What should I do?

[KieranRules]

So, I'm gay and I was talking to my supposedly straight friend and he asked me about gay sex. Of course, I couldn't tell him because I'm a virgin so instead I told him about anal masturbation and all that... but then he said he wanted to try gay sex and angled it at me. So I just told him to try it on his own and avoided telling him I would let us 'experiment'. Now I don't know what to do or even say, I want to try it but I'm scared it I will regret it and I don't want a ruined friendship...

Guys, I need you opinion on this one... I'm so awkwardly stuck at the moment! :confused:

[Collins1]

It does sound like he aimed it at you - but do what ever you comfortable with.
If you don't want to do it, then don't! If you do, then bring it up with him again, then you will have to face the consequences if there are any.
Just remember to stay protected if you do decide to go ahead!

[Lord Of Curiosity]

As long as you're ok with it then ehy not? If you are gay then this is the type of stuff that should excite you, or not? go ahead and try. He wants to try so I dont think he will destroy your friendship.

[KieranRules]

It does sound like he aimed it at you - but do what ever you comfortable with.
If you don't want to do it, then don't! If you do, then bring it up with him again, then you will have to face the consequences if there are any.
Just remember to stay protected if you do decide to go ahead!

Thanks, I guess I'll just leave it then. I just needed someone else's opinion. :)

As long as you're ok with it then ehy not? If you are gay then this is the type of stuff that should excite you, or not? go ahead and try. He wants to try so I dont think he will destroy your friendship.

I'm just thinking of age and such though

-merged double post. -Emerald Dream

[steellord321]

Its hard to guess how someone will react, even if its their idea. I'd take it slow if you gonna do it cause if he's really str8...yes it can ruin friendship *and* you won't end up a long term couple so why not find someone else?

If he's not str8 and comes out later then you can do whatever

Let me tell you...once i went down on a str8 friend (my idea though i admit) kind of spur of moment...then he went to "return the favor" but didn't enjoy that at all and left. Didn't talk to me for weeks after that

[kaydencorey]

Its a tricky situation, a couple of my srraight friends have hinted at doing a little experimenting with me, it would in a flash,:P but i would worry as you do that it would ruin our friendship if they feel guilty about it and wish they hadnt done it.
If you both do anything make sure you are very certain its what you want.

[britishboy69]

If you don't want to you don't have to! But if you do and the offer is there go for it:)

[Unde4dmau5]

If you want my opinion, I would say go for it. Its obvious that your friend is curious. And if you want to, then do what you feel is best. It is not like anybody is making you agree to anything. It would be the same worries for me as well. But do what YOU want. If you buck up the confidence to go for it and your friend enjoys it, then you not only discovered something about your friend, but you also had your first time. But it's all up to you friend.

[Just Sayin]

if you arent comfortable with trying it then you shouldnt but if you wanna try i would ask him if he still does and go for it i dont see any way it would ruin your friendship

[wwad]

I've been in this exact situation. Be prepared for some awkwardness. Its common, when your really horny - to want to do sexual things that you wouldn't think otherwise. After you have sex - its possible he will feel uncomfortable seeing he is "straight". Since you are gay - it will be normal sex, more or less. Sometimes my straight friends just stopped talking to me after we fooled around

[reiddec2]

If you're not comfortable man then just tell him off if he persists to much!

[jjlewis]

if you both want to do it then do it, shouldn't ruin things if u both really wanted it

[Liam TWB]

I don't know how old you are but when you get a boyfriend you really like, then you'll know for sure that it's the right time. This sounds like something you're really unsure of - whether you want to do it, or what the consequences might be. Well, you could end up with a ruined friendship because it was very awkward, or it might draw you closer as friends.

Something else to consider is that anal sex can be uncomfortable at first, and you really should use condoms and lube. There are other ways the two of you could start having fun that are ummm.. quite handy! ;)

[CrazyPerson101]

So, I'm gay and I was talking to my supposedly straight friend and he asked me about gay sex. Of course, I couldn't tell him because I'm a virgin so instead I told him about anal masturbation and all that... but then he said he wanted to try gay sex and angled it at me. So I just told him to try it on his own and avoided telling him I would let us 'experiment'. Now I don't know what to do or even say, I want to try it but I'm scared it I will regret it and I don't want a ruined friendship...

Guys, I need you opinion on this one... I'm so awkwardly stuck at the moment! :confused:


Well it sounds like he wants to try it with you. It depends , do you want to try it ? Are you comfortable with it ? Im not gonna say go try it but if you want to and he wants to ... well then choose. If you like him, this is a chance for you to like him on a deeper level...... ( I missed my chance 3 years ago ) so im telling you, wait as long as you want but someday , it will be too late...

[KieranRules]

Just as a reply to all who have posted, it's helped a lot and thanks! I can also inform you all that I have made a decision thanks to all your opinions and stories. If you want to know details then I may decide to tell you but only via pm as I would rather not all of VT knowing :P

Again, thanks! :)

[allan_cris]

just go for it! you both want it... this might be a one time only kind of thing just take things slow

[NeuroTiger]

Just tell him that you aren't comfortable with gay sex and don't want to try it...

[Hundred Spirited God]

as long as you and him are not mad at each other,everything's fine,something like that only goes wrong if you get caught or mad,so you should do it

[Straya]

You have to be comfortable with it but me and my friend do things all the time and it hasn't ruined our friendship

[Fireangel]

So, I'm gay and I was talking to my supposedly straight friend and he asked me about gay sex. Of course, I couldn't tell him because I'm a virgin so instead I told him about anal masturbation and all that... but then he said he wanted to try gay sex and angled it at me. So I just told him to try it on his own and avoided telling him I would let us 'experiment'. Now I don't know what to do or even say, I want to try it but I'm scared it I will regret it and I don't want a ruined friendship...

Guys, I need you opinion on this one... I'm so awkwardly stuck at the moment! :confused:

Lucky kid. go for it. How old are you?

Just as a reply to all who have posted, it's helped a lot and thanks! I can also inform you all that I have made a decision thanks to all your opinions and stories. If you want to know details then I may decide to tell you but only via pm as I would rather not all of VT knowing :P

Again, thanks! :)

How was it?

[AndrewWiggins]

Dude, just go for it. it's better than wondering.

[KieranRules]

Lucky kid. go for it. How old are you?

I'm 15 and nah, we decided not to go further on personal terms. :)

[swimmerguy72]

If you're both ok and comfortable with it then go for it

[Fireangel]

I'm 15 and nah, we decided not to go further on personal terms. :)

You have the latest word.

[valamar]

you should go after him!

[ryne113]

Do what ever feels okay to you.