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theatergeeker
April 27th, 2014, 08:13 PM
So I am really confused. So I am sexually attracted to men, when I see attractive guys on the street I look and am turned on. When I see an attractive woman I think she is attractive but have no sexual desires. For some reason though I can watch lesbian porn and make out with a girl and be turned on its not completely the same but I definitely feel sexual attraction but never just walking down the street and looking at a woman. I have no idea if I am buy or straight? :what::what: so am I bi or gay?

Alex_3869
April 27th, 2014, 08:18 PM
Well, can you imagine yourself being in a serious, and committed relationship with a boy? If you can then you are probably gay or bi. If you have both physical (sexual) attraction and emotional attraction to a guy than you are gay or bi. If you have both physical and emotional towards girls then you may be bi. If not, well you might be gay.

It also may be the hormones kicking in as puberty is starting. Dont jump to conclusions right away

theatergeeker
April 27th, 2014, 08:22 PM
Well, can you imagine yourself being in a serious, and committed relationship with a boy? If you can then you are probably gay or bi. If you have both physical (sexual) attraction and emotional attraction to a guy than you are gay or bi. If you have both physical and emotional towards girls then you may be bi. If not, well you might be gay.

It also may be the hormones kicking in as puberty is starting. Dont jump to conclusions right away

So I know I am at least gay because I am turned on by men emotionally and physically but girls its just like I could date one but sex wouldn't be the first thing that came to mind but I definitely would like it

Alex_3869
April 27th, 2014, 08:26 PM
So I know I am at least gay because I am turned on by men emotionally and physically but girls its just like I could date one but sex wouldn't be the first thing that came to mind but I definitely would like it

Actually, that would make you at least bisexual.

Babs
April 27th, 2014, 08:48 PM
it sounds like you're bi, but you really dont have to decide now. maybe you should experiment a little.

CharlieHorse
April 27th, 2014, 09:15 PM
No way to know so early.
Your development will tell with time.

Infidelitas
April 28th, 2014, 01:03 AM
Labels are for jam jars.

Find who you are in your own time :)

ksdnfkfr
April 28th, 2014, 01:07 AM
So I am really confused. So I am sexually attracted to men, when I see attractive guys on the street I look and am turned on. When I see an attractive woman I think she is attractive but have no sexual desires. For some reason though I can watch lesbian porn and make out with a girl and be turned on its not completely the same but I definitely feel sexual attraction but never just walking down the street and looking at a woman. I have no idea if I am buy or straight? :what::what: so am I bi or gay?

You have a very severe condition resulting in massive confusion called being 13. I know because I have it too :)

hithere14
April 28th, 2014, 03:59 PM
have you got with a boy?

backjruton
April 28th, 2014, 04:10 PM
Homosexual biromantic, gay bi-curious or just bisexual. I'm not too sure but it could probably be one of these 3 :kitty:

beenthere
April 30th, 2014, 07:24 PM
When you are 13, don't even try to figure it out. Even though you feel you are Gay, that might not even turn out to be the case. You are a normal 13 year old. puberty kind of makes you want any kind of sex you can get. So don't lable yourself. just enjoy being a kid and time will tell once you have a chance to experience more of life.

BryP
May 1st, 2014, 03:19 AM
I think everyone goes through stages like this :) so I wouldnt really stress about it. Just go with the flow, see where it leads you. There is no need to label everything, just be happy!

NeuroTiger
May 1st, 2014, 05:05 AM
Dude, you are still so young to label yourself.
You still need to explore the teen world before jumping to a conclusion ;)

Forsakenbymyself
May 5th, 2014, 10:32 AM
Homosexual biromantic, gay bi-curious or just bisexual. I'm not too sure but it could probably be one of these 3 :kitty:

Yup.

Justt wait at least a couple years, you should feel less confused and yuor sexuality will settle.

plebble
May 5th, 2014, 10:35 AM
Well you're not straight, that's for sure.
You're probably bi

yeahsure
May 5th, 2014, 11:43 AM
Well you're not straight, that's for sure.
You're probably bi

this, but maybe try experimenting ;)

Snydergate
May 6th, 2014, 02:32 PM
No you're just curious, I get the same way. Today while on a break between my classes I was sitting near two gay guys. One of them was wearing a loose tanktop so I could see his nipples and abs every time he bent over, I got hard instantly. It just happens

steellord321
May 6th, 2014, 03:08 PM
If you want a simple answer i would say gay

But more accurate, i'd go with homosexual biromantic or bisexual. You're probly not hetero.