View Full Version : Can i ask you guys something?
Joey15Lon
May 16th, 2014, 05:01 AM
Just a little concerned over a few things, my cousin and me, both male, same age have had something going with each other since we were like 10, sexually, just playing about with each other when we had no idea what we were doing to start with.
But its very different now, our family's are very close and he's like my brother I love him very very much we have grown up together but as a family member and as something more too, we see each other everyday and things progressed to doing everything with each other except going all the way.
But now we want too, no one knows about us obviously but we want to be with each other, and now that we want to have sex, I'm a bit worried that we are really doing something wrong now, but we cant help it, we just have to be near each other and we are turned on, he's gorgeous.
If our family's found out do you think they could do anything about it?
Do you think this is really disgusting, I know he's my family too, but we cant help how we feel about each other.
Could we get into serious trouble.
Sorry for asking so much but I don't really have anyone else I can even mention about this too.
Gamma Male
May 16th, 2014, 05:16 AM
I say go for it. He's only your cousin.
Look at it this way. If it's really wrong, then who are you hurting?
ksdnfkfr
May 16th, 2014, 05:18 AM
himm... well i have a cousin my age who i've practically been raised with and we are super close. we often sleep in the same bed and he often wraps his arms around me like in a protective way. but because of the fact we're close family, i've never felt sexual towards him even though i love him so much, think he's beautiful and i'm pretty much gay. also i think it could be one of those things that ends up embarrassing both of you when you get older and grow up and cause a rift. i like knowing that me and my cousin will always have a clean record as far as that goes. seems like it could cause some kind of rift in your family if they found out too. my parents and my aunt and uncle are super close, and it would suck if something me and my cousin were doing messed that up. so that's my thoughts on it.
MechaSniper
May 16th, 2014, 05:18 AM
I guess if your fine there is nothing wrong with it.
Dalcourt
May 16th, 2014, 06:25 AM
Of course it might be that your family will be upset when they find out, but if you two feel good about it why not give it a try.
kaydencorey
May 16th, 2014, 06:46 AM
Ok, its a bit of a dicey situation you are in, I cant criticise because I have done the same :whoops:
My cousin is male also, he's a year older than me and like you we have grown up together and our family's have a very close bond, I maybe haven't done as much as you have and I don't know if it will ever go any further but I would be gutted and so ashamed if our family's found out :whoops: , because, well, its incest isn't it.
He lives about 10 miles from me, so we see each other once a week at least, stay over with each other, share a bed, and ,well too horny teenagers in the same bed things happen don't feel bad about that.
But really, be very careful, because as much as you both want this, and are happy with it, I very much doubt your family would feel the same, they know you are close but it will never have crossed their mind that you would think about each other this way, let alone do anything about it.
It could cause a lot of problems and they might stop you both seeing each other :(
jjlewis
May 16th, 2014, 09:34 AM
no way man, that's not right, incest is illegal isn't it? your in for a heap of shit if that gets out.
meme101
May 16th, 2014, 09:39 AM
If it makes you happy then i say go for it. people are people, ijs its like everyone says you guys are related, everyone in my eyes are related in a way. if you guys spend alot of time together it was bound to happen. but im all about being happy!)
Chrisscotland
May 16th, 2014, 08:07 PM
u will get into trouble if ur parents find out so don't do anything when they are around, its a bit weird liking someone u r related to is it not? specialy as u say hes like a brother, cant imagine doing something sexual with a brother ewwww, sorry, just be careful
Waleedbt
May 17th, 2014, 12:12 AM
Dude! Cmon .. Thats just going to be weird.
Its not right and you know it.
Melodic
May 17th, 2014, 12:41 AM
Honestly, I don't think it's worth it.
You have a close family as it is, I don't even see mine most of mine but every five years and the only time I talk to them is on Facebook. You don't want to ruin that. It may seem new and exciting, but it will destroy you if it goes the wrong way.
Joey15Lon
May 17th, 2014, 05:19 AM
I know underneath that's its probably wrong or id never have posted this :(
But we really like each other this way, he's not my brother, just cousin, but sometimes I think of him as my brother, it'd be worse if he was wouldn't it?
I had a bad feeling you guys would say it was weird :(
canonjourno
May 17th, 2014, 06:13 AM
Yeah- no. I mean that's blunt I know- but it's incest and it's strange. I wonder how you even thought of this idea, but anyway.
Soccertees
May 17th, 2014, 04:51 PM
oh no no no no that's not a good thing to do your related to him why would you want to do that :confused:
Camazotz
May 17th, 2014, 08:02 PM
I know underneath that's its probably wrong or id never have posted this :(
But we really like each other this way, he's not my brother, just cousin, but sometimes I think of him as my brother, it'd be worse if he was wouldn't it?
I had a bad feeling you guys would say it was weird :(
You are both teenagers with raging hormones. When you become adults, you're going to remember everything you did, and it might be awkward and cause a strain in your relationship. If you really love him as family, you shouldn't go through with it. Experimenting is normal, but I would definitely recommend finding someone outside your family.
Your parents will probably be much less understanding than myself and everyone else here. They might feel that you two need to be separated or worse. In the long run, I don't think sexual pleasure is worth that risk. You have the rest of your lives to find a sexual partner that isn't a family member.
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