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Jack russell dad
May 15th, 2014, 04:26 PM
Ok guys, in two years i graduate high school, but i will lose every person i call a friend. I know there's only three of them, but, there still my friends. and i feel lonely all the time, plus my best friend and dog, a 15 year old white Akita, died last year on the 12th of December.anyone else afraid theyll lose what friends they have in high school when they graduate, or feel lonely because of the death of a pet?

Cygnus
May 15th, 2014, 04:45 PM
This belongs here.

The White Padded Room :arrow2: Depression, Loss, and Grief

Croconaw
May 15th, 2014, 07:57 PM
My dog Bowser died of cancer a few years ago. He was a beagle. My mom got him for me when I was getting bullied at school. That dog was my life and he used to always cheer me up when I was upset. I know how it feels to lose a pet. I hope things get better for you. Dogs are much nicer than most of the people I know.

I got a new dog last year, though. He's also a beagle, and his name is Bowser. I love that name for some reason. I like this dog, but the first one will always be my favorite.

Dalcourt
May 16th, 2014, 06:44 AM
Well, I'd never stress myself about mates from school that much, they kinda come and go anyway.
But my cats, I love them too death...one disappeared last fall...I know he is dead and well as I realized he won't come back I cried everyday...for about two weeks. Another cat I had died of cancer and I was also very depressed back then...currently I have three cats and don't even want to think about them not being here anymore one day.

kaydencorey
May 16th, 2014, 08:35 AM
Its natural you are worried about loosing friends, but cant you keep in touch with them?
You will make more, will be hard at the start but it will get better.
We lost one of our furry family members last year, it hurts bad, but he will never be forgotten. :(
Have you ever read the poem rainbow bridge?
Its beautiful, but makes me cry every time, but thats ok, shows how much he ment to me.

Jack russell dad
May 16th, 2014, 11:06 AM
My dog Bowser died of cancer a few years ago. He was a beagle. My mom got him for me when I was getting bullied at school. That dog was my life and he used to always cheer me up when I was upset. I know how it feels to lose a pet. I hope things get better for you. Dogs are much nicer than most of the people I know.

I got a new dog last year, though. He's also a beagle, and his name is Bowser. I love that name for some reason. I like this dog, but the first one will always be my favorite.

Thanks, and Sorry for your loss

Jack russell dad
May 16th, 2014, 11:10 AM
Well, I'd never stress myself about mates from school that much, they kinda come and go anyway.
But my cats, I love them too death...one disappeared last fall...I know he is dead and well as I realized he won't come back I cried everyday...for about two weeks. Another cat I had died of cancer and I was also very depressed back then...currently I have three cats and don't even want to think about them not being here anymore one day.

Sorry for your loss. I have a cat myself, but he is 7. I dread the day he dies.

Jack russell dad
May 16th, 2014, 11:14 AM
Its natural you are worried about loosing friends, but cant you keep in touch with them?
You will make more, will be hard at the start but it will get better.
We lost one of our furry family members last year, it hurts bad, but he will never be forgotten. :(
Have you ever read the poem rainbow bridge?
Its beautiful, but makes me cry every time, but thats ok, shows how much he ment to me.

sorry for your loss. Yea, I've Read it. If I'm by myself when i read it, i cry. As for my friends, once we go to college i doubt we'll see each other unless there's a high school reunion.

Typhlosion
May 16th, 2014, 12:14 PM
Then those two more years in highschool will be 2 more years of fun and kick-assery with your friends. If you guys are great pals, you'll never lose touch :D

Jack russell dad
May 16th, 2014, 02:07 PM
Then those two more years in highschool will be 2 more years of fun and kick-assery with your friends. If you guys are great pals, you'll never lose touch :D

Yea, thanks. I guess i never looked at the good side

Body odah Man
May 16th, 2014, 02:15 PM
Ok guys, in two years i graduate high school, but i will lose every person i call a friend. I know there's only three of them, but, there still my friends. and i feel lonely all the time, plus my best friend and dog, a 15 year old white Akita, died last year on the 12th of December.anyone else afraid theyll lose what friends they have in high school when they graduate, or feel lonely because of the death of a pet?

Yeah, I fele ya. I'ma graduate soon and it will suck to lose my friends :(
Hang in there

Jack russell dad
May 16th, 2014, 03:31 PM
Yeah, I fele ya. I'ma graduate soon and it will suck to lose my friends :(
Hang in there

Yea, it sucks. Thanks tho

Body odah Man
May 17th, 2014, 05:27 AM
No problemo. Hang tite

LedaP
May 18th, 2014, 11:04 PM
Note:I am an 8th grade female, and the other three are 2 7th grade males and a 7th grade female.
I've known of this guy (D.L.) for a few months, and I caught him looking at me a few times. Finally 2 weeks ago I told him that I thought we should become friends and he gave me his number. In the first few days, I learned he got straight A's, was in advanced classes, wrote poetry, plays in band, and overall is very beyond his years. On the third day we'd known eachother, I became more depressed than usual (I stuggle with depression and am bipolar) and downed myself. I told him all about my struggles and how terrible my family life is and he told me that he loved me, wanted to hug me forever, and that he needed me. Well, afterward... He told me his struggles. You see, his mother tried to murder him and the love of his life (good friend when they were little) had died in a fire. He is a depressed kid. Anyway, after that we called eachother and we talked about bands and stuff. Then came the 6th day. Basically, I tried to talk to him but he was depressed. I tried to commit suicide because now I had no one to talk to, (literally without him I had cats and that's it) and I was done. The 7th day all that was resolved and we talked normal, even after he stated "Her love is a poison." 3 days ago he told me that he was a terrible person so.. Anyway.. We have been fine, and yesterday we had a concert/amusement park competition. All day we were together and I was really happy, and I could tell that he was too. However, in the middle my friend (7th grade girl, R.N.) came. I knew they were friends a few years back and they decided to try to be friends again. He did everything he did to me to her. Every topic, every touch, everything! So, after we left I told her I was upset by this. Note:Me and him specifically said we loved eachother, but we aren't dating. Anyway, after I told R.N. that she said I shouldn't worry and that she is sorry for making me worry. We were going to talk (D.L. and I) over the phone, but he fell asleep. Today I talked to him and he seemed a little as if he didn't want to talk, and so a few hours later I decided to finally bring up a conversation. I stated how I don't like a t-shirt (not on him) but just in general and he did like it so in a way we just "argued" for 2 messages, after he said "Bye" I've texted him about things not on the matter, but he refuses to even budge. I called a friend in which was mutal to all three D.L., R.N., and I and he (N.A.) messaged D.L. He said he was done with me and that I depress him. After, he also said he told R.N. he liked her still and she stated she liked him back, however they are not dating. In matters, R.N. is a good friend of mine and am very upset with her for this, because I stated clearly to her just last night how I felt. N.A. then told D.L. to at least talk to me, D.L.:I told her I was a terrible person. N.A.:Why? D.L.:I knew something would happen. N.A.:Oh. D.L.:Yeah. I thought it was time for me to think about myself. N.A.:Just talk to her. D.L.:I will when I'm ready. Realistically, I don't know that to do! I know for a fact he loved/likes me... His birthday is in a few days and I drew a magnificent photograph of him. I don't know what to do. I know to give him time, but really how much can I even give him? Please help. Whatever you do, I need help.