Making first time special

[jenny2234]

I'm with a new guy who is a virgin, I'm not though. I want to make the first time special for him. What would guys like for the first time to be special? I'm thinking of not using a condom since I take birth control and he's obviously clean. Would that be extra special for a guy or would it not be good "spoiling" him like that since he might always want it bareback later?

[DeeHaz]

Just listen to what he wants- he'll tell you what he likes.

[Swagging god]

Every guy will like different things in the sheets.

Explore and Communicate is the best way to have the most memorable experience

[Brenda1997]

He probably won't last that very long for the first time, not using a condom probably won't do that any good either :p

The fact that he's having sex is probably special enough haha, anyway, make sure he's comfortable and make him feel confident, I think that's the most important

[sticky1]

Just listen to what he wants- he'll tell you what he likes.

I'm a bit nervous about my first time Friday night, but so excited. Even if he acts cocky he won't be. I know I'm going to need some reassuring and some feedback about what you like.

[biancachica]

I think you should take control of things and guide him through the whole experience. He probably will be nervous and might ejaculate too fast or have a hard time getting an erection. In either case reassure him. And of course I think you should be very passionate and never forget to communicate.