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JohnV
May 4th, 2014, 05:33 PM
Well, lately i've lost all my friends and they dont want to be anymore with me.. The reason doesnt matter. Now at school i have only one guy from my class that i talk to but he often leaves with his friends.. I dont know what to do when i'm alone..i look so "someone show mercy on my loneliness" and thats so ugly :/
any suggestions? (yeah i tried making new friends but kids here are tough):(:(:(:(:(
plebble
May 4th, 2014, 05:36 PM
Exactly the same here... I lost all my friends and walked around at school for like 4 years! I had quite bad social problems, I still avoid people.
I don't know. Just try to find someone who also seems alone and start talking to them, that'll probably work! I wish I did that. I have so many regrets not talking to people
Menzis
May 4th, 2014, 05:41 PM
Try finding someone who is also lonely, or doesn't seem to have any friends either.
electraheartt
May 5th, 2014, 09:33 AM
Staystrong. Don't let them get to you, just involve yourself in loads of activities that you enjoy, if you like sports then join a football or soccer club or something. Doing things helps you bond with others and it makes your old friends know that you don't need them to be happy. If they're bullying you, you should tell someone and let them help you.
Jack russell dad
May 5th, 2014, 03:28 PM
I never had many friends myself, but my cousin, who lives 3 states away. I'm a loner at school. You'll get use to it. Best of luck
Tendencies
May 6th, 2014, 01:10 AM
I totally know how you feel. I have a small number of friends that will actually hang out with me and have a conversation with me and they have a lot of other friends that I can't really fit in with. So I usually just kind of stay away and sit against a wall and stuff. I don't really have any advice for it since I have the problem myself, just wanted to let you know your not alone though.
NeuroTiger
May 6th, 2014, 01:33 AM
Excel in what you are good at...for e.g, if you really ace at mathematics or in some sports, just give your best. Those person interested in those fields will become interested in your potential and will hang out with you.
Remember, "birds of the same feathers flock together!" ;)
Danny Phantom
May 6th, 2014, 07:35 PM
I had something like this occur to me in school for 2 years. I didn't dwell on my loneliness, I surrounded myself with people who didn't go to my school (you may not have that option). I began focusing a lot more on my studies, all my grades rose from low 90s to extremely high 90s and a few 100s. I read a lot more and began to see the world a lot differently. I began working out alone and I lost 50 lbs in weight. I began exploring writing and photography, and now I am a very established photographer and an up and coming writer.
You may feel down on your luck now, but if you tune that negative energy/feeling into something, no matter how big or small, you can tune out something very positive.
Gamma Male
May 6th, 2014, 09:55 PM
I know how you feel. When my last real friend moved away in 7th grade I didn't really know what to do. I had never been completely friendless before. Just try to find people with similar interests. Join clubs or afterschool activities. Join the chess club, or the archery club, or whatever.
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