View Full Version : What does this mean?
Croconaw
May 1st, 2014, 04:25 AM
Some guy at my school called this girl my name. When he said hi to her, he called her my name. He also calls me by a shortened version of my real name. He also seems happy to seeme when I walk into the classroom at school. We talk for nearly the entire class. (It's a study hall) Also when we were on the iPads he wanted to show me something and he got so close to me our bodies were touching.
What does this mean? I don't really want him to be interested in me because I don't feel the same way.
Living For Love
May 1st, 2014, 04:33 AM
I've already called other people the name of one of my closest friends, and I'm not in love with her. It's just that I spend a lot of time with her, calling her name, and it just happens. Maybe he doesn't seem to realise he's being too touchy when you two are on the iPads, and the information you've written is not enough to determine whether he's interested in you or not, but if you think he is, and if he starts to get closer and closer to you, and even making you uncomfortable, just politely tell him he's a good friend, but you're not interested in dating him.
ksdnfkfr
May 1st, 2014, 04:56 AM
think its too early to tell if hes interested in you that way
NeuroTiger
May 1st, 2014, 04:58 AM
A week more and you'll get a better idea if he's interested or not
DiamondsGirl
May 1st, 2014, 05:44 AM
^^^^ that. Give him another week. Should he remain "flirty", you have several options depending on what kind of personality do you have:
A. Tell him straight away that you appreciate his effort but you're not into him
B. Give him clues within conversations that you're not into him
C. Be hostile/unfriendly/aloof
Saint
May 1st, 2014, 11:31 AM
Instead of straight up telling him that you're not into him,just don't show any signs of interest back,unless he does proceed to ask you out. Thing is there's no way to tell if he's really into you this quickly,so if it's just something he's unaware of (the flirting) you'd be in for a tad bit of embarrassment if his behavior isn't meant to be taken as a flirtatious sign.
Synyster Shadows
May 1st, 2014, 03:13 PM
It's hard to tell but he might be into you. Give it some time. If he is, politely tell him you're not interested. Do not just make gestures that suggest it. You might know their meaning but he might not. It sucks when someone sends signs that aren't totally easy to understand. Just tell him politely that he's a good friend but that you aren't interested in him.
backjruton
May 1st, 2014, 06:11 PM
If I understood 1% of this, maybe I would be able to think up a constructive response XD
Its like me with my best friend except we call eachother by different words and not other peoples names, although I don't know if she fancies me (when I asked if I'm who she had a crush on, she said "snowball's chance in hell..."). It could just be a friendship thing... if you mean something like this anyway.
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