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Fdmember
April 29th, 2014, 05:26 PM
Hi everyone I am currently 15. and I have yet to have a gf. I have told about3 girls I like them over the course of 8 months they all said im not ready for a bf. Idkkkk what to do im sad that I have yet to have one.

any advice would be appreciated thanks!!

Matt_97
April 29th, 2014, 05:28 PM
I've got a friend who is 17 and has never had a girl friend! So you're completely fine

Fdmember
April 29th, 2014, 05:31 PM
I've got a friend who is 17 and has never had a girl friend! So you're completely fine

ik but its upsetting :(

Hollywood
April 29th, 2014, 05:33 PM
Just don't get yourself worked up over it. The time will come eventually, but you're fairly young right now and truthfully you don't really need to be in a relationship right now anyways. A lot of girls you know aren't ready, maybe you aren't either and you just don't know it! There's no point in worrying about it too much, when the right time comes around you'll know, but if you get into a relationship just because you want one you could be putting yourself in a bad position.

And by the way, I'm 18 and I've never been in a relationship either.

Fdmember
April 29th, 2014, 05:36 PM
Just don't get yourself worked up over it. The time will come eventually, but you're fairly young right now and truthfully you don't really need to be in a relationship right now anyways. A lot of girls you know aren't ready, maybe you aren't either and you just don't know it! There's no point in worrying about it too much, when the right time comes around you'll know, but if you get into a relationship just because you want one you could be putting yourself in a bad position.

And by the way, I'm 18 and I've never been in a relationship either.

Thank you very much for that it makes me feel better about my situation

Melodic
April 29th, 2014, 05:50 PM
You're 15, give it time.

I know plenty of people our age who haven't had a gf/bf.

The Trendy Wolf
April 29th, 2014, 05:52 PM
Hi everyone I am currently 15. and I have yet to have a gf. I have told about3 girls I like them over the course of 8 months they all said im not ready for a bf. Idkkkk what to do im sad that I have yet to have one.

any advice would be appreciated thanks!!

Just because it seems like all of your friends have girlfriends and you don't doesn't mean that you need to have one for yourself. You shouldn't search for a girlfriend just for the sake of getting to have one. Love will find you eventually, and besides, I've never had a girlfriend either and I'm nearly 15. You're still young, so give it time.

Synyster Shadows
April 29th, 2014, 06:47 PM
Give it time. If you try to a get a girlfriend just for the sake of having one, it will most likely mean less to you than having a girlfriend about whom you truly care and who truly cares about you. Just wait and when you're ready, you'll know. Just relax. As it's been said, there are people years older than you who have been single their whole lives. Don't worry about it.

Nick M
April 29th, 2014, 08:21 PM
I'm also 15 and I've never had a gf. Don't worry u will find the right one eventually. Don't ever give up :)

Plasma
April 29th, 2014, 08:35 PM
Hi everyone I am currently 15. and I have yet to have a gf. I have told about3 girls I like them over the course of 8 months they all said im not ready for a bf. Idkkkk what to do im sad that I have yet to have one.

any advice would be appreciated thanks!!

You're 15 dude. You have all of highschool, and even the rest of your life.

CharlieHorse
April 30th, 2014, 02:12 AM
Hi everyone I am currently 15. and I have yet to have a gf. I have told about3 girls I like them over the course of 8 months they all said im not ready for a bf. Idkkkk what to do im sad that I have yet to have one.

any advice would be appreciated thanks!!

I've never had a gf either, I'm 17.
I have lots of female friends though.
Waiting is worth it. The right one will come along at the right time and you'll be as happy as a clam :)

DiamondsGirl
April 30th, 2014, 04:50 AM
Do you people even read around before posting? :) I reply to/lurk around threads like this probably 500x a week. People of all sorts of ages complaining why they're "the only one" who has never had a partner. I always respond the same way:


It's not like you're gonna die soon. You're (person's age) not (add 60 years to person's age). Relax.

Menzis
April 30th, 2014, 08:53 AM
I'm 17 never had a girlfriend before.. it's normal.

backjruton
April 30th, 2014, 09:21 AM
My only question is.. why would you want one? I honestly don't like the sound of relationship because I prefer to be my own person and I think that seems much better so just enjoy it while you can before you lose the ability to. I don't ever want to lose that ability.....

plebble
May 2nd, 2014, 02:51 PM
I'm 18 and have never had a real life relationship, only internet ones

Meganium
May 3rd, 2014, 12:19 PM
I'll be 16 in 2 months. No girlfriend yet, and probably not for a while considering that I go to an all boys school. Don't worry about it.

Babs
May 4th, 2014, 12:45 AM
you don't need to rush into things. I'd say 90% of fifteen year olds aren't ready for a relationship anyway. hell, i'm fifteen and I've never dated anyone either. relax. these things come naturally; you can't force it.

Jack russell dad
May 4th, 2014, 08:01 PM
Never had 1 myself, want 1 tho.

Nyan-Katharine
May 4th, 2014, 08:51 PM
Chin up, I never had a girlfriend until the age of 20, you have plenty of time yet. :)

LifeOfLove
May 5th, 2014, 11:59 PM
15 is still pretty young. Honestly, it gets a ton better when you can drive and get yourself to/from seeing them and all that by yourself. It makes the whole thing much easier, including dates.

It's pretty normal, I wouldn't worry about it too much!

NeuroTiger
May 6th, 2014, 12:26 AM
You are still young to engage yourself in such a relationship...
Gain more maturity first...;)

Lovelife090994
May 6th, 2014, 03:24 AM
I'm 19 and still single. Just give it time. When you meet the right girl, you'll know what to do.

bob97
May 18th, 2014, 10:08 AM
Hi everyone I am currently 15. and I have yet to have a gf. I have told about3 girls I like them over the course of 8 months they all said im not ready for a bf. Idkkkk what to do im sad that I have yet to have one.

any advice would be appreciated thanks!!

You just have to wait for the right girl. I was 15 and went out with 7 girls already. But they all sucked and were a waste of time and money. Its good that you waited. Good luck hope you find a good girl