LateForTheSky
March 3rd, 2008, 11:37 AM
Most people have an image in their head of a gay person. This is usually a person wearing obscure clothes that look somewhat transvestite, has ownership to a squeaky and has weird movement. Now I myself being gay know that this is bollocks, sorry for swearing but it was neccessary.
To be gay you must:
Want to be with a member of the same sex in a sexual way and you must want to go out with them, be a couple sorta thing. Love in other words.
It is not gay to:
1.Dress like a female or male (depending on your sex) Infact this has nothing to do with being gay this is a transvestite issue.
2. Wanting to see a member of the same sex naked is not un-naturel usually its just the need to compare.
3. Jacking another member of the same sex off or even having sex with them does not make you gay. If you love them then this is different but other than that at the age u are at its just hormones.
However remember every gay person does 2 and 3 so u still could be gay just dont say because u sucked a guy off ur gay.
Being gay is not a choice, your head needs to want a member of the same sex. There are no rules , everything is just the way it is.
To be gay you need to want to be with a member of the same sex for the rest of your life.
This was done quickly but i hope i cleared a few things up because I saw 3 Am I gay threads without even scrolling down. But dont get me wrong Im not discouraging threads about ur sexuality but things like how to handle social situations are what I think are more important because only YOU know your sexuality. I can't tell you,
Ask yourself (if your a guy)
Do I want to be with this guy both sexually and relationship wise, if the answer is yes then your gay but only u can answer that question.
But im here for you all, PM me. Guidence is different from telling u the answer.
To be gay you must:
Want to be with a member of the same sex in a sexual way and you must want to go out with them, be a couple sorta thing. Love in other words.
It is not gay to:
1.Dress like a female or male (depending on your sex) Infact this has nothing to do with being gay this is a transvestite issue.
2. Wanting to see a member of the same sex naked is not un-naturel usually its just the need to compare.
3. Jacking another member of the same sex off or even having sex with them does not make you gay. If you love them then this is different but other than that at the age u are at its just hormones.
However remember every gay person does 2 and 3 so u still could be gay just dont say because u sucked a guy off ur gay.
Being gay is not a choice, your head needs to want a member of the same sex. There are no rules , everything is just the way it is.
To be gay you need to want to be with a member of the same sex for the rest of your life.
This was done quickly but i hope i cleared a few things up because I saw 3 Am I gay threads without even scrolling down. But dont get me wrong Im not discouraging threads about ur sexuality but things like how to handle social situations are what I think are more important because only YOU know your sexuality. I can't tell you,
Ask yourself (if your a guy)
Do I want to be with this guy both sexually and relationship wise, if the answer is yes then your gay but only u can answer that question.
But im here for you all, PM me. Guidence is different from telling u the answer.