Help! It's Getting Harder To Hide.

[Ronaa_]

I've Spent 4-5 Months Now Struggling With Bulimia, I've Recently Moved Out Of Home And In With My 27 Year Old Sister And 7 Month Old Neice..My Sister Lives In A House With An Old Guy That Has Rented Her Only 2 Rooms, Which Means Where Always Togethor 24/7 ...It's Getting Harder And Harder To Hide My E.D From Her, And Everyone Else, I Also Think My Teacher Has Caught On To Me Aswell. :(

Does Anybody Have Any Ideas Or Tips For Me Please..?

I'm Desperate...I've Only Told 1 Person..My Best Friend..And She's Not Much Help..I CAN NOT Tell Any Of My Family, They Never Take Me Seriously..:(:confused:

[firestar85137]

maybe you should tell your sister about it and tell her your not kidding.

[Ronaa_]

But I Realy Dont Want Her To Make A Big Fuss OR Tell My Mum..I'm Kinda Ashamed Of It..

[Atonement]

Well if they are your best friend, she wont tell anyone. Even your mom. And in all honesty, her making a big fuss out of it could be the best thing for you right now. It would help you be supported and get better! The support of a friend can mean the world to a person in times like these. I hope you get better. :daisy:

[Ronaa_]

My Firend Never Mentions It Or Anything..My Sister Was Telling Me The Other Day That She Used To Have An Eating Disorder..But I'm Kinda Ashamed And Embarassed About It, I Wouldn't Know What To Say Or Do If She Brought It Up, And What If They Just Make Fun Of Me Because They Just Think I'm Being Stupid. They'll Never Understan. :(

[Atonement]

Honestly, if they make fun of you because of an eating disorder, those are not the people you want to support you. You need to find someone that you know will take you seriously and will no matter what support you. That could take a while and a lot of thinking, but it will help when you can get it.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

If your sister used to have an eating disorder, she won't make fun of you for it. She'll understand what you're going through, and how much you need her there for you. You know, it's possible she mentioned it because she suspects your disorder, and wants you to know she's there if you want to talk to her. You could just say, "Remember when you were talking about how you used to have an eating disorder? Well, I have one now." And see how it goes. Whatever you decide to do, good luck! :)

[Ronaa_]

Thanks..
But What Am I Supposed To Say?
Addmitting It To Yourself And Addmitting It To Others Are Two Totaly Different Things, It's So Much Harder.. :(

[RaisingSand]

I agree with Addison and Jessie, it's really important to tell someone what you're going through, and trust me, you'll feel a lot better if you do. And if your sister has struggled with an ED in the past, she'll probably be able to understand what you're going through and how you're feeling. I know it feels so shameful and like you're alone in this, but you're not. You'll feel better if you tell someone, get some help and find a way through this.
Stay strong. :hug:

[Ronaa_]

Thanks Everyone, Your Advise Is Great, Your So Kind..

But The Only Trustworthy Person I Can Think Of Is My Teacher Tracie, She's Been A Great Help In The Past For Other Things...

I Know I Need To Stop Chickening Out And Tell Her .. But I'm So Scared..Im Working On It Though..

[RaisingSand]

I know you're scared, it's a big thing to admit to. But this may be one of the best things you ever do. ED's can take over your life and screw up so much, and you're so much better than that. :) Tell Tracie as soon as you can, you won't regret it. :hug:

[Ronaa_]

ok..I'll Try..But I Know She's Going To Involve Other People, If She Thinks Im At Too Much Risk She'll Tell My Family..I Just Dont Wanna Do Anything I'm Going To Regret..

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

You WONT regret it. Which is worse: getting help but having to tell your family what's going on, or keeping it to yourself and having this kill you? Because that's what eating disorders do to people. Getting help now is going to be one of the best things you ever do for yourself. You can do this. :)

[Chaos_and_Disorder]

Do you want help, if so, it's time to speak out. No matter how ashamed you are.

Need help, PM me.

Stay strong, love.

[Ronaa_]

Good News...

I Told A Social Worker 2 Days Ago And We Sat Down And Had A Talk..

Thanks For All Your Support Guys. :) Couldn't Have Done It With Out You's.

[xbronnersx]

I know how you feel, recently my ED has gotten harder and harder to hide, my parents have started asking questions, started taking more notice.
But I'm so desperate for them not to find out I'm going to absolutely ridiculous and disgusting measures to keep it a secret. I don't know what they'd do if I told them, judging by their reactions thus far though, I doubt they'd be supportive, certainly right off the bat, they'd probably cut sick at me. Ugh!