Is this safe?

[alliancerules]

Hope this is the right place to ask.
Me and my boyfriend are going to sleep together soon, he's never had sex before and I have had with 2 different guys and I used protection both times.
Would it be safe to do it with out condoms, neither of us would have a disease or infection, and this way it would be more intimate.
What do you think, I am being naive?

[Taryn98]

I hope you're on the pill then

[alliancerules]

lol I don't think we need the pill, we are gay :rolleyes:

[Living For Love]

Questions for Both Boys and Girls :arrow2: Relationships and Dating.

[Synyster Shadows]

I'd personally say to use condoms and not take the risk because you can never be too sure. I'd personally to not consider going unprotected until both of you are tested for any sorts of STDs, coming clean, of course, and then are sure you want to go that way. It's really up to you guys to discuss but that's just my opinion.

[ksdnfkfr]

Everybody always advises condoms even if both boys are 100% virgins. They say there's things that can be transmitted other than whatever std's come to mind.

[Chrisscotland]

I think it would be safe if u have always been careful with other guys, I could be wrong though, don't know much about that

[Pensive]

In terms of anal sex it is always advised to wear a condom - there's far too much harmful bacteria back there no matter how much you clean it. i think UTIs are the most common complaint.

[Menzis]

You should be on the pill, but I don't know maybe you should do some more research on the internet, because I don't trust condomless sex, unless you want to have a baby together :).

[alliancerules]

As I said above already, we are 2 guys lol lol no pill needed!

[ninja789]

can people not tell this is a guy talking??

It is safest to use a condom given you can pick up these infections at times you wouldnt expect

[backjruton]

Surely going on the pill still has an effect if you're both guys. LOL :lol:

I don't really know, sex isn't the kind of thing I want to be doing or considering myself any time soon

But do what the others say and protect yourself anyway, not that I would

[Alex_3869]

Surely going on the pill still has an effect if you're both guys. LOL :lol:

I don't really know, sex isn't the kind of thing I want to be doing or considering myself any time soon

But do what the others say and protect yourself anyway, not that I would

The pill is for contraception. OP is talking about STDs etc. it will have an effect but not helpful in any way because... Guys can't get pregnant. And it doesn't really prevent STDs.

Answering the OP. I wouldn't do it without protection. I mean you guys can get tested and make sure you are clean so you don't get anything, but just to be on the safe side, wear a condom. And as someone said above, think about where you are putting it. It's not exactly the most clean part of the body.

[ksdnfkfr]

As I said above already, we are 2 guys lol lol no pill needed!

All the same, every precaution should be taken! jking. Know how you feel though, I really really wouldn't to wear one with my boyfriend.

[backjruton]

The pill is for contraception. OP is talking about STDs etc. it will have an effect but not helpful in any way because... Guys can't get pregnant. And it doesn't really prevent STDs.

Answering the OP. I wouldn't do it without protection. I mean you guys can get tested and make sure you are clean so you don't get anything, but just to be on the safe side, wear a condom. And as someone said above, think about where you are putting it. It's not exactly the most clean part of the body.

Haha even Ezra said it too. I just find it funny because I looked at the gender and then scrolled down thinking "WTF?", I know what it's for and that too I'm just in the funny mood between happy and sad once again right now...

Surely a condom would be better if you buy them pre-lubricated anyway I think so it wouldn't burn as much. But I don't think I myself like the material because of some stupid problems with my senses... I'd "YOLO" it :lol:
:what:

[hithere14]

condom it bro