2 girls?

[Professor Moopicorn]

Ok, so I've had a crush on this girl for about a year and I just can't seem to stay away from her. I've tried to forget about her and move on because things don't seem to be going anywhere between us, but I just can't! Every time it see her I just feel happy she's there, even if she doesn't notice me. But recently, I've noticed another girl in my class. I've always caught her looking at me across the room, always helping me, being really nice to me, smiling at me and just generally trying to be around me. I really think she likes me and I don't know if I should try to get to know her more, or try and stick with the first girl. After all, her friends did tell me she likes me, but kind of more as a friend. We do still talk when we can and if she catches me looking at her, she just looks back and smiles. I still think she might like me, but I know the other girl does. What do you think I should do?

[yeahsure]

Ok, so I've had a crush on this girl for about a year and I just can't seem to stay away from her. I've tried to forget about her and move on because things don't seem to be going anywhere between us, but I just can't! Every time it see her I just feel happy she's there, even if she doesn't notice me. But recently, I've noticed another girl in my class. I've always caught her looking at me across the room, always helping me, being really nice to me, smiling at me and just generally trying to be around me. I really think she likes me and I don't know if I should try to get to know her more, or try and stick with the first girl. After all, her friends did tell me she likes me, but kind of more as a friend. We do still talk when we can and if she catches me looking at her, she just looks back and smiles. I still think she might like me, but I know the other girl does. What do you think I should do?

try ask the first girl on a date... have you ever told her you like her?

[Professor Moopicorn]

try ask the first girl on a date... have you ever told her you like her?

No, but I've never been on a date either. And she told me that she's not allowed to date for at least another year. I think I might just have to wait until everyone stops being immature and can take relationships seriously.

[highschool]

you need to figure which one you like the most.

[hood]

I'm confused, which one looks back at you, the first or the second? This is a very good sign, you dont just stare at your friends, only at someone you like..

[Horatio Nelson]

you need to figure which one you like the most.

I responded to a similar thread that asked the same question. ^ This is your problem. Trying to juggle 2 girls is not going to work out. You'll probably just get torn apart.

[Croconaw]

Yeah. Which girl looked at you? I think you should ask her out. :D

[canonjourno]

Ok, so I've had a crush on this girl for about a year and I just can't seem to stay away from her. I've tried to forget about her and move on because things don't seem to be going anywhere between us, but I just can't! Every time it see her I just feel happy she's there, even if she doesn't notice me. But recently, I've noticed another girl in my class. I've always caught her looking at me across the room, always helping me, being really nice to me, smiling at me and just generally trying to be around me. I really think she likes me and I don't know if I should try to get to know her more, or try and stick with the first girl. After all, her friends did tell me she likes me, but kind of more as a friend. We do still talk when we can and if she catches me looking at her, she just looks back and smiles. I still think she might like me, but I know the other girl does. What do you think I should do?

Wow this is hard...my advice- ask the girl who you are more comfortable with. Ask her into a quiet spot and just be nice...but man, I wish you all the best. This WON'T be easy!

[Professor Moopicorn]

Wow this is hard...my advice- ask the girl who you are more comfortable with. Ask her into a quiet spot and just be nice...but man, I wish you all the best. This WON'T be easy!

Yeah, I agree. I think I may be able to smoothly get through this when I'm older, though. Anyway, I'm only 14 and everyone would bag me out if they heard I was trying to be in a relationship, but one day they should wake up to themselves, right? And anyway, my big bro did this fairly easily just by waiting till valentines day and buying the girl some jewelry and stuff. She liked him then, but she's the "popular girl" and she quickly moved onto someone else. At least the girls I like aren't like that.:)

[canonjourno]

Yeah, I agree. I think I may be able to smoothly get through this when I'm older, though. Anyway, I'm only 14 and everyone would bag me out if they heard I was trying to be in a relationship, but one day they should wake up to themselves, right? And anyway, my big bro did this fairly easily just by waiting till valentines day and buying the girl some jewelry and stuff. She liked him then, but she's the "popular girl" and she quickly moved onto someone else. At least the girls I like aren't like that.:)

You live in Australia. I live in Australia. We would both know that people won't bag you out for being in a relationship...I think it's actually credible and brave of you! All the very best to you :)

[Professor Moopicorn]

You live in Australia. I live in Australia. We would both know that people won't bag you out for being in a relationship...I think it's actually credible and brave of you! All the very best to you :)

Well, you know how young teens can be immature. They only date girls for their bodies and they don't even actually go out or even hang out with each other. It's all just bragging rights for their friends. And then it's always over within 2 weeks. If you like a girl for her personality, they think your weird for some reason. Oh well, they'll grow up soon and see girls for who they really are.

[Professor Moopicorn]

I'm confused, which one looks back at you, the first or the second? This is a very good sign, you dont just stare at your friends, only at someone you like..

The second girl. But I really like the first girl. So that's why I don't know what I should do.

[Music Lover]

The second girl. But I really like the first girl. So that's why I don't know what I should do.

Time. It needs time.

I know how you feel, I've been at approximately the same situation, except I liked 3 girls at one time... :rolleyes: Try and give it less stress each day.
I am still a bit in the same sort of situation even though I'm 19 and my "crisis" moment was a few years ago. My crush can change 2 or 3 times a day at best. But I think it is just because I am not very close with anyone. I've gotten better at letting it not control me. I recognise that it happens but I do my best to not bother with it. Let the feelings be there and don't stress over them. And don't let them control you, because they are conflicted.
I haven't seen the end of it myself yet, but I believe my feelings will settle once I get to know one girl more.

What I would do in your situation is to genuinely be friends with them. Then with time you will know which one you have a better friendship with. Then ask that one on a date :) This works especially well if you aren't "allowed" to date yet. Seriously there's no rush and having a good friendship as a basis for dating will not hurt, because you are in it for the relationship and not the status or bragging rights etc.
If someone says your friendship will be ruined if you break up, don't believe them. I'm still friends with my two exes. the first one not that close anymore, since we live quite far from each other, but when we do meet, we can hold a civil conversation :P
It is not dating or a relationship that ruins the friendship de facto. It's (a certain kind of) immaturity combined with them.
I repeat: You can still be friends with your exes if you date respectfully and act mature about a breakup if it happens.

Don't know how clear I was with everything but I hope I helped in some way :)

[canonjourno]

Well, you know how young teens can be immature. They only date girls for their bodies and they don't even actually go out or even hang out with each other. It's all just bragging rights for their friends. And then it's always over within 2 weeks. If you like a girl for her personality, they think your weird for some reason. Oh well, they'll grow up soon and see girls for who they really are.

EXACTLY the right attitude mate! Haha

[Professor Moopicorn]

Time. It needs time.

I know how you feel, I've been at approximately the same situation, except I liked 3 girls at one time... :rolleyes: Try and give it less stress each day.
I am still a bit in the same sort of situation even though I'm 19 and my "crisis" moment was a few years ago. My crush can change 2 or 3 times a day at best. But I think it is just because I am not very close with anyone. I've gotten better at letting it not control me. I recognise that it happens but I do my best to not bother with it. Let the feelings be there and don't stress over them. And don't let them control you, because they are conflicted.
I haven't seen the end of it myself yet, but I believe my feelings will settle once I get to know one girl more.

What I would do in your situation is to genuinely be friends with them. Then with time you will know which one you have a better friendship with. Then ask that one on a date :) This works especially well if you aren't "allowed" to date yet. Seriously there's no rush and having a good friendship as a basis for dating will not hurt, because you are in it for the relationship and not the status or bragging rights etc.
If someone says your friendship will be ruined if you break up, don't believe them. I'm still friends with my two exes. the first one not that close anymore, since we live quite far from each other, but when we do meet, we can hold a civil conversation :P
It is not dating or a relationship that ruins the friendship de facto. It's (a certain kind of) immaturity combined with them.
I repeat: You can still be friends with your exes if you date respectfully and act mature about a breakup if it happens.

Don't know how clear I was with everything but I hope I helped in some way :)

Great advice mate. Thank you.

You know, I'm actually pretty good friends with girl number 1. We both have the same quirky personality and we can have a good laugh together, even if what we say isn't funny. That's probably one of the reasons I can't seem to forget about her. Every time she laughs and smiles at me...

Well, at least we can be good friends at the moment. Hopefully next year I'll be in more of her classes and we can actually talk more. And good luck with you're predicament! I hope you follow your heart well and make the right decision. :D

[Body odah Man]

Ok, so I've had a crush on this girl for about a year and I just can't seem to stay away from her. I've tried to forget about her and move on because things don't seem to be going anywhere between us, but I just can't! Every time it see her I just feel happy she's there, even if she doesn't notice me. But recently, I've noticed another girl in my class. I've always caught her looking at me across the room, always helping me, being really nice to me, smiling at me and just generally trying to be around me. I really think she likes me and I don't know if I should try to get to know her more, or try and stick with the first girl. After all, her friends did tell me she likes me, but kind of more as a friend. We do still talk when we can and if she catches me looking at her, she just looks back and smiles. I still think she might like me, but I know the other girl does. What do you think I should do?

Man, this is a tough one. I'd suggest following your heart and sticking to the girl you love and not starting a relationship with the other one. It's harsh but...better in the long run.

[JamesSuperBoy]

Give it time - no rush.

[Music Lover]

And good luck with you're predicament! I hope you follow your heart well and make the right decision. :D

Thanks :D