love problems. help!

[fibblazes]

Hey guys. I have a big problem. So I have loved this girl for 3 years, and have
Been basically freindzoned. What my problem is is that she now is a slut in the worst
Of ways and I still can't stop loving her. She is nice and fun but during the weekend she goes
Crazy and gets fingered and sucks guys off. Also she lost her Virginity when she
Was 13. My brother told me to just stop talking too her but I so next to her in 2 classes and
We talk a lot. Help please I need some good advise!

[agirl555]

Honestly, you shouldnt like completely cut her off because you guys are still friends, but if I were you, id stop liking her. It kind of sounds like a movie plot if I say this, but there is a chance that you guys could really be destined and stuff and its just a phase for her and well you guys could slowly fall in love, but you are already friend zoned. I would find another interest to take your mind off her temporarily at least.

[Straya]

honestly if youve been friendzoned and she hasnt shown any interest in you before now i dont think your gonna get anywhere with her and by the way your describing her even if you did start dateing her your gonna be setting yourself up to be hurt

[Elysium]

Questions for Both :arrow: Relationships and Dating

My advice is, first of all, to stop somehow degrading her or looking down on her for being a "slut." What she chooses to do with her body is her choice and you have no right to judge or criticize her for it. Secondly, forget the "friendzone." She's either not interested in you or she has no idea that you feel this way. Either tell her or move on.

[Menzis]

Try to become friends with benefits if that suits you..

[Body odah Man]

Hey guys. I have a big problem. So I have loved this girl for 3 years, and have
Been basically freindzoned. What my problem is is that she now is a slut in the worst
Of ways and I still can't stop loving her. She is nice and fun but during the weekend she goes
Crazy and gets fingered and sucks guys off. Also she lost her Virginity when she
Was 13. My brother told me to just stop talking too her but I so next to her in 2 classes and
We talk a lot. Help please I need some good advise!

Sadly it is nearly impossible to distance urself from those you love no matter how terrible and corrupt they are. Only way to do so is for it to come from within, which can take a sweet ass time :(
Sorry bro

[plebble]

If I were in your situation, I would do my best to avoid her... but I know how you feel, I'm kinda going through that right now

[ImCoolBeans]

Have you actually told her that you have feelings for her? If not, what are you waiting for? You'll never get what you want unless you really go for it. If you have, and she is not interested, then I'm afraid to say that there may not be much you can do about it. You can't force something if the feeling isn't mutual. If you feel this strongly about her, I think you should say something, I'd rather be the guy who tried and did not succeed than the guy who never tried at all and felt torn up about it.

[NotShortButFunsized]

Questions for Both :arrow: Relationships and Dating

My advice is, first of all, to stop somehow degrading her or looking down on her for being a "slut." What she chooses to do with her body is her choice and you have no right to judge or criticize her for it. Secondly, forget the "friendzone." She's either not interested in you or she has no idea that you feel this way. Either tell her or move on.

This. what she does with her body is up to her. its not your place or right to judge her for her choices, look down on her for her own free will, or to tell her what to do with it.

If in three years of recieving your unbridled love, maybe she just isnt into you. Like ImCoolBeans said, if you havent told her your feelings, youre garanteed never to recieve feelings in return, unlikely as they may be.

[Arden Beth]

I don't think you should stop talking to her, but if you really believe she is a slut and all that, then maybe you don't love her. Really evaluate what you love about her, and if you truly believe it's the right thing to do, then cut her off. Maybe it will stop her from sleeping around with others and it will give you the time to get over her.

[The3rdArmy]

My best friend and his (former) girlfriend were in the same situation. I helped him out with it, and I recommend that you just be good friends with her. It may kill you in the short-term, but it's better in the long run.

[indoxyl]

Hey guys. I have a big problem. So I have loved this girl for 3 years, and have
Been basically freindzoned. What my problem is is that she now is a slut in the worst
Of ways and I still can't stop loving her. She is nice and fun but during the weekend she goes
Crazy and gets fingered and sucks guys off. Also she lost her Virginity when she
Was 13. My brother told me to just stop talking too her but I so next to her in 2 classes and
We talk a lot. Help please I need some good advise!

1. there is no such thing as a friendzone
2. it urks me when people refer to girls as sluts when they do sexual things that people disapprove of
3. in my opinion you should talk to the girl and tell her how you feel just to get it off your chest and maybe that will help ease everything.