Dating advice? (For my sister)

[Twisted]

So my sister, who is 12 (yeah, she is kind of young, but lots of people in her class are 'dating') and she got asked by her crush to her school dance. I'm 14 and have given her some advice, but she wants to know what you guys on here think?

So, what happened as far as I know, is that she asked her crush who they were doing with at the dance, both of them said 'nobody'. Then, they both said they have liked eachother for quite some time. They both really like eachother, and my sister is scared she might lose him over the summer, or something.

Is there anything she could do to make their relationship last longer? I personally think they're perfect... Just a bit young. But, yeah.. Any advice? My sis would be so happy to get some tips!

Pretty much, what I'm asking is.. Is there anything she could do to get them closer (not sexually, of course) so they don't fall apart? She really wants some advice, so we'd both appreciate some tips and tricks to preteen 'dating'. Would it maybe be okay to ask him to go to a movie or something? How would she ask?

Anyhow, that's all! Thanks for reading. And if you want more info, I'll ask my sister about it then tell you all you need to know.

Thanks! :P
My sis will appreciate it a lot.

[kaydencorey]

I'm not so sure there is anything she can do to make sure they get closer other than spend time together and see how it goes, they will know how much they like each other and if they both feel the same there's no reason why she should loose him.
Its so hard dating when you that age, you expect there is some secret rules, or things you should be doing and you get so worried about that, that you forget to just get to know each other and enjoy what is happening.
Im no expert here but that's all the advice I can offer, if I can do anything else, just let me know, I wish your sister well, and good luck :yes:

[Blood]

Oh gosh. That's such a young age to start dating. I started at 14 and I wasn't really ready at all. But everyone's different.

Get them to plan to do things together. They can go to the park, go skating, and yeah, maybe go to the movies. I think they should try spending more time together before they start "officially" dating.

[Camazotz]

I'm not so sure there is anything she can do to make sure they get closer other than spend time together and see how it goes, they will know how much they like each other and if they both feel the same there's no reason why she should loose him.
Its so hard dating when you that age, you expect there is some secret rules, or things you should be doing and you get so worried about that, that you forget to just get to know each other and enjoy what is happening.
Im no expert here but that's all the advice I can offer, if I can do anything else, just let me know, I wish your sister well, and good luck :yes:

Oh gosh. That's such a young age to start dating. I started at 14 and I wasn't really ready at all. But everyone's different.

Get them to plan to do things together. They can go to the park, go skating, and yeah, maybe go to the movies. I think they should try spending more time together before they start "officially" dating.

I think this is all great advice for pre-teen dating. They're not ready for "normal" dating, so just suggest that they go to the movies over the summer, or hang out with other friends at a park or something, or go to a local beach.