He's staring at me...

[Escee]

So, I like this boy in my grade and we're like really close friends and stuff. :wub: In the middle of class, I can always see him, from the corner of my eye, looking at me. :rolleyes: It's either a glare or glance and he never stares unless my back is turned completely towards him. When I'm taking a test and he's sitting right behind me I'm told that he just stares at me the whole time. Sometimes, I feel like catching him look at me and when I do, he continues looking at me and looks away after a few seconds. Even when we look at each other, he has the straightest face ever and it never changes...like ever. The weird thing is that he doesn't even like me back and I'm pretty sure he doesn't because he tells all his friends that and plus, I'm not the most attractive person ever and I'm more on the ugly side. The weirder thing is that he only looks at me like that and never anybody else. He's either looking at the teacher, his guy friends, into space, or at me. Why does he do this?? Is it because he wants to know if I'm ok or still there? Is my hair just weird and terrible? Is it because he actually likes me but he doesn't want to admit it because of my under average appearance? :what:

[Synyster Shadows]

I think the best way to find out would be to just ask him if he likes you. We can't tell what this guy is thinking anymore than you can. You should just ask him if he like you

[DiamondsGirl]

What you're experiencing my dear is called "being a girl". I don't know why our radar is so sensitive to little pointless stuffs like that. If you really want to know whether he likes you or not, go ask him. There's no other way.

[Escee]

Well the thing is that I'm 99% positive that he wouldn't say that he likes me because I've heard all his friends and my friends asking him and he said no to all of them. He'll just tell me the same thing and there's no point of asking.

[DiamondsGirl]

If you say so *shrugs* but do keep our advice regarding "just ask" for the future.

[Menzis]

Theres this girl in my class that I would aways look at, because she's very attractive.. She caught me a lot watching and I have caught her watching at me sometimes.. when she looks at me I try to look for a bit and than watch somewhere else.. So it could be that he thinks your attractive or he likes you.

[Pensive]

'Do you like me? No? Then stop staring, creep.'

[backjruton]

I couldn't really understand too much of the OP, but...

He tells his friends he doesn't like you. Isn't that just to keep up appearances with them? A friend in college was close to this girl I'm always with and he was always being rude to her and saying he doesn't like her when he was talking to anyone else other than her and she wasn't there. I've had my "fair share" of experiences where people act one way with their other friends and another when just with me, it was like this with a lot of people I guess. It sucks if he's doing that but you should also talk to him and ask him instead of just thinking he doesn't like you because of the way he acts; it can't hurt to try if you ask him when he's on his own with no one else.

Looks aren't important to everyone, it could be your personality he's after, although people always have different depictions of what is hot or not and the guy I said I find really hot to my best friend, he said he didn't find too good looking and that bugged me because I stare at him sometimes in college and I KNOW how I feel in case of both personality and looks. He even told me last night he even said another old friend looks really hot too, because I showed him a picture on facebook as we already knew this guy in school and I got along really well with him, he looks really hot now especially because he's grown up FAR TOO MUCH in the year since I last saw him...

Hopefully if you both do go further and get along well together then he won't be afraid to show you off to his friends, it can't hurt to at least try and see if the signs are really there.

[Body odah Man]

So, I like this boy in my grade and we're like really close friends and stuff. :wub: In the middle of class, I can always see him, from the corner of my eye, looking at me. :rolleyes: It's either a glare or glance and he never stares unless my back is turned completely towards him. When I'm taking a test and he's sitting right behind me I'm told that he just stares at me the whole time. Sometimes, I feel like catching him look at me and when I do, he continues looking at me and looks away after a few seconds. Even when we look at each other, he has the straightest face ever and it never changes...like ever. The weird thing is that he doesn't even like me back and I'm pretty sure he doesn't because he tells all his friends that and plus, I'm not the most attractive person ever and I'm more on the ugly side. The weirder thing is that he only looks at me like that and never anybody else. He's either looking at the teacher, his guy friends, into space, or at me. Why does he do this?? Is it because he wants to know if I'm ok or still there? Is my hair just weird and terrible? Is it because he actually likes me but he doesn't want to admit it because of my under average appearance? :what:

Ask him. Only then can you know for sure. Good luck

[JamesSuperBoy]

So, I like this boy in my grade and we're like really close friends and stuff. :wub: In the middle of class, I can always see him, from the corner of my eye, looking at me. :rolleyes: It's either a glare or glance and he never stares unless my back is turned completely towards him. When I'm taking a test and he's sitting right behind me I'm told that he just stares at me the whole time. Sometimes, I feel like catching him look at me and when I do, he continues looking at me and looks away after a few seconds. Even when we look at each other, he has the straightest face ever and it never changes...like ever. The weird thing is that he doesn't even like me back and I'm pretty sure he doesn't because he tells all his friends that and plus, I'm not the most attractive person ever and I'm more on the ugly side. The weirder thing is that he only looks at me like that and never anybody else. He's either looking at the teacher, his guy friends, into space, or at me. Why does he do this?? Is it because he wants to know if I'm ok or still there? Is my hair just weird and terrible? Is it because he actually likes me but he doesn't want to admit it because of my under average appearance? :what:

I like this boy in my grade and we're like really close friends and stuff.

Ok ask him - but yeah its cool

[Croconaw]

If you're close friends, you should be able to ask him.

[NeuroTiger]

I'll probably ask him to remove such doubt...but you should know when and how to bring up the topic...

[Escee]

It's not that he treats me badly or rudely or anything around his friends. He actually talks to me, but not as much because obviously he's talking to them. However, he IS the type of person to judge greatly on a girl's appearance. Because there was two girls that he liked (which I never caught him looking or staring at either btw) and he only liked them because of how they looked and not for who they were. Plus, he specifically told me that he wouldn't want to date my race, so he's sort of racist in a way but his best friend is the same race as me. I'll ask him tomorrow and try to find the right time to ask.

[DiamondsGirl]

It's not that he treats me badly or rudely or anything around his friends. He actually talks to me, but not as much because obviously he's talking to them. However, he IS the type of person to judge greatly on a girl's appearance. Because there was two girls that he liked (which I never caught him looking or staring at either btw) and he only liked them because of how they looked and not for who they were. Plus, he specifically told me that he wouldn't want to date my race, so he's sort of racist in a way but his best friend is the same race as me. I'll ask him tomorrow and try to find the right time to ask.

what the fuck I have just read?? He wouldn't want to date "your race"? What is it that you're gonna ask him then? Whether he likes you or not? I'd say forget it. Even if he really likes you this is definitely, unquestionably, the kind of guy you want to stay away from.

[Escee]

Yea, I don't even know anymore. He is in a severely confusing state, in which no girls understand him now. He told me this last year October when he just started to consider liking or dating anybody, so he's probably changed and expanded his "dating preferences" by now, maybe...idk. I'll just hope for the best and see if he'll ever want to date someone like me.

[ksdnfkfr]

I have to admit there's people i like to stare at, that i'm not attracted to at all or have any other reason like that for staring at them. I think it's just that they look interesting to me for some reason.