View Full Version : Do you love your best friend?
Pulp501
April 27th, 2014, 08:51 PM
This may be more for guys because most girls I know always say they love their friends, but most guys don't. So, do you think you love your best friend, in a friend kind of way at least, do you say it, do they say they love you? I think I've always loved my best friends, but I've never told them if they were a guy.
DiamondsGirl
April 27th, 2014, 10:11 PM
you don't need to. I don't tell my guy friends I love them (that would be weird LOL) but we know we do care for each other.
radsniper
April 27th, 2014, 10:13 PM
i love most of my friends but don't tell them i really should
Poison_Ivy
April 28th, 2014, 01:27 AM
I love my friends but there is no reason to tell them, we already know it because that is the reason that keep us together
Horatio Nelson
April 28th, 2014, 02:11 AM
I only have 2 friends, they are both guys.
They are like the older brothers I never had. I've never actually said "I love you", but it doesn't need to be said. I'd take a bullet for either one of them.
NeuroTiger
April 28th, 2014, 02:25 AM
My really close friends, I've told them that I love them...;)
They know it's not sexual...it's only about friendship ;)
ksdnfkfr
April 28th, 2014, 02:42 AM
me and my bestie love each other a lot, but don't think we ever said so.
Dark_Desires
April 28th, 2014, 03:40 AM
My best Friend and i have told each other we love each other many times but that's just us.
Hypers
April 28th, 2014, 04:32 AM
i love my best friend a lot...
but i dont tell, since he might think that its "gay" and yeah, lots of my friends think that love is attraction but actually love is more of care.
Croconaw
April 28th, 2014, 06:30 AM
I do love my best friend.
Hollywood
April 28th, 2014, 08:37 AM
Yes, I do. I think most people love their best friends, that's why they're called "best."
nino51300
April 29th, 2014, 04:23 PM
I love my best friend... I'd never date her, but she really is my sister.
Bmble_B
April 29th, 2014, 04:36 PM
Lol, my BF's are girls, but I still do love them though, 99% of the guys in my school are ignorant a-holes, but I have met some that I can open up to, probably two?
Melodic
April 29th, 2014, 05:26 PM
I do love my best friend, since he's my boyfriend and all :)
Dalcourt
April 30th, 2014, 04:16 AM
I have two best friends actually. My male best friend is also my boyfriend and I have told him, I love him.
As far as my best female friend is concerned I love her like a sister and I told her that.
I think I would not tell a male friend I love him, I just did it in my special situation as we became a couple. If it was a 'normal' male friendship it would be weird I guess...they would probably think I want more than friendship from them.
vampirefreaks
April 30th, 2014, 12:05 PM
I'm female, and my best friend is a guy, and we also used to date.
He tells me he loves me sometimes, and sometimes, I'll say it back, but sometimes, I'll just smile.
It feels kinda weird sometimes since we have a romantic history.
Ryan1698
April 30th, 2014, 01:14 PM
I love(d) my best friend, but then that love turned into a romantic love.
Body odah Man
April 30th, 2014, 02:02 PM
This may be more for guys because most girls I know always say they love their friends, but most guys don't. So, do you think you love your best friend, in a friend kind of way at least, do you say it, do they say they love you? I think I've always loved my best friends, but I've never told them if they were a guy.
I do love one or 2 best friends in a friend way but never mentioned it to them as they r guys and that would be awkward :(
ImCoolBeans
April 30th, 2014, 03:08 PM
I think guys don't say it often because it would be seen as "feminine." I do love my good friends, guys and girls alike.
sqishy
April 30th, 2014, 04:13 PM
Yes I do love them, but saying it and all would be seen as weird and awkward for them (not me :P)
there is always a form of love in friendship
Curious.kid
May 1st, 2014, 03:52 AM
I love my best friend ever since kindergarten and I want to kiss him on the lips but I'm afraid of what he's gonna say
Chrisscotland
May 1st, 2014, 09:08 AM
I have a few close friends but there is one I love, not in a sexual way but we have been really close since we were about 5ish and I love him most.
CutYouDown
May 1st, 2014, 09:22 PM
I've told girl friends that I love them, but it's a lot different with a guy I guess. Also, I can't say that I do love my guy friends, they are great friends, but they aren't the best, all I can say is that I am happy with them.
backjruton
May 3rd, 2014, 07:31 AM
I've probably said it once or twice to guy friends and girl friends. Recently saw one in subway that I'd last seen in school a few months before, she said "I love you" and I said "I love you too". I feel it but that's probably the only time I ever properly said it. I have the attachment to my best friend and 2 guy friends, but no matter how much I would love to I'd never be able to ask them out. A lot of people say they love me, all I say is "I love myself", because I don't want to feel too attached to anyone... :)
Rocketsnail
May 3rd, 2014, 07:36 AM
I just say it to anyone I want, they all know I'm being friendly and I come across as straight as a pencil with my guy friends anyway.
scollins239
May 5th, 2014, 05:26 PM
i tell my best friends..which are more like a brother usually that i love them..but lately i've lost all..every single one of my friends over some bull crap! i finally got the chance to click with someone who is like a lil brother to me...and i dont tell them yet as ive only known them a short amount of time..but yes i love them and as others have said i would take a bullet for him...the kid is like my lil brother and is JUST like me in almost every way except for being cuban! :cool:
liptonlee
May 7th, 2014, 04:47 AM
maybe the love in between friends is not necessarily expressible by 'i love you', which would be somewhat weird between guys lol but yeah, i do love my besties a lot
Stingray
May 7th, 2014, 11:07 AM
Yeah I have couple of friends that I'd call best friends that I'd say I love but I wouldn't tell them that because I'm pretty sure they don't like me as much as I like them. I dunno, I have a weird relationship with my friends.
Luminous
May 10th, 2014, 08:12 PM
I think to have a best friend you have to love them, however, I think trust is even more important. I don't have a best friend, but if I did, I'm sure I would love that person.
Cygnus
May 10th, 2014, 09:06 PM
Yes, they're like my brothers or sisters, I love them, guys don't say that to each other often or a guy to a girl best friend, but I love my best friends.
Hudor
May 11th, 2014, 10:05 AM
I love a friend who is very close to me in a brotherly manner but i don't think I would tell him that unless he was feeling really down and needed to know ppl cared for him.
canonjourno
May 14th, 2014, 05:00 AM
I love all my friends. They're amazing people and they teach me so much in this journey of life. They are people that really suffice the quote in my signature: "make yourself necessary to somebody". My bestie loves me very much, I think in almost a kind of sexual way though :/ [he has kissed me before, although I would never kiss him back LOL]
centropede
May 14th, 2014, 03:53 PM
I dont have friends
kaydencorey
May 15th, 2014, 05:04 PM
I love my best friend very much.
Jevon
May 15th, 2014, 05:28 PM
I love my best friend and I tell her that all the time she tells me she loves me too so...and that goes for all of my friends of course they are all girls so it isn't to big of a deal
HSJock206
June 11th, 2014, 12:22 AM
I have a best friend that I have known for over 10 years. I do more with him than my brothers. We have been through alot together, played sports, families gone camping together, we both ride quads, we live 2 blocks from each other but with all that there isnt a reason to tell him anything more. We know it already and can always count on each other for support or just someone to talk to. If it comes down to a crisis or something, I would tell him out of compassion. We plan on going to the same college and naval academy eventually. Trust me if your real close with your friend, He/She already knows it.
Lost in the Echo
June 11th, 2014, 12:36 AM
Yeah, it's not creepy. You're supposed to love the people you care about.
Cognizant
June 11th, 2014, 01:02 AM
I love my friend. I honestly can't see living my life without her at least somewhat involved with it. I mean we've kind of indirectly planned to stick together till throughout college- we're going to the same junior college after high school, then we're both moving down to SoCal for university. We won't be living under the same roof, but we'd be close enough to still be able to go do stuff on our free days or something.
LouBerry
June 11th, 2014, 01:29 AM
Well I certain love my best friends, more than anything in the world, and they tell me they love me all the time and vise versa, but Seth and Cody both don't care to tell their guy friends that they love them too, so there are some guys that will do it.
Bull
June 11th, 2014, 06:20 AM
True friends feel the love that exists between them, that feeling is more powerful than words. I might say something like: I love going hunting with you. It is a special bond.
Microcosm
June 11th, 2014, 06:32 AM
My really really close friends I care a lot about them.
Fanta_Lover44
June 11th, 2014, 10:00 AM
Me and my best friend both love each other like brothers, we always tell it to each other because we're use to it. :P
Ben_Frost
June 12th, 2014, 09:16 AM
I do and I told mine, it was a big mistake.
Bull
June 12th, 2014, 09:18 AM
I do and I told mine, it was a big mistake.
So sorry to hear that.
Karkat
June 12th, 2014, 09:31 AM
I love all my friends, regardless of sex. I know that wasn't the question, but most girls think loving your guy best friends = being interested in them? Nope.
Babiole
June 14th, 2014, 08:20 AM
Of course I love my best friend! I care about him.
boringkid
June 14th, 2014, 08:59 AM
I dont have a best friend :(
Passe-Partout
June 15th, 2014, 01:33 AM
I'm a girl, but still I don't tell my friends I love them all the time. I just remind them sometimes ;)
Body odah Man
June 15th, 2014, 04:52 AM
I used to
Apollo.
June 15th, 2014, 12:04 PM
I tell my best friends I love them all the time, not in the way of like a deep meaningful conversation but I'm always saying something like "love you bitch" or something along those lines. I think all of my best friends know I love them without me saying things like that, its still cool to remind them though.
Typhlosion
June 15th, 2014, 01:22 PM
They are like the older brothers I never had. I've never actually said "I love you", but it doesn't need to be said. I'd take a bullet for them. So perfectly said.
Zach1702
July 5th, 2014, 02:43 PM
Yes I suppose I do'love' my best friends in the sense that I care about them and they care about me and within nearly limitless boundaries I would help them knowing they would hopefully do the same for me, but I have only just realised how lucky I am to have best friends( 3 others) since I found our that one of them (the one that I am closest to) was moving to Canada (I live in the UK) :(
TheRedViper
July 6th, 2014, 04:32 AM
I really do love my best friend, but she's a girl, so I guess it's not the same as you meant. I have two other best friends and I'm fond of them, but nothing more than that really.
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