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[tom08]

i was at my friends house the other day and we were in his room masterbating each other and his mom walked in and threw me out of the house.my friend invited me back but i am worried his mom will be there so what will i do?

[Gavin]

I dont think that there is anything you really can do,i would talk to your friend and tell him to have a word with his mum and see what she thought about the whole suituation

[Maverick]

Tell your friend to ask his mom if you can come over. But don't show up without some kind of confirmation she wants you there. And if she doesn't want you there anymore then there's nothing you can do about it except hang out at your house or somewhere else.

There are consequences for doing what you did and you got caught and you have to live with it. Use better judgment next time.

[Dolphus Raymond]

I couldn't agree with Anthony more. You need to think more than short-term about this. What gets you off, is less important than what's in your best interest. A lot of parents will not allow that kind of thing. If it were your child, would it not freak you out? If you value your friendship with him, you should keep it in your pants, because otherwise his parents might break up your friendship. I doubt that risk is worth whatever you get out of mutual masturbation.

[Danstevens]

I couldn't agree with Anthony more. You need to think more than short-term about this. What gets you off, is less important than what's in your best interest. A lot of parents will not allow that kind of thing. If it were your child, would it not freak you out? If you value your friendship with him, you should keep it in your pants, because otherwise his parents might break up your friendship. I doubt that risk is worth whatever you get out of mutual masturbation.

A very intelligent post and I couldn't agree more. The truth is that there isn't much you can do but maybe wait for the heat to die down a bit first then maybe speak to your friend about it and see if his mum is alright with you coming round. Or find somewhere else to meet up.

[RaisingSand]

While many teenagers experiment like this, you really have to take into account quite a few things: where you are, who's in the house with you, the risk of getting caught, the risks of doing this together, will it have any affect on the friendship. Sounds like you should have thought about a few of these things first.
There is a possibility his mother just freaked out and was/is trying to protect her son. It sounds like you and this other guy are still good friends, but I don't think you should go back over to his house until you know that his mother is okay with it. If she's not, that may just be something you have to deal with.
Another option is sitting down and having a talk about what happend with him and his mother (as uncomfortable as that may be, it may actually work and let you guys continue as before). Just find a way to explain (without too much graphic detail, don't want to disturb the poor woman any more) what happend, and maybe just suggest new things, such as you're allowed to come over, but someone has to be home, no closed doors etc.
Best of luck. :hug:

[zacharooo]

normally when kids parents discover or walk in on sexual activities they really dont know aht to say exepept "oops i leave you alone so jus ask ur friend and seee what his mom says. or invite him over to you place

[Hippie]

I couldn't agree with Anthony more. You need to think more than short-term about this. What gets you off, is less important than what's in your best interest. A lot of parents will not allow that kind of thing. If it were your child, would it not freak you out? If you value your friendship with him, you should keep it in your pants, because otherwise his parents might break up your friendship. I doubt that risk is worth whatever you get out of mutual masturbation.

I agree. But also understand why you would do such a thing, Been there done that.. But I had a lock on my door.

EDIT: I also agree with DamagedHearts, Couldn't of said it better.


Hippie

[VanillaBear23]

I really dont no wot 2 say, all the others have got it covered, though having been cuaght doing crazy shit many a time, i wud say, make him talk 2 her, i mean ask him 2

[Chatman]

i think what most of you have missed is how you would feel as the mother. This is possibly a kid you've never really properly met before masturbating with your son! If it was your hosue would you want some one's mess on the carpet? Would you want to find your son masturbating in the first place? Could this guy he's doing this with be his boyfriend? I know these questions seem strange but actually comprehending what must have been going on in that poor woman's head at the time would have been awful. Yes everyone does it, but i suppose in some ways this shows us how selfish we can be. I didn't want this post to be offensive or nasty. I just wanted to stress what others have said about thinking about the bigger picture. Other than that, i guess just do what the other guys have said. :D