Want to give him a BJ?

[iamkitkat]

I probably sound like a creep right now. :( But I don't know I have to give him one.

I think I am bisexual but I'm slightly more to the gay side.

I have known my friend since primary school and still know him today. We are 14 and he is HOT! Blue eyes and everything!! Dayumm!! Thing is, we hardly ever talk... :( Since I am not in his classes and have been moved out of his house groups (homeroom, forms, whatever you call it).

Once, since we haven't seen each other in ages he came up to me and just hugged me and said "Long time no see" etc. Course, I enjoyed it but then I blanked out thinking about something else and I was looking at his crotch. Although he didn't intend that. He said "Do you want to suck me?" I obviously replied "No" but not in a angry way just a normal "No". He replied "Oh Okay" in sort of a sad tone.

I think he has caught me looking at his crotch a few times. [AWKWARD]. :s

I am with the "popular people" in school and obviously so would him. [duh]. I do get attention from girls and they say I am cute and I like it. :)

At the same time, I did have feelings for this girl as well :S. She is pretty but I only realized she was kind because I had "food". :S But I didn't think of her in a sexual way.

I did have crushes on another boy last year. He did slap my bum but everyone does that and you can get away with it pretty much.

Sorry for writing a novel. But I really want to know if he is gay or not or willing to let me suck him anyway. Of course, I don't want him to say a WORD about it. But any ideas? Anyone had any experience? Goddammit this is killing me..

[Gamma Male]

When he asked you if you wanted to give him a blowjob, was he joking or serious? If he was serious I don't see why you can't just go up to him and tell him you changed your mind and that you want to do it now. Just ask him. "Hey, remember when you asked me if I wanted to suck you off and I said no? I changed my mind. I want to do it now."
It doesn't have to be that hard.

[iamkitkat]

Most boys do this so I am not sure.

It happened ages ago by the way.

He did it in front of the class but he didn't shout it or cause attention. I would assume that he would tell me in private if he wanted one. :(

There is this other guy [lets call him A) who touched my dick twice in Year 7. Not by accident, but when he did do it he gave me this "you liked it look". He is flipping hot as well with them blue eyes :D. I don't know, I just felt he "fancied" me but probably not anymore. He did this when not many people were looking or around. I just gave him an "Okaaaaayyyyy" look but I would go back and change that!!

Gosh, my life is so complicated....

[yeahsure]

well next time you see your friend who asked if you want to suck him, just jokingly say "want sucked?", but make it funny, like you are joking about him asking, and see how he reacts :rolleyes:

if your confident enough you can do it jokingly, but still see if he reacts... if he is like "sure" :cool: just be like "ok, let's go" :rolleyes:

depends how brave you feel really.. :P

[proshots]

If he wanted one for certain then he would ask persistently, do you know if he is gay/bi

[iamkitkat]

He hasn't asked persistently. :( I am unsure if he is gay or bi. He did have a relationship with a girl in Year 7.

Most of the boys in my year are single.

There is one who is a PLAYA and another one. There are a few in the not so popular group but they don't bother me.

He hangs around with other people but when I get the chance Ill move the subject into sex. Hahaha

I hope he dosen't tell anyone if I said If I wanted to suck him. Honestly, stuff like this doesn't go well. In our school no one gives a crap if your bi, gay blaahh. But asking to do an act like that will surely make me a laughing stock. Moving to a different school wan't help. It gets around really quickly! I would have to move to Australia!!

[yeahsure]

He hasn't asked persistently. :( I am unsure if he is gay or bi. He did have a relationship with a girl in Year 7.

Most of the boys in my year are single.

There is one who is a PLAYA and another one. There are a few in the not so popular group but they don't bother me.

He hangs around with other people but when I get the chance Ill move the subject into sex. Hahaha

I hope he dosen't tell anyone if I said If I wanted to suck him. Honestly, stuff like this doesn't go well. In our school no one gives a crap if your bi, gay blaahh. But asking to do an act like that will surely make me a laughing stock. Moving to a different school wan't help. It gets around really quickly! I would have to move to Australia!!

just say it like you are joking and see how he reacts :rolleyes:

[Body odah Man]

I probably sound like a creep right now. :( But I don't know I have to give him one.

I think I am bisexual but I'm slightly more to the gay side.

I have known my friend since primary school and still know him today. We are 14 and he is HOT! Blue eyes and everything!! Dayumm!! Thing is, we hardly ever talk... :( Since I am not in his classes and have been moved out of his house groups (homeroom, forms, whatever you call it).

Once, since we haven't seen each other in ages he came up to me and just hugged me and said "Long time no see" etc. Course, I enjoyed it but then I blanked out thinking about something else and I was looking at his crotch. Although he didn't intend that. He said "Do you want to suck me?" I obviously replied "No" but not in a angry way just a normal "No". He replied "Oh Okay" in sort of a sad tone.

I think he has caught me looking at his crotch a few times. [AWKWARD]. :s

I am with the "popular people" in school and obviously so would him. [duh]. I do get attention from girls and they say I am cute and I like it. :)

At the same time, I did have feelings for this girl as well :S. She is pretty but I only realized she was kind because I had "food". :S But I didn't think of her in a sexual way.

I did have crushes on another boy last year. He did slap my bum but everyone does that and you can get away with it pretty much.

Sorry for writing a novel. But I really want to know if he is gay or not or willing to let me suck him anyway. Of course, I don't want him to say a WORD about it. But any ideas? Anyone had any experience? Goddammit this is killing me..

Don't let boys take advantage of you. Don't do it

[canonjourno]

Can't you just ask? I mean you're really good friends right? Just ask him subtly and just say you are curious. We're all curious at one point...hope this answers your question. You can say it- not him :)

[iamkitkat]

Can't you just ask? I mean you're really good friends right? Just ask him subtly and just say you are curious. We're all curious at one point...hope this answers your question. You can say it- not him :)

Thats basically fading away now. We do still talk in PHSCHE (The only lesson that classes I am in!!) Its like we are strangers with a few memories.

Maybe, I'll try and drop a hint. But I am worried as I don't want him to tell anyone.

Also, where would we do it? School is way too risky and bringing each other to any of our houses would be weird.

It hurts me knowing such little information.

This other boy, whenever I see him keeps rubbing my nipple and playing with it. He does it when other people are around (Even in front of his girlfriend). Ive noticed he only seems to do it to me? :/ He is flipping hot as well but would rather prefer my other friend.

*sigh :(