View Full Version : losing friends or no friends
crazyBoyjJ
May 7th, 2014, 05:39 PM
Lately I have been feeling like I really don't have any friends or I'm losing them. I just no longer have anything in common with any of them. Today it was like just teasing and everyone ignoring me. Could u guys give me some advice or if u feel like this.
The3rdArmy
May 8th, 2014, 06:05 PM
Get out of the house and go to public areas (parks, teen hangouts, etc.) you'll make new friends
Luminous
May 8th, 2014, 07:11 PM
I feel like I don't have any friends. I have plenty of acquaintances but they talk over me, ignore me, and generally don't include me. I can't call them my friends because I don't trust them or feel like they like me. I met this one girl who is super nice and includes me in the conversation and everything. This week, we had each others numbers but hadn't texted, and SHE TEXTED ME FIRST!!! I was sooo excited as this has never happened to me before except from like my mom and sister. I think we're gonna be friends.
Not having friends sucks, but it just means you're different than the people you hang around with. That's not a bad thing, as it will make you stand out as you grow older, when you want to stand out - for example, if an employer interviews 20 people for a job, and 19 people are almost exactly the same, who is (s)he going to hire? The one other person.
Now I'm not sure if I'm trying to comfort you or me. Oh well. Being a kid sucks, but don't worry, you'll grow out of it.
danny16_
May 8th, 2014, 08:09 PM
Well I have friends that betrayed me. But I do also feel that im losing all my friends. I still got 2 good friends left that I always talk to. Zach my crush ( was my bestfriend too ) but I stopped hanging out with him cause I cant take me having a crush on him.
I had TONS of friends to almost no friends :/
justarandomteen
May 8th, 2014, 09:23 PM
The advice I would give you is to get out of the house and just go to hang outs and parks. You will find friends there. Also, join a few clubs your school offers that seem interesting (art, cooking, engineering, etc). There, you will find and make friends with similar interests and personalities, so you can connect to them better. Remember you're not alone, and a perfect friend will come soon!
Snydergate
May 8th, 2014, 10:01 PM
I have gone through the same thing, EVERY single friend from my young childhood have left me. I mean if I saw them we would say hi and stuff, but they no longer want to hang out or anything. Only one of them probably would, but he is away at school. Some stuff like this just happens
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