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TaylrJ
May 9th, 2014, 03:39 PM
I am bi, in the 10th grade, and I've recently had a crush on this senior.. He's really cute, shy, and I can tell he's closeted. Anyways, before he graduates, I am determined to talk to him, at least a conversation. I just hope it could maybe start something more. I see him all the time, glance at him and stuff, and sometimes he glances back. But he is so just, away from everyone else, ya know? Just kinda reserved. Which maybe will make it easier? I mean it's better than some cocky goofy kid, but still, it's a crush, it's going to be hard. Anyways, it's so much that wanna get to know him. I don't know a thing about this boy but I can't let someone else I like just leave without me making some move. Obviously, it's kinda happened before. I can't back down this time, and let another chance go out the door.

What do I say? Walk down the hall, glance at him and say "Wassup"???! That'd be horrible but I thought about it. Can you please help?

Melodic
May 9th, 2014, 03:48 PM
Just say Hi, How are you doing? Then see where it goes from there.

Living For Love
May 9th, 2014, 04:44 PM
If he's away from everyone else, that definitely makes it easier, but it's still a hard task. Maybe you could add him on a social network, and if he accepts, approach him and say something like: "Hey, thanks for accepting me, I just wanted to know you better because you seem a bit lonely.", something of that sort. Make it seem natural, and don't try to flirt immediately with him, just talk with him like you would with a normal friend. And then maybe things could develop from there.

RavleIncarnate
May 9th, 2014, 05:03 PM
I would go talk to his friends with him nearby, then maybe introduce one of your friends to his mates, launching all the attention on him, then glance and look at him just eniugh so that he suspects something, but not feel creeped out. Do basically the same for the next few times you talk to his friends (you'll need to do it several times) but turn it up a little, maybe so that his friends also notice your guilty glances, then look a little sad when you walk away, and always look at him first when you introduce yourself (looking happy when you look at him should help a lot), maybe focus on him when you speak. Turn your feet so they point to him, this is a natural body language sign that the subconscious human mind picks up as "he is focused on the one his shoe point to". After a while, he will know sonething is up, and possibly ask you personally about hy you look at him, then you can tell him (or, if he brought friends, ask to tell him personally and without his guy friends) and let it go from there. At least he'll know, then.

Plasma
May 9th, 2014, 05:11 PM
You basically open your mouth and speak words like you would with anyone else.