Help…!!!

[Coolguy10890]

So we just had 3 classes of our swimming unit in P.E. And when the guys and I go into the locker room, all the other guys except for me and 2 others don't get naked when we shower, we shower in our swim suits, also all the guys that get naked share showers together when I shower alone. Also I try my best to get showered and changed and I leave quickly, most of the guys recently asked me why don't I get naked or share a shower or whatever, and they ask me if I'm uncomfortable, well personally, I'm so-so… I'd love to get naked and stuff like that, but I'm afraid I'd get a boner and I feel like, yes I probably would… and idk what they would say if I get a boner… Guys what do u think I should do?
I wanna be like them and do that but I can't cuz I feel like getting boners would stop me. And none of them have gotten boners (that I know of, cuz they get naked but all cover and hide their dicks)

P.S. As my signature says, I'm Bi, but no one except for my really close friends know that AND I'm pretty sure the guys in the locker room are all st8 but just really curious cuz they always fool around and talk bout hot girls and etc…

[bob97]

Mhh. Difficult situation. Your sort of in a lose lose situation. Either you be a loner alittle or everybody finds out your bi. I'm straight but I understand what you mean. I'd just say that your uncomfortable being naked around them. They shouldn't ask more. You should come out but that's a different story. Good luck

[ksdnfkfr]

Maybe they're covering themselves because they get erections too. i mean it's just part of being a teen. one guy in gym has one all the time and his nickname is "j bone" cause it kinda shaped like the letter J lol. so i mean we are pretty comfortable around each other about that being guys. i'm really small all over compared to most of the others, like i still look like i'm 11 almost, but everybody is accepting. not many i think are 100% confident about their bodies to make fun of anyone. and the showering together thing is kinda a male bonding type thing that probably boots confidence and helps being less shy in general. I'm bi too but not an issue. like i said its like a bonding type thing not a sexual type thing

[Catholic Guy]

From what it sounds like they wouldn't mind if you got a boner, try getting naked and sharing a shower with a close friend or something, if it's something you want to do then you just have to acclimatise your body to it so wasting time and not doing it straight away isn't helping

[Coolguy10890]

But what if I get a boner and someone says something? Should I just be like "oh well that girl (name) looked hot today in her bikini?"

[DeletedAccount123]

But what if I get a boner and someone says something? Should I just be like "oh well that girl (name) looked hot today in her bikini?"

Exactly, just laugh about it. Besides unless someone is a total jerk it's not like they're gonna mention it.

Also here's two tricks:

1. If you sort of start getting hard turn the water up REALLY hot, like almost scalding. Don't burn yourself obviously (duh) but that'll sort of distract your brain and you'll get soft.

2. If that doesn't work, keep the water hot but also sort of tug your sack so it's between your legs if that makes sense. That will pull your erection down so it's not sticking out. It's hard to explain. I had to do that once and it worked. It just looked like I have an enormous dick, not an erection. (Which is funny since I'm normally a grower, not a shower.)

[Coolguy10890]

Ok thank you everyone! I'll see how it goes in the meantime, please keep sending in advice!

[JamesSuperBoy]

Ok thank you everyone! I'll see how it goes in the meantime, please keep sending in advice!

At least you are not alone as 2 other guys shower in speedos - can you ask them why - maybe they are like you wanting to but not sure then maybe you just all decide to shower with the others.

Take your towel in just cover up quick - not easy but try a few quick showers

[deregisterme]

Ok thank you everyone! I'll see how it goes in the meantime, please keep sending in advice!

Give it a try. Boys do sometimes get boners in open showers. If someone tries to wind you up by going "you have a boner" just point out that he looked and noticed. No-one means anything by it, it happens to most of us.

[Blank999]

don't worry about it. Im sure they prob don't mind. and if they do say something just sort of be like so what. after all they are the ones talking about bikinis and stuff so they would think your getting hard because of that amd mo one wil think your bi

[Coolguy10890]

At least you are not alone as 2 other guys shower in speedos - can you ask them why - maybe they are like you wanting to but not sure then maybe you just all decide to shower with the others.

Take your towel in just cover up quick - not easy but try a few quick showers

I don't think I'll ask them cuz I don't wanna get them into the same situation as I am by saying: "Why don't u be naked?" Or whatever, since at this point I am in that situation of being asked why.

[JamesSuperBoy]

I don't think I'll ask them cuz I don't wanna get them into the same situation as I am by saying: "Why don't u be naked?" Or whatever, since at this point I am in that situation of being asked why.

I guess they must be being asked as well - you get asked

[Coolguy10890]

I guess they must be being asked as well - you get asked

They are changed and get out faster than I am so they don't get asked. Idk how they are even able to get out that fast lol.

[Coolguy10890]

I added a poll to the thread just now so also please give me your responses there too!

[KieranRules]

Just do what YOU are comfortable with, if you have a day when you want to; get naked and shower or if not; then don't get naked. You are bi though so people may not take kindly to a boner in the shower room. Never the less, it's your body and you can do what ever you want with it. :)

[Typhlosion]

Do what you're most comfortable with. If you want to shower nude, go for it. It would be awkward, however, if you shower one day nude and clothed on the rest.

Do it when you're ready. If you want to.

[Baseball1999]

If you don't feel comfortable, then just continue to shower by yourself :)

[steellord321]

Pretty sure from all i read here you will get more grief for not going naked than if you got a boner now and then. But i think also you'll get used to going naked after 1st or 2nd time and boner shouldn't happen very often. You might be surprised it becomes non issue.

Also if anyone gives you crap you can just go back to wearing speedo next time. I mean what do they expect

[Coolguy10890]

Thank you guys again so much for the advice, we didn't get to swim today because it was a substitute teacher, but the next time I have P.E. to swim is Thursday, I'll see how it goes and let you guys know then!

[Zanman11]

Just try going naked once and see how it is. Don't be ashamed because all guys have the same parts. Just go to shower and that's it. Don't worry about your surroundings

[Luminous]

All surveys and polls belong in Questions for Both.

Puberty for Boys :arrow2: Questions for Both Boys and Girls

[digzchickz]

i always find it more comfortable to do what the majority is doing. i wouldnt want to be the only nakee guy in the shower if everyone kept their trunks on, but if most of the guys shower naked then i dont want to have trunks on.

[casperathome]

[I]'m digzchickz with I usually go with the flow. Funny tho...the most that ever happened is maybe a semi (maybe 'cause of nervousness) I'm only 2.5 soft but 5.5 + hard but I'm ok with my size. Some guys are bigger some smaller *who really cares*. I know I fit in the average size. I have been to our nude beach here in Vancouver and it's all good. Most guys are 'normal' size/ Some bigger some smaller. You can tell when someone got a semi. Long and short ( no pun intended) no one really cares but you. I mean do you judge people on the size of their penis?

[Coolguy10890]

i always find it more comfortable to do what the majority is doing. i wouldnt want to be the only nakee guy in the shower if everyone kept their trunks on, but if most of the guys shower naked then i dont want to have trunks on.

Thank you for the advice! Plus I had swimming today and I watched to see if anyone got naked first and there were only 2 who did and the rest were in their trunks so, I went with the majority.

Next time, I hope the majority is naked ;) I'm ready… I'm not scared anymore.

Thank you everyone for your advice!!!!

[Swagging god]

Thank you for the advice! Plus I had swimming today and I watched to see if anyone got naked first and there were only 2 who did and the rest were in their trunks so, I went with the majority.

Next time, I hope the majority is naked ;) I'm ready… I'm not scared anymore.

Thank you everyone for your advice!!!!

Glad u got some confidence

[german_boy]

Don't be afraid

[hockeyfan]

If u want to go naked than then go with the minority.

[Coolguy10890]

Sadly it was the last day of swimming and only 1 person went naked but since everyone (and me) have swim trunks and then UNDIES under the swim trunks, I decided to shower with my undies. Nobody said anything, it was fun for me :)

Maybe next year in P.E.…

[Upse]

Just tell them "hey guys I might get a Boner but not cuz I see your dicks so plz don't make fun of me"