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ImagineRepublicCity
May 17th, 2014, 10:56 PM
OKAY GUYS I TERRIBLY NEED YOUR HELP!
(If this is inappropriate, sorry)

So this is what happened:

So me being me, I was talking to one of my mates about masturbating and stuff like that because you know, I'm curious on how guys do things and so we were just talking about it and then he said "What if I told you I was pleasuring myself now?" and I didn't know what to say because it made me feel uncomfortable and he told me the thought of me knowing turns him on and at this point, I have no idea what to do so I was just replying with "okay" and "I don't know," stuff like that.

So this continues for a bit and then he asks me if I've ever wanted to send nudes before, so I answered honestly and said "The rare occurrence, but I don't think I ever will" and then he asked me if I wanted to send some with him but I totally read it wrong and I thought he said "What would you send?" which he didn't, so I said "I don't know" and after, I realised that wasn't what he said and at this point I'm like "Oh god, what did I just get myself into"

Because really, I don't like being mean to people which are my friends, I won't go "STOP ASKING ME YOU SHIT I DON'T CARE IF YOU JERK OFF OVER ME" so the whole time, I was just saying "Sorry but no, I don't want to" and he kept on bugging me so it got to the point where I just said "Sorry, I have to go" and I muted the conversation.

I don't know what to do because I don't know if he was being serious or not and he's my friend (kinda) but I would never do that (at this age and stuff anyway) but he wouldn't stop asking me. I don't want to completely ignore him because he does take the same train as me and hangs out with the same people as me, but I don't know. What do I do!?

onmycount
May 17th, 2014, 11:05 PM
You should tell him what you really feel.

Something like this, "I am really not into these things. It makes me uncomfortable. I know I kind of started the topic (Did you? You asked, right?) but that doesn't mean I'm open to things like this. So, pleaae stop. If you can't respect that then we should just stop talking for awhile, get over it or something."

You should really stop being nice at times. They'll take advantage of you. You should voice out really.

BuryYourFlame
May 18th, 2014, 03:04 AM
If he's not going to respect your boundaries and the fact that it's making you uncomfortable, personally, I wouldn't bother talking to them at all. Maybe he's not as much of a friend as you thought he was. Be as aggressive as you have to be about it, there's no excuse for not respecting your boundaries. If he tries talking to you on the train after this, just move away, or if he continues further tell a train guard etc. that he is bothering you.