long distance&online relationship.

[PicklesEatCookies]

elo!
ok well i was talking to one of my guy friends and he's all like u wanna meet one of my other friends so,obviusly,i said yes. we started talking and within like 20 minutes he's all like"i REAALLY like you"and honestly he's one of the sweetest guys EVER and i trust him but i mean i live in north america and he lives in central america(i used to live there..fun lol) ok so anyway, today he said he was thinking about a long-distance relationship with some1 adn about 5 minutes later he asked me to be his girl friend.(knowing eachother for like 2 days) :) i said yes. :D:wub: and he's always saying things like "i love u more than any other girl,i'd do anything to hold u,kiss u,just have u forever.." and he makes me blush everytime he does.. lol. and of course i reply with sweet things too but idk if he's lying..my friend says he's most prolly not lying and well i mean i thought why not just give the guy a chance..u know? and im slowly falling in love.<3 we even have nicknames lol. soo what do u think? is this guy for real?
and if he is..any advice on how to keep a long-distance realtionship going? muc appreciated. :)

-Sadie. :)

[Break the Cage]

umm... you will never see this guy, if you do he will not be who has says he is.
dont be a fool online relationships are pointless

[unknownuser]

I wouldn't cause you would never see him and in the long run...It will hurt!

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Well, being in a long-distance relationship with something that I first met on the internet myself, I can't tell you they never work out. However, you've known this guy for 2 days, and you've never met him in person. That is not a basis for a relationship. Keep talking to him if you want to, but how can you call yourselves boyfriend and girlfriend? You don't know how he really is in person (because in all reality, people come across differently over the internet than they do in person, whether they're trying to or not). I'd suggest getting to know him better, and holding off being a couple until you've met up. That doesn't mean you can't still flirt with each other, but it's unrealistic to call this a romantic relationship. Believe me, long-distance is hard. Not a day goes by for me where I don't wish my boyfriend lived here, or I lived there. And if I were in your situation, faced with a choice between a guy I've never met and may never meet, versus the many guys near you that you could be going out with (and don't say you hate them all, you haven't met them all)... it's a pretty obvious choice which is likely to make you happier in the long run, so don't commit to this so quickly!

If you do meet this guy, and things work out, well, let things go from there. But for now, I don't think you should be exclusive with this guy.

[jay92]

well have u seen this guy before?
1, probably never had a girlfriend
2, if he is asking you out over internet he is desperate
3, if he is asking you out and has never met you he is desperate
4, yeh the texts he is sending are "sweet" but ya got to look at the stalker creepy side of it
5, if its long distance and mainly on internet, he's gonna get worse - stalker worse, your cheating on me cos u didnt tell me where u were going worse.
6, have you heard his voice before?

my advice is call the guy s stalker and walk away (or block or whateva ur doing)

7, dont say your falling in love, cos then you convice yourself you are "in love" with your internet lover boy and when he starts asking every 2 seconds for pics of you naked its gonna get harder and harder to dump him

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Jay, just a note, you can use the "edit" button to fix your posts, there's no need to make two in a row.

[PicklesEatCookies]

to all that replied..so far. lol.
ok anyway yeah does make sense.
i even asked the dude(one of my closest friends at that lol) that introduced us actually knows him and said that he's not lying but idk.
im prolly gonna be talking to him later and i guess i'll just talk to him about the whole deal.

[Gumleaf]

i think jessi (teeny's sis) is a great example of how these things can work. but, you have to get to know the person first, and that takes more then 2 days to do. i wouldn't get involved in an online relationship unless i thought i knew the person well enough first.

[tombstonequeen]

BULL
man, hmm
i met my fiancee online sure we didnt say we love each other only two days after being with each other
we have communicated not only online
we will be together for a year on july 4th
he lives in northern ireland so find urself lucky he is in the same country lol
but in two months he is movin out here on a work visa for his job
i can positivly say that i am in love an he is my soul mate
dont let anyone stand in ur way of happiness
if i had then i would have taken more pills back in august
just use ur head and use ur time wisely and wish me luck with my future wedding O.<