My Freind's interesting change in behavior...

[Chase_57]

Sorry this is so long:

My friend who I have been freinds with for a while, we'll call him x, has started to act sort of weird. [a little backstory: my freinds and I were talking about sexual orientations (my female freinds are very open about being sexually flexible) and we all took a test that places you on the Kinsey scale (scale of 0-6, 0 is totally straight 6 is completely gay) and x got a 1 and I got a 2.5.]

since then he has started to act different, more touchy-feelly, grabbing me by the arm, climbing on top of me, etc. he didn't really do this much before we took the test thing, and until then I hadn't said that I had any interest in guys.

What I really want to know is whether or not he is sort of hitting on me. It's kind of the vibe I'm getting but I would never think of him as someone who would be sexually 'flexible' or even curious. I want to experiment (blowjobs, handjobs, etc. basically everything but anal) with him but I am nervous he would say no because I read him wrong. I know we are going camping after we get out of school and I will share a tent with him, so I am hoping to do something with him then. I just don't want to mess up our freindship by asking him if he doesn't want to... Any advice?

[Living For Love]

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First of all, those tests shouldn't be taken so seriously, they only give you a general broad idea of something so complex such as sexuality. Now, considering he didn't lie while doing the test, he might be straight, but still willing to experiment with you. And he might be trying to reach that objective now more than ever because, according to the test, you're more curious than he would probably think before. If you're actually feeling that 'vibe' coming from him, then you're probably right, since you know him better than anyone else here and have been friends with him for a while. I guess you could go for it if you want, and either way, you're only asking him, it's not that he would feel offended. And remember, he scored 1, not 0, and he's the one who has been sending signals to you, so you have that in your defence.

[JustAnotherTeen]

By the sound of it, you know him better than we do. Try to ask him in a light tone and if he says no you can laugh it off anyway. Btw, I got 6 on the Kinsey Scale ;)

[kaydencorey]

You could make a joke out of the test you took with him to bring the subject up, then see how he reacts then.
he might give you some more clues about how he feels about things.
the fact you took the test even though these things are just a bit of fun, not to be taken very seriously, means maybe you are all a bit curious about each other.