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Blablabla36489
May 1st, 2014, 05:13 AM
Hi!

I'm 14 year old boy. I've fallen in love with a girl from my school last month and I'm really crazy about her and I love her very much. I started to chat with her a bit and already told her that I love her. We don't talk much alive. Across my friend, she said that she's afraid I'll be boring to her. What should I do now? How can I become her good friend? Btw, she's in love with another guy.

Meganium
May 1st, 2014, 05:20 AM
It was probably a bad call telling her that you "love" her a month after you acknowledged her.

But that doesn't mean that you can't befriend her like you would any other human being. Just hang out, talk, and make sure you don't look like a stalker when you do so.

Elysium
May 1st, 2014, 05:24 AM
We don't talk much alive.
Do you talk to each other dead?
Is this an expression I've just never heard before? :P

Anyhow, you don't want to force yourself on her. If she ends up not liking you, she ends up not liking you. Maybe you should consider your options: you can try to keep getting closer to a girl who's in love with another guy, or you can move on. If you really think it's worth the time and effort to befriend her, then keep finding excuses to talk to her or just flat out ask how her day went, etc. Focus on being friends with her before you anything else. If you decide to move on, put her out of mind as best you can.

DiamondsGirl
May 1st, 2014, 05:41 AM
I believe OP means "we don't talk much in real life" :)

Jasper, I think you already know the answer deep in your heart. How are you gonna be in a relationship with a girl who loves somebody else? It's alright, love, there's surely somebody else out there for you. Get up and move on.