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cloud7
March 4th, 2008, 12:08 AM
I haven't figured out how to explain this to anyone because I think this is a really stupid, insignificant problem that somehow I can't get over.
I have a huge crush on this girl that has so many cool friends (many of them male) that it'd be stupid for me to think I have a chance with her. I'm a senior, she's a junior, I'm set to go off to college on the opposite coast, so I feel like shit because there's no logical reason for creating an attachment to anyone right now. In fact, I've been pushing most of my friends away for this year.
So I was thinking about just telling her how I feel. Not really afraid of rejection, because I'm not asking anyone out.
But then a part of me says not too, because I am leaving soon and she's just so much better than I am it's humiliating even to suggest we're in the same league.
I've felt like this for a couple months - since early November, I think.
I always thought I could just move on and be reasonable with myself but I can't. It physically hurts to think about it.
Any advice?

NextToNormal
March 5th, 2008, 09:53 PM
if you really like this girl, go ahead and ask her out. dont worry about her make friends...if none of them are dating her then they probably arent her type, which makes them no competition. if you put the idea into your head that you dont have a chance with her, then thats the attitude you will have if you do decide to ask her out and it wont work out.
if you are worried about getting really close to someone and then having to leave them because of college, just realize that the person will be here when you come back if you two are loyal to each other.
hope that helps...