What am I supposed to do?

[LateForTheSky]

Well I'll tell you the situation. I'm kinda inlove with this guy and his friend is MEGA hot. Trouble is the guy I'm in love with is not gay, How do I know? because he knows I'm gay and he would have told me. His best friend is major homophobic but only dosnt like the gay stereotype. He dosnt understand there are people like me who are gay but act straight. I act more str8 than him! What do I do everyother guy I like that knows im gay is str8, some of them even talk about me. Im worried and don't know what to do, social stuations are becoming hard all my friends are getting girlfriends and Im just not interested in girls.

[NextToNormal]

how do you know what?? if he is gay?? well, just ask him. do you know if he has any feelings for you like you have for him?? thats about the only way to know. and as for the homophobic friend...dont worry about him. hes just being an ass because he feels he can.
and people are going to talk about you regardless, it doesnt matter if you are gay or not. just because you are gay, people think they have the right to criticize you for it, when they dont.
just ignore all of the negativity and be who you want to be. dont worry about all the other assholes out there. they will still be asses in the end.

[Hippie]

Everyones different dude. Theres people out there who make fun of homosexual's even tho in a couple years you might find out they are Homosexual and proud. I've seen it happen. Uhm If I was you I would ignore what people say about you. If they bash you for being 'gay' and stuff just ignore it thats who you are nobody can change that. One day you'll probably meet a man and your relationship will be 200 times better than your friends who are constantly dealing with their Girlfriends. Sorry if my advice sucks I'm new to this type of stuff. Good luck dude :yeah:.


Hippie

[LateForTheSky]

well i know for a fact he dosnt feel the same and we are not close enough to talk about personal things. The homophobic friend is not dliberatley being an ass, he actually just dosnt like gays because and I quote "they are poofy" in which I am not. As for ignoring the names, not an option. even my friends are talking about it, I have currently fallen out with all my friends as they took the side of my other 'friend' in a argument. Why they take his side? because hes not gay. I don't know what to do, everything keeps blowing up in my face, things wont blow over and people wont let me fix things. My 'friend' is walking all over me, he keeps pushing it watching for my reaction.