What does sex-drive feel to you?

[flappybird]

I am 17, male.

I am generally in two moods as far as girls are concerned.

1- I am usually in the 'normal' mode when I can COMPLETELY ignore a girl's sexuality and think of her as a normal person.

2- But there seems to be a switch in my head which changes my mindset which I can turn on or it triggers automatically in some circumstances and I start finding girls which I otherwise would ignore, very sexy. When this happens I see a girls everywhere. In images, on the internet, around me, outside from the window, everywhere! This seems to happen a LOT more when I am alone or lonely. I start finding every girl very pretty and bodily attractive.

This is weird for because both 'modes' are COMPLETELY opposite. Black and White. I feel normal in mode 1 and a pervert in 2.

I enjoy to be a part of both, but is this normal? Do you experience the same? Or are you somewhere in the middle?

[bob97]

I'm usually in your 2nd mode. In school when I walk around I always check the girls out. Its normal don't worry. Every guy is like that. I'm jealous of your normal mode though lol

[flappybird]

I'm usually in your 2nd mode. In school when I walk around I always check the girls out. Its normal don't worry. Every guy is like that. I'm jealous of your normal mode though lol

Nah. Perhaps I am exaggerating the 1st mode. But I really do feel how I look at girls is completely in my hands. I find it pleasurable to look at girls that way, so it's hard to put down the 2nd mode. But when I want I can switch it off and all that libido flies out the window.

[bob97]

Nah. Perhaps I am exaggerating the 1st mode. But I really do feel how I look at girls is completely in my hands. I find it pleasurable to look at girls that way, so it's hard to put down the 2nd mode. But when I want I can switch it off and all that libido flies out the window.

Yeah. I do the same thing with friends that are girls. I wouldn't dare check them out or anything like that.

[TheFSM]

I have a few different "modes"
In one, which is the most common one to find me in, I'm a little "flirty" in a slightly annoying way.

In another, I'm kind of protective over a girl.

Then there are a bunch of random ones that don't really matter.

[nudyboy14]

A lot of times i get a really strong urge to want to have sex, and thats all i can think about.

[Hermes]

The thing that seems odd about your description is concious control. It is quite normal to have horny times, when you are really sensitive to sexual cues which would include pretty girls and times when you are less sensitive. I think for most guys the way it works is pretty much that you are in the less-sexual mode just after cumming and then gradually go into the sexual mode so the longer it has been since your last cum the more you tend to see sexual cues in every situation.

[Avacon]

It's weird, 'cause it seems like I can do the type 1 thing that you're talking about with most people, but with some I just can't seem to turn type 2 off - I mean, I can act normally, but often my brain's just going to other things...

[DeletedAccount123]

I'm in mode 1 a lot, because it takes me a while to build up the hormones I guess. Like I have never ever in my life jerked off more than once a day. Ever! In fact sometimes I'll go a week or two, both because the self-control feels good, but also because when I finally do bust, it's amazing.

[steellord321]

I get both modes but #2 only when really horny and also

3) I find some guys and others just certain parts and others i'm not into at all. This feeling can set off when i see a guy i want, then its like i can't stop thinking of him. My heart will race, i'll sweat and stare and smile all without realizing. Then other times i could be alone just doing work or video game and all sudden my mind will conjure up image of some hot guy i know without clothes or doing things together.

But i would not get turned on by sweaty 300 pound football lineman unless real horny and i bet there's times 300 pound girl won't turn you on. You might just remember more the times you're "out of control horny"

[backjruton]

I get the feeling sometimes when I lose some attraction to guys and gain some towards girls and it just depends on my general mood so I just ignore it because I know how my usual mind is set most of the time :rolleyes: I don't seem to know what I'm doing a lot of the time so I flirt with guys and girls both around the same amount like yesterday standing infront of a girl who was sat down when I had a bulge poking through my trousers :eek::lol: As I say, I don't know how I feel, and especially when I'm as tired as I am right now, but I do experience it :P