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alliancerules
May 4th, 2014, 06:00 AM
Ok bit embarrassing, me and my boyfriend had sex recently, hes a virgin im not, he said it hurt him and is not sure he wants to do it again if its painfull.
ive done it before with guys and they didn't say that, it shouldn't hurt should it.
did I do something wrong do u think?
deregisterme
May 4th, 2014, 06:03 AM
Ok bit embarrassing, me and my boyfriend had sex recently, hes a virgin im not, he said it hurt him and is not sure he wants to do it again if its painfull.
ive done it before with guys and they didn't say that, it shouldn't hurt should it.
did I do something wrong do u think?
We're all different. The first time with someone, it can be a bit strange. If and when you try again with him, communicate a bit more. If it's sore, slow down and relax
TheKingIam
May 4th, 2014, 06:12 AM
Maybe you have a big *cough* * cough* and you hurt him, he just needs to get used to it
Swagging god
May 4th, 2014, 08:03 AM
Some guys can experience pain during intercourse, communication does play a big role in success in bedroom. The best advice I can give is talk with him, and next time use lubrication, foreplay, and as others have said relax and take it slow. Also don't me afraid to try a position that best fits you and him. Good luck!
Justdance613
May 4th, 2014, 09:13 PM
Ok bit embarrassing, me and my boyfriend had sex recently, hes a virgin im not, he said it hurt him and is not sure he wants to do it again if its painfull.
ive done it before with guys and they didn't say that, it shouldn't hurt should it.
did I do something wrong do u think?
Since he is a virgin you could have went to fast or he wasn't loose enough or something. Next time try and use lubrication.
Chase_57
May 6th, 2014, 03:56 PM
I'd say just take it slow and use lube like a lot of the other guys have said. It could also be related to your penis size, if you are fairly large, he may just have to 'loosen up' over time.
mmppfc
May 6th, 2014, 04:47 PM
He wasnt used to it probably, new experience for him
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