Oral sex

[Kayla123]

Is it normal to have your boyfriend to kiss you but then he told me that he wanted sex so what should I tell him.because he started to undress and I felt a little uneasy about it

[Elysium]

If he wants to have sex and you're not ready, tell him that you're not ready. Don't do anything that you feel at all unsure about, even in the slightest.

[Kayla123]

Thnx

[Zsofia]

Yep, simple like that. Go by the speed you feel comfy. I kissed well before I had sex, and the same now, if I kiss, it does not mean that I'm going to have sex with the person.

[cheergurl]

Yeah you just have to be kind but firm. Make your expectations clear before the date, don't wait until the last minute

[Taryn98]

Only do things you feel completely comfortable with and are ready for. Also, don't make any decisions unless you're fully prepared for potential consequences.

[emily-candace]

just tell him to put his dammed clothes back on and you aren't going to do it. not even oral.

[Emmaaa]

Don't do anything until you're not ready chick - I made that mistake once and felt really bad afterwards :)

[ChrisTJ]

Yeah, I agree with those above me, only do things that you are totally comfortable doing. If you feel uneasy about it, tell him no.

[Lisa R]

If you feel uneasy or uncomfortable with any type of sexual contact just say no.

[ozteen]

If you feel uneasy or uncomfortable with any type of sexual contact just say no.
This...

[anrigirl]

If you're not ready just say no

[sallyfunshine]

Just say no!!!

[Gabbykins]

Don't consent to things you're not ready for. If your bf loves you, he will respect you and the pace you're comfortable with. If not, to the curb with his ass

[kentucky girl]

Don't let anyone push you into doing things you don't want to do

[Gottaloveaginger14]

If you arent ready tell him that and if i was you i wouldnt jump straight from kissing to sex. Try some oral or fingering or giving him a handjob or even try letting him watch you masturbate (my boyfriend loves watching me) or masturbating together.

[playfull-qt]

don't do anything you aren't ready for!!!

[Living For Love]

OP banned. :locked: