Attracted to same sex

[Alot8]

I'm straight at this point of my life and I have a girlfriend but lately there's this boy in my class, he's one of my friends and for some reason I'm attracted to him and every time I'm near him I have a boner and a huge bulge comes out of my pants. I want to kiss him and experiment and shoot cum together. He's an early bloomer in puberty and his penis is probably big. He likes me as a friend but I think he's gay cause his voice sounds like it and hangs around with boys a lot, not so much girls. Does this make me bisexual or gay???

[briefsboy]

Everyone gets curious now and again. its perfectly normal and probably just puberty kicking in. It doesn't make you gay. Im sure it will pass.

[christo17]

It's normal at our age. I think you are just curious, not gay. :)

[Elysium]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[deregisterme]

It's natural to have that sort of curiosity. If you do want to try stuff, try the softly approach - ask "what do you think about...". If you just come out and say something direct, you might scare him.

[yeahsure]

i feel same so i say i'm curious, but i'd say we are both more likely bi

[Karkat]

Since when does hanging out with the same sex make you gay? If that were true, I'd think 99.9% of my old schoolmates would be gay. We'd be the gayest school in history, and no one would ever be pregnant.

Seeing as quite a few of them HAVE gotten pregnant, I'd have to assume that's urban legend. ;)

It's up to you to decide whether or not you feel that you're bisexual or gay. No one else can determine that.

[yeahsure]

Since when does hanging out with the same sex make you gay?

who said that, i dont get your point?

he said he has sexual feeling for the other boy?

[Karkat]

who said that, i dont get your point?

he said he has sexual feeling for the other boy? he did not ask if hanging out with other boys can turn you gay... nor did anyone else suggest that, or am i missing something?

hangs around with boys a lot, not so much girls.

You did. Right there.

Also, you never included that vital tidbit. Saying you have sexual attraction for boys is ENTIRELY different than just hanging out with them. You entirely insinuated that gay people only hang out with the same sex or something.

[yeahsure]

he said it to as part of a summary of the other boys behaviours, he didn't exclusively state that justified it by itself.

[steellord321]

That's very specific what you wanna do with the other guy. I've never heard a hetero guy say that ever. Wanting to see a guys penis is normal curiosity. You wanna kiss and go way farther and get hard every time he's near? That just sounds really gay at least with how you feel about that one guy. Gayer than anything i've felt for a guy even and i'm gay.

So you might wanna ask yourself some questions. You got a girlfriend cause its expected or cause you love and attracted to her? You want this guy as boyfriend or just admire him as normal friend? You feel this way for other guys?