im concerned about my friend

[Techno Monster]

ok my friend wont eat any thing at all because he says eating and his diet is the only thing he can control in his life i know that his mom his getting married and he also told me that a lot of things have been happening he already is a size zero and under weight BUT HE WONT EAT!!! AHHHHHH how can i get him to eat lunch and breakfast and dinner i know:confused::confused::confused: he needs help somebody tell me what to do!!!! :eek:

[Techno Monster]

Please Help He Has`t Eaten All Week!!!!

[Hyper]

Ok I'd drag you're friend to a professional, he obviously has a problem and we can't make him virtually eat, infact he might need medication...

But yes try to talk to him and if that doesn't work you need to talk to someone with authority over him.

[Techno Monster]

ok i may call our school tip line anomalously but i dont want to make myself look stupid.. ya thats what i will do

[Tyleisme]

As you can't force him to eat. The only thing you really can do is be there for him. And maybe talk him into eating. From what you say I'm guessing his mother is getting ready to marry someone that isn't his father. That can cause a lot of stress for some one. and he doesn't feel like he has control over anything that is happening. He wants to have control of something so he chooses his diet and stops eating. What you can try and make him realise is he can still have control over his diet and still eat, and what he is doing is unsafe and could put him in the hospital, and then he wouldn't have control over that. But just be there for him and make sure that you are there when he wants to talk.

[Hippie]

As Hyper, and Tyleisme said, you can't really make him eat, but if he won't you need to contact a professional, which as you said you where going to call the school for some help. Good choice dude. You should feel good as a friend, you might hurt him emotionally but trust me when it comes down to it your really helping him get help that he needs.


Hippie

[sabotaged111]

Tell his parents if its that serious. Or consult the school.:D hope i helped.