Bad at knowing when a girl likes me

[Menzis]

Hi,
I am really bad at knowing when a girl likes me or is attracted to me or if she is just being nice.
So girls:
How do you act around boys you like?
Do you have any male friends you do not feel attracted to?
How do you act around male friends you are not attracted to?

[Croconaw]

It's honestly different for everyone. Is there a specific girl you like, or are you just referring to girls in general? I can probably help you if you're in a specific situation.

[Menzis]

It's honestly different for everyone. Is there a specific girl you like, or are you just referring to girls in general? I can probably help you if you're in a specific situation.
Well, i'm friends with this girl for a long time, but I just want to know if she likes me or not, because I just want to be friends and not anything more.

[Cece14]

I act the same around everyone, even ppl i do and dont like....

[Melodic]

How do you act around boys you like? I stare through their soul
Do you have any male friends you do not feel attracted to? Yes.
How do you act around male friends you are not attracted to? I just talk I guess.

[highschool]

around guys I like, let's just say I'll do the most. If i know we're hanging out, i'll be dressing really nicely, I'll flirt with them, show some interest in what they like, really listen to what they're saying

to my guy friends: i show up to their house in sweatpants and just act "normally"

[Pensive]

If she does fancy you, make sure you aren't leading her on - maybe mention a girl you DO fancy in conversation.

Secondly, if you have to ask then she probably isn't interested. Or is just terrible at flirting.

[Menzis]

Thanks now I've read this I don't really thinks she is in to me and just wants to be friends :) great!

[backjruton]

I've had the confusion in college too.

My best friend and I are always very cheeky with eachother. Always sat next to eachother making jokes, talking to eachother and laughing. Everyone thinks we're going out, or at least they did before we both came out :lol: There's the signs though... she's played with my hair, poked me, rubbed my back and stuff, things I can't imagine "friends" doing to eachother as I never touched any of my friends at all let alone do this. One time the teacher for some reason said the word "spank", and the natural reaction for both of us was to look at eachother in I think a provocative way like we were thinking of doing it to eachother... We've shown all the signs of a relationship except for hugging and kissing, but we're not actually in one; it's just good that I've made such good friends with someone else who's autistic and almost exactly like me.

BUT I have definitely seen the signs with some guy friends too. One of them found out what triggers my erections before, and kept doing it because of my reaction and always right before I had to get up and go somewhere else so people noticed. Because of this, other guys started doing it, but I don't know if it was just to give me an erection as it bugged me a lot or if it was to show me more of the signs that they like me as more than just friends. The friend I told I'm attracted to though, started pinching my cheek and that REALLY did something, I told him and he started to do it even more - as well as randomly coming up to me and asking if I wanted a massage and JESUS it made me feel so much better that day. Too many things trigger me, it's too hard to avoid and I'm glad they don't go out of their way to, as I just start to feel nicer when I get them and I need that nice feeling when I'm being a stresshead.

I myself would just ignore the signs and not try to take it further. Until the chance to become a FWB comes up or a relationship where I won't get pestered for anything... I could really imagine myself being in a relationship just for sex. From my experience people can be like this while just being friends, it's kinda confusing and especially from my perspective but I know how I feel anyway.