Parent problems

[Stronk Serb]

So, I like this girl, let's call her Nicole. I decided to ask her out, I asked her out to a concert, she said yes, but her parents said no, even though I told her that I can escort her home after the concert. A few weeks later, I asked her to my birthday party, same thing, her parents didn't let her go because I live at the other side of town. Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with this?

[The3rdArmy]

Get to know her parents and gain their trust.

[Blood]

Ask her to do something on her side of town. When you go to pick her up, be really polite and friendly towards her parents.

[Dalcourt]

It isn't really clear from your post why they aren't allowing her going out with you ... are they just overprotective or has it something to do with you in person? It's hard to give really reasonable advice without that information except playing nice with the parents and try to earn their trust.

[Stronk Serb]

Ask her to do something on her side of town. When you go to pick her up, be really polite and friendly towards her parents.

I am thinking of asking her to do something right after school when we are morning shift. The school is downtown pretty much so we can go around for half an hour at least. There is a rock, metal, punk merchandise shop nearby, we have similar interests in music, so we can have a look around.

It isn't really clear from your post why they aren't allowing her going out with you ... are they just overprotective or has it something to do with you in person? It's hard to give really reasonable advice without that information except playing nice with the parents and try to earn their trust.

It isn't really clear to me too. My guess is that they are overprotective.

[yeahsure]

Get to know her parents and gain their trust.

this, would be a start.

but i think they are worrying about her going far or walking late at night.

how far are you from her, like in miles?

[Stronk Serb]

this, would be a start.

but i think they are worrying about her going far or walking late at night.

how far are you from her, like in miles?

15 miles approximately. We are literally at the opposite ends of town, but we have good public transport.

[plebble]

Ask her out somewhere near where she lives?

[Stronk Serb]

Ask her out somewhere near where she lives?

I did that, but her parents didn't let her even though she would get home before sunset. They told her that she needs to study even though we were afternoon shift. I am thinking of inviting a group of people to an event, including her and her friends, or asking her to hang out right after school since our school is downtown.

[yeahsure]

15 miles approximately. We are literally at the opposite ends of town, but we have good public transport.

15 miles is far to be fair... can you not visit her at home?

[Stronk Serb]

15 miles is far to be fair... can you not visit her at home?

Nope. Asking her to my place is a big fat "NO!" from her parents. As I said above, I will either make an event and invite her and her friends or just ask her to hang out right after school since it's downtown.

[Body odah Man]

So, I like this girl, let's call her Nicole. I decided to ask her out, I asked her out to a concert, she said yes, but her parents said no, even though I told her that I can escort her home after the concert. A few weeks later, I asked her to my birthday party, same thing, her parents didn't let her go because I live at the other side of town. Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with this?

Get the parents to trust you. I'd suggest working her around to inviting you over and letting them get comfortable with you. After you've done so they should be more easy going

[yeahsure]

Nope. Asking her to my place is a big fat "NO!" from her parents. As I said above, I will either make an event and invite her and her friends or just ask her to hang out right after school since it's downtown.

i meant you going to her house?

[Stronk Serb]

i meant you going to her house?

I will try that. But I doubt they would let me. They are like typical overprotective parents. Still, the worst thing is that they could say is no.

[Jack russell dad]

Sit down, and have a talk with her parents. Explain that ur not gonna rape her or anything, u just wannago out