how should i go about this?

[Soccertees]

I'm thinking I'm just going to ask my friend outright if he he's more interested in me than just a friend.
There has been signs that its true like when we mess about, with other friends too, pretending to hump each other but in a joke way, he does it more with me, I used to have a laugh doing it but it feels different now.
he's said a few times when we are doing homework on the pc, to sit on his knee so I can see better.
he says things like give me a shag, we both say gay things to each other in a joke, sorry I don't mean to offend any gay guys.
we have been friends before school, our family's know each other so we are very comfortable together.
I was thinking of saying something like this, next time he does anything... "are you coming on to me because if you are we should get started now because we have homework to do"
so it seems like a joke so I can get out of it if he freaks.
I'm scared though that if he does freak out it will be all over school that I'm gay and I don't even know if I am.
I was also thinking that maybe he knows that I'm feeling like this and is making fun of me.
Do you think this might be a bad move?'
Sorry for another long post.

[Living For Love]

As long as you're subtle enough, and make it seem like a joke, then I think it's fine. You said you two are very comfortable with each other, and besides, he's the one saying "gay things", not you.

[Menzis]

I don't know.. I've done some pretty weird stuff with friends too, but not as an intention to show them that I "want them".
Like I held a sausage in front of my crotch and told my friend to suck it and he did it. But it was just all meant as a joke.
I'd try to look for more signs..

[Body odah Man]

Subtlety. GL

[Chrisscotland]

I doubt hes making fun of u if you are both very close friends, he wouldn't do that to u, all the things hes doing could be him trying to give u hints that hes wanting something more than friendship, u could try saying wot u mentioned cause u can laugh it off easily if he does not react well, at least u will know 1 way or the other

[JustAnotherTeen]

I would say it as a joke, that way whatever answer you get, you can laugh it off afterwards.

[kaydencorey]

As others have already said, make a joke of it, hopefully you will be able to interpret his reaction and get some clues.
Don't push it too much though, and good luck, I hope it goes well. :P

[jjlewis]

just tell him outright only way to do it

[backjruton]

I'd try to look for more signs before questioning anything like that...

My friend earlier was doing the same kind of thing. Brushed my dick for some reason, hit my ass with his knee, randomly started to hump me from behind (LOL), and hugging me I think to the point I couldn't get out of it :rolleyes: I already came out to people, so I don't know if it's because he knows about me or if they in that class are all the same because they all do it at least a little bit... :rolleyes:

Keep making a joke of it and try to gather more evidence for the signs before asking anything because it might just be to mess around. :kitty:

[Just Sayin]

I would look for some more solid signs first but if you feel you need to say something set it up as a joke so you can get out of it if he doesnt take it well