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So, I have only one parent, which is my mom. My dad was (possibly still is?) a donor so there was never any contact with him what so ever. Aside from my one mom I have two sisters, one 20 and the other 27. (I am 13). My problem is when ever my sisters or my mom have the slightest thought of me being with a girlfriend they immediately start teasing me by saying "OOOOhhhh! Tell us which girl do you like at school! Tell us! Tell us! Tell us!". I know math tests can get you under pressure easily. But they doing this is simply the most stress fall thing ever, just after two seconds when they start teasing me I am so nervous I cant speak. I want to say "guys! Stop it! It makes me feel uncomfortable!" but instead I always say "I don't like any girl! Really!" that is a lie though.

Basicly, there is a girl I like at my class, and when ever we are alone in the studying hall together or something I tease her a bit and we have a bit of fun and I am guessing by now she can just guess that I like her a bit because boys teasing and playing with girls in grade 7 at my school isn't normal. But I never have the nerves to tell her I like her or ask her out or anything because I need advice.

How can I feel comfortable about talking to my mom about it?

Sorry it's long, thanks for advice.

[Living For Love]

I think they tease you about it because you're the youngest and the only male figure in the family. Honestly, if you talk to your mother or sisters about it, they will understand. If they start to make fun again, say that you've never had a dad to talk about that kind of stuff to, and they should realise this time would come and that you need some advice. There's no need to feel uncomfortable, they seem easy going people, and they should be willing to help.

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Thanks.

[Camazotz]

So, I have only one parent, which is my mom. My dad was (possibly still is?) a donor so there was never any contact with him what so ever. Aside from my one mom I have two sisters, one 20 and the other 27. (I am 13). My problem is when ever my sisters or my mom have the slightest thought of me being with a girlfriend they immediately start teasing me by saying "OOOOhhhh! Tell us which girl do you like at school! Tell us! Tell us! Tell us!". I know math tests can get you under pressure easily. But they doing this is simply the most stress fall thing ever, just after two seconds when they start teasing me I am so nervous I cant speak. I want to say "guys! Stop it! It makes me feel uncomfortable!" but instead I always say "I don't like any girl! Really!" that is a lie though.

How can I feel comfortable about talking to my mom about it?

Sorry it's long, thanks for advice.

I think they tease you about it because you're the youngest and the only male figure in the family. Honestly, if you talk to your mother or sisters about it, they will understand. If they start to make fun again, say that you've never had a dad to talk about that kind of stuff to, and they should realise this time would come and that you need some advice. There's no need to feel uncomfortable, they seem easy going people, and they should be willing to help.

Exactly this. You're the baby of the family and the only male. They just want to tease you when you finally get a girlfriend. As for asking her out, you may get better responses asking in the Relationships/Dating section, but I would suggest just talking to her in study hall and ask her if she would be interested in seeing a movie with you, or hanging out with you after school, or something like that. Start simple. You're both young for formal dating, but little dates like that are normal for young teens.

Better yet, ask your sisters for advice. I'm sure they can give some good tips on how you should ask out the girl you like. Plus it'll make them happy that you trust them with your feelings.