View Full Version : Is my boyfriend gay ??
sonu
May 1st, 2014, 03:01 AM
Yesterday was my BF's birthday. I went to his room at afternoon door was open so I enter directly and saw that my BF was nude with his roommate. They were kissing each other...
I walked out instantly. They are roommates for more than 1 year
Is my Boyfriend gay ??
Living For Love
May 1st, 2014, 04:16 AM
Puberty For Girls :arrow2: Teen Sexuality and Gender.
NeuroTiger
May 1st, 2014, 04:57 AM
What a bizarre situation...:O
Saint
May 1st, 2014, 05:12 AM
If that isn't obvious enough,I don't know what is,lol.
Elysium
May 1st, 2014, 05:21 AM
Could also be meaningless experimentation or an independent encounter, but either way, isn't he cheating on you?
Menzis
May 1st, 2014, 05:25 AM
Wowwww, that's awkward as f***..
I'm straight and I would not want to kiss another guy naked...
So.. I think he is.. or in the worst situation he got forced to or manipulated into it, you never know.
Gamma Male
May 1st, 2014, 05:53 AM
Yeah, that it is usually a pretty big indicater.
backjruton
May 1st, 2014, 06:52 AM
Either meaningless or gay biromantic if he hasn't made advances on you at all but still very awkward
Harley Quinn
May 1st, 2014, 06:58 AM
Well, considering how you did catch him with his room-mate, nude and kissing, it would suggest that he does have at least some inclination towards the same sex. You do need to talk to him about that though, as he is your boyfriend, if you didn't know he was doing this, it's cheating and that's never okay. I guess this may also not be the first time something like this has happened, honestly. So yeah, there is the possibility he may be in fact, gay.
Aidoon123
May 1st, 2014, 03:11 PM
I'd be less worried about the fact it was with a guy, and the fact that he was nude, with another person, cheating on you :O
Snydergate
May 1st, 2014, 09:36 PM
Perhaps he is bi?
PinkFloyd
May 1st, 2014, 10:30 PM
You can't know for certain if he's gay or not, but one thing is for sure... He cheated on you.
Lonely teen
May 1st, 2014, 10:32 PM
What a bizarre situation...:O
Agreed lol
phuckphace
May 1st, 2014, 10:34 PM
it's most likely that he's gay and wanted to stay on the downlow, dating you was his "cover" so other people wouldn't suspect anything. it's actually pretty common for some gay guys to get girlfriends for that sole reason.
Dalcourt
May 1st, 2014, 11:19 PM
wow, really awkward situation. doing something like this your boyfriend must bevat least bi...and as said already, what's probably more important is that he cheated on you. talk to him if you are just is alibi girlfriend or what's going on. but no matter what he says...if he cheats on you he doesn't deserve you as a friend.
plebble
May 2nd, 2014, 02:58 PM
If his room mate is a boy, then yes. He is definitely gay or bi.... and cheating on you.
Alex_3869
May 3rd, 2014, 09:43 AM
Yeah so he cheated on you, and it was with a guy. You have to talk to him about what happened, no matter how hard it may be.
Zanman11
May 4th, 2014, 08:37 PM
Quite possibly, yes
acurasrock
May 4th, 2014, 10:17 PM
Yep, you have a gay boyfriend. Might want to date a straighter guy next time. DuMP!
CharlieHorse
May 4th, 2014, 11:19 PM
why don't you ask him?
he'll know more about his sexuality than anyone on this site.
Rocketsnail
May 4th, 2014, 11:23 PM
It seems like he could be, but honestly, I reckon you should confront him about it.
Chrisscotland
May 5th, 2014, 12:50 PM
like other have said, hes cheating on u, that's what you should be concerned about most, but you need to know if hes gay because if he is that's not fair on u.
sqishy
May 5th, 2014, 03:27 PM
He probably is not straight unless he was experimenting, but being naked makes that unlikely, and yes it does sound that he might be cheating on you
Lovelife090994
May 5th, 2014, 04:39 PM
Forget what he likes, he cheated on you. He should have some explaining to do, pronto!
Wyatt 13
May 6th, 2014, 04:53 PM
I think you have 2 ask him.
tyd922
May 14th, 2014, 04:21 PM
Gay or bi or he was raped..
Jk he's gay
MechaSniper
May 14th, 2014, 04:24 PM
Lets hope they were exploring.
JustAnotherTeen
May 15th, 2014, 10:44 AM
Probably Bi, I hope he isn't your boyfriend anymore.
Sanctum
May 15th, 2014, 12:14 PM
Yes he is gay.
Body odah Man
May 15th, 2014, 12:54 PM
I think you need a bittt more info before jumping to conclusions but it kindof does point that way. Sux for you :(
kaydencorey
May 15th, 2014, 05:33 PM
Well, he's certainly not straight, he's either gay, bi or experimenting.
That must have been one hell of a shock for you :(
However, he's playing with someone else when he's in a relationship with you, the gender of that person isn't the most important thing here.
jjlewis
May 16th, 2014, 09:29 AM
yeh id say so
meme101
May 16th, 2014, 09:35 AM
1.) isnt that cheating
2.) you should just talk and ask about the situation but...idk he just might be
bob97
May 16th, 2014, 08:11 PM
I'd be more worried about the cheating. He is probably bi-sexual if you two are in a sexual relationship. You have to confront him though. No matter how awkward it'll be. Hope everything works out.
Soccertees
May 17th, 2014, 04:47 PM
it looks like he is, sorry
ATOMICskittles
May 19th, 2014, 02:14 AM
Yesterday was my BF's birthday. I went to his room at afternoon door was open so I enter directly and saw that my BF was nude with his roommate. They were kissing each other...
I walked out instantly. They are roommates for more than 1 year
Is my Boyfriend gay ??
Ummmm gurl, that's pretty self-explanatory he's obviously gay and may be using you as a cover up. But if he's in a sexually relationship with you then he's bisexual. But nonetheless he is not fully straight.
jen698
May 19th, 2014, 06:30 PM
maybe he is bi and didnt want to tell you
Just Sayin
May 19th, 2014, 06:32 PM
Idk but it sure sounds like he might be
austeen2
May 20th, 2014, 01:19 AM
What did he say to you afterwardS?
noumiismywaifu
May 20th, 2014, 01:21 AM
I assumed you were a guy because of how many guys there are on this forum so I laughed quite heartily at the title. Anyway, yes, he's gay.
NickCollins
May 21st, 2014, 09:21 PM
you need to sit him down and have a serious talk with him and if he's gay you need to support him
Landbuscus97
May 22nd, 2014, 12:10 PM
you need to sit him down and have a serious talk with him and if he's gay you need to support him
I agree, talking to him would be the best way to find an answer
Sirgarett
May 23rd, 2014, 05:46 AM
I think that you already have an answer at the back of your mind, after all you're the one who knows him better than us. If not, I suggest you ask him before you witness sex the next time ;)
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