How do I get out of this relationship successfully and safely?

[Ffdp16]

I am in a relationship with this guy basically let me move in with him because I was in a dangerous location. I started having a sexual relationship with him and he became my boyfriend. So I guess it was ok while it lasted but now I am very discontent in this relationship. And I want out. But idk if it'll work for one I don't want to be persuaded into anything and secondly I am scared of where to go. I don't really have anywhere to go which is the reason I made this decision anyhow. Advice please?

[Body odah Man]

I think ur kinda trapped at the moment. You need to save up some money, find a place to live and just leave without letting him know in case he gets violent. GL

[DiamondsGirl]

Yeah I second bebop's reply. You're trapped there before you can rent your own place. I have a friend who got stuck in your situation once and this is exactly what she did; save up $$. It's not like there's anything else you could do.

By the way, why are you so scared? Is he abusive? You can always bring this up to the authorities you know

[Alex_3869]

We'll, if you don't have anywhere to go, then your going to be stuck. If you have any close friends that would let you stay with them, or any family members, that could get you out of the situation temporarily. However, it isn't permanent. You're going to want to start working and saving money so you can find a place to live

[Menzis]

Isn't there somewhere you can go.. like your parents or grandparents or any family members or friends you can trust?

[Ffdp16]

Isn't there somewhere you can go.. like your parents or grandparents or any family members or friends you can trust?

I can't go back home I'm legally not allowed to go back home and it's not very stable I'll just be put back in foster care. My grandparents are dead and the rest of my family is pretty unstable my mom's sister's husband is also sorta racist. So I have 2 choices to either go back to foster care to the streets I was living underground then and it was a pretty shitty situation.

Yeah I second bebop's reply. You're trapped there before you can rent your own place. I have a friend who got stuck in your situation once and this is exactly what she did; save up $$. It's not like there's anything else you could do.

By the way, why are you so scared? Is he abusive? You can always bring this up to the authorities you know


He's been pressuring me to do stuff. I'm not really comfortable with and he's been sorta verbal. I don't really want to tell the authorities because I'm actually the one in the wrong.