thatoneguy555
May 12th, 2014, 05:13 AM
So there's a friend that I met last year and we've recently gotten close the past few months, and especially the past few weeks. I have a feeling that he's legit in love with me, and other friends have noticed that he always gives me special attention and only does and says really non-straight stuff to me.
"Oh and the sucking my dick part... That comes later it'll happen one day": when he was leaving the room at a hang out this is what he said
"That sexually aroused "oh"": he jokingly insulted me and I said "oh" and that's how he responded
"Can we sleep next to each other? The room is cold and dark and scary" this was said at a sleepover. He personally came up to me and said this even though there were many other guys around.
"If there was one guy you could make out with who would it be?"
"If there was one guy in this group you could make out with who would it be?"
"Making out with ____ I wonder what that feels like"
"would you make out with ___?"
"Oh yeah that was during my stalking stage"-this was said whenever I said he never saw me with a certain type of haircut and he said he did when he would stalk me on Facebook before he really knew me. Constantly brings up the fact that he thinks it's "trippy" how we became friends after meeting each other last year at some event
-says "I love you" to me constantly. Makes me say it back.
-always wants to be around me. The first time we hung out he always followed me around and told me to follow him. Now that we're close he has repeatedly asked to get drunk together, to work out together (not at the gym, but just us two at his house), to join a group he's in, "when we're going to (a certain vacation spot) you're in my car... Whether you like it or not" etc.
-always interested in who I'm interested in
-at prom my date said "he wants you so badly he seems too comfortable around you and he keeps staring at you this whole time"
-at hang outs he's around me a lot and stares at me quite a bit and when he goes somewhere he either physically pushes me to get me to come with him or he leaves and expects me to follow him and he turns around instead
-at one late night hang out when it was just me him and another friend we were playing video games and I noticed from the corner of my eye that he was staring at me and then looked at me up and down. He then randomly said "if there's one person I would want to watch getting head it'd be you"
-was willing to spend $35 to hang out at some concert. He would repeatedly whisper things in my ear and giggle. One time he tapped me on my shoulder and when I turned around he was staring at me with his eyes closed and did this multiple times and said "I was trying to get you off your phone"
-when we first became friends I was his background wallpaper at one point
-held my hand several times.
When we first became friends he would try holding my hand and using me as a head and arm rest. We sat in the car once and he tapped my leg then grabbed my hand and held it. A few minutes in when our friends in the car pointed out that it was weird he said "this is awkward" and I let go after a few seconds, then he grabbed my hand back and said "sorry I was in the moment".
At his house we were watching a movie and he told me to sit next to him on the couch and then on 3 separate occasions he grabbed my hand and held it and also stretched his arms and put it around mine
-cares about my opinion a lot. One time I hinted a habit of his bothered me and he completely stopped doing it. Always asks for my opinion.
-Friends in our group constantly say how it's shocking how we have so many pictures together (I'm very very new)
-was always extremely nice to me even though I was extremely cold towards him for a good month or two.
Example one: he made a joke about me in front of others and I told him that he's annoying and then he stoppedd talking, then a few seconds later he said "I'm heading inside ____ come with me" and I walked with him because I felt bad and as we were walking he would look and smile at me and try to make a conversation with me and when we stood next to each other he randomly tried linking arms and then he let go after a few seconds (we were around a lot of people). At this same event he said "I don't care about anyone else here I just care that ____ is here"
Example two: there was a girl who was "mine" for a day and I made out with her and everyone pretty much knows that when I was out of the room he tried to make out with her. I got mad at him for it and the next time I saw him was at a party. When I was on the dance floor he would stop dancing with girls and he would grind on me and hold my hand and try slow dancing with me even though the music didn't fit, literally the whole time.
Someone pointed out that we've been dancing the whole time and I said "it's all him" and he responded with "shut up, you enjoy it!"
And he even pointed out weeks later during a hangout that "if someone lets you touch them if they like it they'll let you continue touching them"
-at prom every time he saw me he would come near me and dance with me and while dancing he would hold my hands
-touches me unnecessarily. When we're playing a game instead of telling me to press a button, he controls my hand and presses the button for me. When he giggles a lot after I say something he hugs me and uses me as a head rest. He uses me as a "rest" a lot. Asks me to sit next to him even when I'm already sitting down somewhere else, when I reject the offer he gets disappointed
-Hugs me unnecessarily. A LOT. A few days ago at a party I was talking to a friend who is a girl and he wasn't saying anything and just staring and he randomly says my name and hugs me and says "this is gonna be a long one." Sometimes while we're having a conversation he just hugs me in the middle of it. Sometimes he just looks at me and hugs me.
-Strangely compliments me. Always calls me sexy. Always asks if I think he looks sexy in pictures.
-When I brought a girl over that I was interested in he was cockblocking the entire time, sitting next to me on the couch while we were talking alone and putting his arm around my shoulder.
And there's probably a bunch of other things I forgot to mention. What do you guys think?
"Oh and the sucking my dick part... That comes later it'll happen one day": when he was leaving the room at a hang out this is what he said
"That sexually aroused "oh"": he jokingly insulted me and I said "oh" and that's how he responded
"Can we sleep next to each other? The room is cold and dark and scary" this was said at a sleepover. He personally came up to me and said this even though there were many other guys around.
"If there was one guy you could make out with who would it be?"
"If there was one guy in this group you could make out with who would it be?"
"Making out with ____ I wonder what that feels like"
"would you make out with ___?"
"Oh yeah that was during my stalking stage"-this was said whenever I said he never saw me with a certain type of haircut and he said he did when he would stalk me on Facebook before he really knew me. Constantly brings up the fact that he thinks it's "trippy" how we became friends after meeting each other last year at some event
-says "I love you" to me constantly. Makes me say it back.
-always wants to be around me. The first time we hung out he always followed me around and told me to follow him. Now that we're close he has repeatedly asked to get drunk together, to work out together (not at the gym, but just us two at his house), to join a group he's in, "when we're going to (a certain vacation spot) you're in my car... Whether you like it or not" etc.
-always interested in who I'm interested in
-at prom my date said "he wants you so badly he seems too comfortable around you and he keeps staring at you this whole time"
-at hang outs he's around me a lot and stares at me quite a bit and when he goes somewhere he either physically pushes me to get me to come with him or he leaves and expects me to follow him and he turns around instead
-at one late night hang out when it was just me him and another friend we were playing video games and I noticed from the corner of my eye that he was staring at me and then looked at me up and down. He then randomly said "if there's one person I would want to watch getting head it'd be you"
-was willing to spend $35 to hang out at some concert. He would repeatedly whisper things in my ear and giggle. One time he tapped me on my shoulder and when I turned around he was staring at me with his eyes closed and did this multiple times and said "I was trying to get you off your phone"
-when we first became friends I was his background wallpaper at one point
-held my hand several times.
When we first became friends he would try holding my hand and using me as a head and arm rest. We sat in the car once and he tapped my leg then grabbed my hand and held it. A few minutes in when our friends in the car pointed out that it was weird he said "this is awkward" and I let go after a few seconds, then he grabbed my hand back and said "sorry I was in the moment".
At his house we were watching a movie and he told me to sit next to him on the couch and then on 3 separate occasions he grabbed my hand and held it and also stretched his arms and put it around mine
-cares about my opinion a lot. One time I hinted a habit of his bothered me and he completely stopped doing it. Always asks for my opinion.
-Friends in our group constantly say how it's shocking how we have so many pictures together (I'm very very new)
-was always extremely nice to me even though I was extremely cold towards him for a good month or two.
Example one: he made a joke about me in front of others and I told him that he's annoying and then he stoppedd talking, then a few seconds later he said "I'm heading inside ____ come with me" and I walked with him because I felt bad and as we were walking he would look and smile at me and try to make a conversation with me and when we stood next to each other he randomly tried linking arms and then he let go after a few seconds (we were around a lot of people). At this same event he said "I don't care about anyone else here I just care that ____ is here"
Example two: there was a girl who was "mine" for a day and I made out with her and everyone pretty much knows that when I was out of the room he tried to make out with her. I got mad at him for it and the next time I saw him was at a party. When I was on the dance floor he would stop dancing with girls and he would grind on me and hold my hand and try slow dancing with me even though the music didn't fit, literally the whole time.
Someone pointed out that we've been dancing the whole time and I said "it's all him" and he responded with "shut up, you enjoy it!"
And he even pointed out weeks later during a hangout that "if someone lets you touch them if they like it they'll let you continue touching them"
-at prom every time he saw me he would come near me and dance with me and while dancing he would hold my hands
-touches me unnecessarily. When we're playing a game instead of telling me to press a button, he controls my hand and presses the button for me. When he giggles a lot after I say something he hugs me and uses me as a head rest. He uses me as a "rest" a lot. Asks me to sit next to him even when I'm already sitting down somewhere else, when I reject the offer he gets disappointed
-Hugs me unnecessarily. A LOT. A few days ago at a party I was talking to a friend who is a girl and he wasn't saying anything and just staring and he randomly says my name and hugs me and says "this is gonna be a long one." Sometimes while we're having a conversation he just hugs me in the middle of it. Sometimes he just looks at me and hugs me.
-Strangely compliments me. Always calls me sexy. Always asks if I think he looks sexy in pictures.
-When I brought a girl over that I was interested in he was cockblocking the entire time, sitting next to me on the couch while we were talking alone and putting his arm around my shoulder.
And there's probably a bunch of other things I forgot to mention. What do you guys think?