hooking up w a friend

[lisa S]

So there's this guy who lives a couple houses down and we've been friends since like we were 4. Or families are bff's we like always go on vacation together and everything. Him and I have hooked up a few times (just hj's and fingering, nothing more). We were hanging out last night just talking and he mentioned how he's frustrated because he's in a "slump" and also has yet to ever get a bj. I thought for a second about maybe giving him one just cause I knew it would cheer him up, but I didn't cause, I dunno, I thought maybe it would be kinda slutty and also he really didn't push the issue (I might have done it had he asked or like kept on the topic). Anywho, has anyone ever been in a similar situation? What did you do? Would it have been ok to give him a bj without it being like a really slutty thing to do? We're good friends and I'd totally trust him. Also, does it make a difference with a bj if you keep going till he comes, or stopping near the end and finishing with your hands? What's everyone's 2-cents?

[Swagging god]

You had/have noble intentions. However, in my opinion, you should wait until you both feel like you are both happy , before becoming intimate. I say this so, you can avoid the possibility of the relationship being compromised. Best thing you can do now for him is comfort him and then tell him that you have been thinking about taking the friendship to the next level and see what he says, good luck!

[DeeHaz]

If you wanna do some more stuff with him, go for it!

With the bj question, it dosent really matter but do it and see what he thinks :)

[JayDilla]

go for it with your friend..im sure both of you will have lots of fun

[Shado99]

if u like him and trust him why not

[Chrisrsnow]

Its never a black and white situation with sex stuff, but I suggest finishing with your mouth because getting that close and then finishing by hand is a real let down. Still feels good, but bust a nut in her mouth is way better then having her shoot you off with her hands.

[Pensive]

Already slutty actually. By any sane definition of slut.

So what? He's in a slump, big deal! Go use his own hand it's not rocket science. Also if he's had previous sexual contact he may have STI(s). He does sound promiscuous

[Matt169]

I reckon go for it, if you want to give it to him what should stop you, just make it clear you are only doing it for him because he is him and not just because you wanna get with a guy to avoid seeming slut like. Also I don't think he would get annoyed if you finished him out of the mouth but would likely prefer you did so in it.