbation time and if i m considered a pervert.

Thank you for your patience and i will appreciate every answer or comment.

[Irishperson15]

There's no point pretending that other teenage boys don't masturbate. But, I think you should get your masturbation seen too. Masturbation seems acceptable if people do it on their own and maybe once or twice a day or so. But you have let it become excessive and you seem fairly obsessed with it. I strongly advise you seek help because not only do you seem to be taking up a lot of your time with masturbation, but you don't do anything to stop the urge. If anything, you are nurturing your urges and each time, they need to be nurtured further for you to obtain any pleasure at all. With all due respect, maybe if you didn't spend do much time doing that then you might have more time to socialise and possibly find a girlfriend or some newer friends?

Sorry if that sounded blunt, but, with anything, if it begins to become obsessive and take over your life in some respects, then it should be stopped. You need to help yourself here lad. Good luck.

[Body odah Man]

Hi all, my name is James and i am a 19 year old chronic masturbation addict. I remember that i started to masturbate every day at the age of 6 when masturbation was just an "unconscious" habbit that i did 2-3 times every day to make my body feel good when i had nothing else to do during the day. At the age of 9 i started to collect porn photos from adult magazines that i found at the garbage of a local store that sold magazines of this kind. Looking at these photos made me very excited because i knew they were "restricted area" to me and my penis started to get constantly erected during the day and thus i had the urge to masturbate 4-5 times every day to feel satisfied. By the age of 12 i started to ejaculate and to watch with friends of mine some porn video tapes secretly from adults and this new excitment raised the number of every day masturbation to 6-7. Finding new ways to get my penis hard (peeping at my sister in the shower and toilet and other girls at the locker room, masturbating with other boys my age, and together with the old habbits to collect porn photos and watch porn video tapes, i raised ever more the number of my every day masturbation to 8-10 times per day. At the age of 17 i started to use some sex toys to masturbate (including anal play with dildos) which made my penis rock hard and my masturbation addiction to minimum 10 times every day. From 17 and up today i still mastutrbate about 10 times every day (my "record" until today is 15 times in one day). I have to mention that i am still a virgin and never had a relationship with a girl in my life. Masturbating constantly as a child and a teen got me caught red handed by my mother and my older sister many times. My mother punished me several times by spanking me and leaving me with no clothes out on the porch to give me a lesson and my sister "owned" me by blackmailing me to tell my mother that i masturbated with her panties and so i had to do her some favors like cleaning her room and masturbate in front of her friends when they had the urge to see a penis at their teen years. I never learned my lessons though because all these punishments just fed my addiction to masturbate in every chance. I wanted to ask if there are other boys out there like me, if i must make an effort to cut back masturbation time and if i m considered a pervert.

Thank you for your patience and i will appreciate every answer or comment.

Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa, back up a moment to the last few lines. Ur sister DID that to you and you were OK with it? You realize that blackmail alone is illegal as fuck right? That is just one gross part of the story
As for ur addiciton-wow. I don't consider you a pervert, masturbation is natural, but find it odd that u'd let ur sister blackmail u like that

[jamessapp]

Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa, back up a moment to the last few lines. Ur sister DID that to you and you were OK with it? You realize that blackmail alone is illegal as fuck right? That is just one gross part of the story
As for ur addiciton-wow. I don't consider you a pervert, masturbation is natural, but find it odd that u'd let ur sister blackmail u like that

Yes my sister did that to me because she caught me masturbating and ejaculating in her panties and her high heels plently of times and she wanted to "punish" me with her own way by telling me "i will tell mom and she will spank you unless you clean up my room" and sometimes "you better take your cock out and masturbate in front of me and my friends now you little perv or i will tell mom and she will spank you and leave you all naked in the front porch"....she was 1 year older than me and i guess she needed someone to "own" as my mom is very strict to both of us and somehow she needed to feel the boss too sometimes....as i mentioned my sisters or my moms punishments never bothered me much as they both kinda fed my urge to masturbate even more...maybe i am also a perv that likes to be punished to get even more horny or likes to get owned by strict females cause whenever i was punished my cock would get rock hard for hours and my ejaculations after this were massive...thats why i asked if i am considered a pervert....

[Body odah Man]

Yes my sister did that to me because she caught me masturbating and ejaculating in her panties and her high heels plently of times and she wanted to "punish" me with her own way by telling me "i will tell mom and she will spank you unless you clean up my room" and sometimes "you better take your cock out and masturbate in front of me and my friends now you little perv or i will tell mom and she will spank you and leave you all naked in the front porch"....she was 1 year older than me and i guess she needed someone to "own" as my mom is very strict to both of us and somehow she needed to feel the boss too sometimes....as i mentioned my sisters or my moms punishments never bothered me much as they both kinda fed my urge to masturbate even more...maybe i am also a perv that likes to be punished to get even more horny or likes to get owned by strict females cause whenever i was punished my cock would get rock hard for hours and my ejaculations after this were massive...thats why i asked if i am considered a pervert....

Reading this rlly makes me wonder about ur sanity. If it were me I'd be calling CPS or the cops or somethin, not just ENJOYING it. No offense but that's kinda gross.

[Typhlosion]

I respect you mate, your max is triple of my max. How can you even do it?

Seriously, you should definitely see a professional ASAP. That behavior is way too far from normal that some advice over here will solve the problem 100%.

[backjruton]

I don't consider you a pervert as for part of this I'm even worse as my record for 24 hours one time was 30 which is 6 less than the world record :lol::lol: I'm not going to criticize anything because I would be a hypocrite badly judging what other people do with their time. I get constant boners in college, they don't last very often but my friends now know what to do to give me them and it's very easy :P but I don't know because at most they give me a semi that "expands out of my trousers". Earlier I was stood outside with this girl who was sat down and she kept telling me to "Hide it" :kitty: I max on average probably 5-6 times a day which is technically 2-3 so to me this amount is quite extreme, but I'm not going to judge anyone on what they do... And I don't think spanking you for it is a justifiable punishment either when a lot of other people do it, and neither is blackmail. That's really bad. There are better things to do than that. That LAST post is WEIRD though (I didn't read it before I started writing this) and I would never do what I do to other people's property. Maybe if she was your girlfriend, but SISTER :what:
Yes my sister did that to me because she caught me masturbating and ejaculating in her panties and her high heels plently of times and she wanted to "punish" me with her own way by telling me "i will tell mom and she will spank you unless you clean up my room" and sometimes "you better take your cock out and masturbate in front of me and my friends now you little perv or i will tell mom and she will spank you and leave you all naked in the front porch"
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10 times a day doesn't seem too bad to me as I've done more than that quite recently on one of the days I've been on my own. I'm not going to criticize that. And I know doing what we do is natural as a lot of other people do it, I don't think spanking or blackmail are justifiable when a lot of other people do it and most parents (especially mine... eventually) are OK with it. People often say you don't need to do anything about it unless you're missing routines because of it and a lot of other things and it gets too in the way of what you do. If it does, I would get help but... I don't see a point in that if you can work around it perfectly well. I just don't think sniffing panties is a good idea..

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[Hermes]

There isn't a number of times per day at which it suddenly becomes too much - the real test is whether you spend so much time masturbating that other aspects of you life are being neglected and I suspect in your case that is indeed happenning.

I would try being disciplined about doing other things - arrange to meet friends or go on a date, do homework if you are still studying etc. and plan these so that while doing them you won't be tempted to masturbate instead, for example by being in public or in view of your parents, a roommate etc.

You could also usefully cut out or at least cut down on the porn and toys, i.e. anything you use to turn you on so you can then masturbate. Instead masturbate when you are naturally horny enough not to need these props.

If, after trying these two strategies you still have a problem then you need professional help.

[Jason_Monty]

Umm.. Ever consulted a professional? Especially over the whole thing if you masturbating with your sisters panties..

[jamessapp]

no i havent consulted a professional about it...i masturbate with my sister panties lots of times and i also like to sniff it when i am ready to ejaculate cause it helps me squirt big amounts of sperm and relieve my balls from the pressure...does this makes me a perv?

[LunarScorpio]

Seriously, you should definitely see a professional ASAP. That behavior is way too far from normal that some advice over here will solve the problem 100%.

I have to agree here.

The one bit of advice I can give though is to take it easy. Cut it down in stages, take it from 15 to 10 a day and then down from there, its like quitting anything. You need to take less of it and then you can stop it.

But you do need professional help, this is not going to be fixed by a bunch of teens

[jamessapp]

today i masturbated 16 times...i will try to cut to 12 or 13 times the next days although my balls are full of sperm this week and if i dont ejaculate many times they are going to get swollen...plus my 9 inch cock is so stiff all day it looks like a steel bar or something...i will try though and post my progress (or my failure)...thnx to everyone's comments

[jjlewis]

wots wrong with jerking off loads? its normal and brilliant everyone does it

[dakota1998]

You seriously have a sis problem. I did not see you have a girlfriend, Try a gf and she can help in ways a 19 year old needs to be treated I think. Not to upset you but my brother married when he was 21.

[jamessapp]

yes i admit i masturbate over my sister many times every day...i guess i am a perv like my sister always says....

[likemike]

Get counseling

[jamessapp]

my mom said to me that if i dont stop masturbating within 6 months from now she will castrate me...she says its better to have a sissy boy with a pussy-like hole then a boy with a sperm hose that squirts sperm all over the place several times every day...

[AvMan]

There's no point pretending that other teenage boys don't masturbate. But, I think you should get your masturbation seen too. Masturbation seems acceptable if people do it on their own and maybe once or twice a day or so. But you have let it become excessive and you seem fairly obsessed with it. I strongly advise you seek help because not only do you seem to be taking up a lot of your time with masturbation, but you don't do anything to stop the urge. If anything, you are nurturing your urges and each time, they need to be nurtured further for you to obtain any pleasure at all. With all due respect, maybe if you didn't spend do much time doing that then you might have more time to socialise and possibly find a girlfriend or some newer friends?

Sorry if that sounded blunt, but, with anything, if it begins to become obsessive and take over your life in some respects, then it should be stopped. You need to help yourself here lad. Good luck.

Yeah i agree entirely with all this ^^ There gets to a stage when "A lot" soon becomes too much. Irishperson15 is right, the more you do it the more your body will accept it as normal and the further your habit will be developed. In my opinion it's important that you go and see someone before it takes over your life any more, as others have already said. Good luck :P

[deregisterme]

I'm so jealous of ur size and ur j/o abilities :-)

[GoWA_Vet]

my mom said to me that if i dont stop masturbating within 6 months from now she will castrate me...she says its better to have a sissy boy with a pussy-like hole then a boy with a sperm hose that squirts sperm all over the place several times every day...

call cps or the cops on that nonsense. Not only illegal, but highly unsafe.

[jamessapp]

call the cops on my mom??

[GoWA_Vet]

if she threatens to castrate you, she's hardly worth calling a mother

[Remora]

I'm so jealous of ur size and ur j/o abilities :-)

Look john, sorry if i'm offending you or anything but if you have nothing to add to resolve this mans' problem, then please don't reply to his post. He's in a need of help and comes here to ask for it and you say you praise him for his tool down there, i mean wow....

For the OP: Your sister blackmailing you is illegal. Your mother threatening to have you castrated is illegal too. But generally, you depend on the two of them (more on your mom, but your sister serves as a third eye), and i guess you have the loyalty to not report them to enforcers of the law.

But if it ever gets to the point where you have to, don't be afraid to. Just start gathering proof right now so you can use it later if you're in trouble. You won't nessicarily be needing it, but just in case she does decide to rob you of your manliness, you'll be happy you have the proof from the past.

I hope your issue is resolved soon.

- Simon

[jamessapp]

she tells me that since i started to masturbate...i think she only wants to play the strict parent...maybe because she knows that i m going to be a masturbator and that cant be changed...but to laugh a little i ll tell her that i m going to call the cops if she tells me that again...see her reactions :D

[jamessapp]

thnx Simon...but i dont really feel threatend by both my mom or my sister (my sis does not lives with us any longer anyway...) i know that my mom is over reacting because she is used to play the strict parent but she wont really try anything....i only wanted to show you how my family reacts to my chronic masturbation addiction....oohh and i think that John only wanted to give a "light character" to my situation....thnx for all the comments guys i really appreciate it

[deregisterme]

thnx Simon...but i dont really feel threatend by both my mom or my sister (my sis does not lives with us any longer anyway...) i know that my mom is over reacting because she is used to play the strict parent but she wont really try anything....i only wanted to show you how my family reacts to my chronic masturbation addiction....oohh and i think that John only wanted to give a "light character" to my situation....thnx for all the comments guys i really appreciate it

Good to hear :-). I don't think your mother would do anything too serious now. Does she still catch you? What's the longest you've gone without. Have you tried leaving it for a couple of days?

[jamessapp]

yes my mom still catches me masturbating and 3 months ago she caught me when i was ready to ejaculate a big load...she stood there staring at me and while i couldnt hold back i squirted 12 spurts of cum...3 of them (the first 3) was the longest and hitted her legs...she stood there obviously mad and told me in cold voice to take a tissue and clean her legs before she force me to clean the entire cum covered floor with my tongue...i tried to leave my cock and my balls without ejaculation lots of times but after 2-3 days my balls gets swollen from all the sperm inside them and my cock remains super stiff all day...as i already mentioned this happens to me since i was 6 and probably it will last all my life...the doc that examined me when i was 12 said that i was born a masturbator with a long cock and a pair of balls that produces lots of sperm so i have to relieve myself several times every day...i hope i answered your question and thnx for the comment

[plebble]

No you're fine... I'd cut back if I were you, can't be good for your heart.
Your mother punishes you for masturbating? That sucks. So does your sister using that to her advantage by blackmailing you

[jamessapp]

yes my mom punished me a lot when i was younger when she caught me masturbating...and yes my sister used that to her advantage when i was younger and my sister still lived with us

[mattjohnson]

I started masturbating in the fourth grade. I took my cock out under my desk and stroked almost the entire class.

You should fully support your mom's punishment and start being always naked inside and outside.