losing friends

[paraholic]

I've lost most of my friends and now it's getting worse my closest friends have boyfriends and they spend all their time together which I understand but it's making things really difficult for me as I am alone at school now idk what to do and if it's going to be like this for the last year I don't know what to do :(

[Body odah Man]

I've lost most of my friends and now it's getting worse my closest friends have boyfriends and they spend all their time together which I understand but it's making things really difficult for me as I am alone at school now idk what to do and if it's going to be like this for the last year I don't know what to do :(

I'm afraid that once u start losing friends it keeps going downhill :(
I hope you manage to find new ones but...at our age that is pretty hard to do.
Still-loner life is alright and you get used to it after a while at least.

[Menzis]

I've lost most of my friends and now it's getting worse my closest friends have boyfriends and they spend all their time together which I understand but it's making things really difficult for me as I am alone at school now idk what to do and if it's going to be like this for the last year I don't know what to do :(

I too have lost all of my friends, and I am a real loner..
Just try to make appointments with your current friends to keep the friendships alive.
And as I know from experience that if they cancel a lot or bail out at the last moment they probably don't want to be friends with you or you are going to stop asking them, because they keep cancelling anyway.
It really sucks, but maybe they aren't friends if they don't try to keep the friendship alive.
It sure sucks to have no friends believe me.

[JamesSuperBoy]

Maybe you could have a few girls only nights - or suggest things to do the boys hate - shopping for clothes or that.

[Jack russell dad]

I never really had any one to call a friend but my cousin, and my dog. I only have my cousin left, my dog has passed. The few people i talk to at school i will soon lose, in 2 years wen i graduate

[plebble]

Exactly this happened to me when I was like 13... I've always had social problems so I haven't really recovered from it. No one hates me now. All my friends are on the internet anyway.

[electraheartt]

I've said this on like 3 posts but join clubs relating to what you like, for example if you like art, join art club, etc. Boyfriends are overrated at like 12-14 years old so if you are 12 or 13 or 14 I wouldn't bother with boyfriends :]

[ImCoolBeans]

I'm afraid that once u start losing friends it keeps going downhill :(
I hope you manage to find new ones but...at our age that is pretty hard to do.
Still-loner life is alright and you get used to it after a while at least.

I don't agree with this post.

You can always make new friends; you have to be open and active in doing so though. You can't always expect people to come right to you.

I've lost many friends in the past over stupid reasons, some of which I don't even remember why they ended. It's a shitty feeling, but life will go on and you will make new friends. If you're afraid of distancing further from the friends who are now in relationships, why not tell them what's been on your mind? You don't need to tell them everything, but why not tell them that you've been feeling a little lonely and you could use some quality time with just them? I'm sure, as your friends, that they'll understand.

If you want to make more friends, have you considered joining any clubs or doing other activities at school? Electraheartt is right, it's a great way to meet people who you have things in common with, and sometimes there are a lot of people there for the same reason as you. I suggest looking into it.

[Body odah Man]

I don't agree with this post.

You can always make new friends; you have to be open and active in doing so though. You can't always expect people to come right to you.

I've lost many friends in the past over stupid reasons, some of which I don't even remember why they ended. It's a shitty feeling, but life will go on and you will make new friends. If you're afraid of distancing further from the friends who are now in relationships, why not tell them what's been on your mind? You don't need to tell them everything, but why not tell them that you've been feeling a little lonely and you could use some quality time with just them? I'm sure, as your friends, that they'll understand.

If you want to make more friends, have you considered joining any clubs or doing other activities at school? Electraheartt is right, it's a great way to meet people who you have things in common with, and sometimes there are a lot of people there for the same reason as you. I suggest looking into it.

Ah, I see. Well, in my defence-not everyone can I believe.