View Full Version : Not sure what to do...
Cameron UK
May 8th, 2014, 04:56 PM
So there's this girl I like, and she, plus all of her friends know but we also went out in first year, we are now in fifth year. But I'm basically not sure what to do, right now we have exams and I don't want to stress her because last time I told a girl how I felt she got really stressed, but with this girl because there are exams I'm not sure how she would react, even though she knows how I feel.
I've no idea if she likes me back but we are quite good friends and when we talk we have good conversations and same with texts. Opinions?
yeahsure
May 9th, 2014, 04:07 AM
play it cool... cliche, but 'don't rush'.. just imagine, if a friend said to you one day "cameron, i love you", you'd be a little bit like wtf!
test the water, be subtle...
but don't emotionally shock her by 'getting it of your chest. Guaranteed fail in a lot of cases.
Actions speak louder than words, so hint that you like her.
also, let her get her exams done first, she is probably already a lil stressed!
Good luck.
Cameron UK
May 9th, 2014, 04:34 AM
Ok, thanks for the advice, I'm never really good with telling people how I feel
yeahsure
May 9th, 2014, 04:49 AM
Ok, thanks for the advice, I'm never really good with telling people how I feel
talking about emotions is awkward tbf, especially if someone brings them up when you aren't prepared. you just end up looking for the exit.
you should have an idea about what she thinks of you, but, i would be careful, and avoid talking about your feelings completely, just use hints and body language, on the odd occasion.
don't go from being a friend to becoming a flirt over night. do it stealth... lol
Cameron UK
May 9th, 2014, 05:12 PM
talking about emotions is awkward tbf, especially if someone brings them up when you aren't prepared. you just end up looking for the exit.
you should have an idea about what she thinks of you, but, i would be careful, and avoid talking about your feelings completely, just use hints and body language, on the odd occasion.
don't go from being a friend to becoming a flirt over night. do it stealth... lol
Thanks dude, I really appreciate your help. I will try my best.
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