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vipersniper70
April 25th, 2014, 06:55 PM
How do i come as being gay or bisexual to my friends and family
Bmble_B
April 25th, 2014, 07:57 PM
Hmm, I'd just basically sit down and talk to them. At the same time, you don't have to rush into it, only do it when you feel your ready. Im going through the same thing as well, Of course Im gonna come out, but no time soon....
Best of luck! :D
Elysium
April 25th, 2014, 09:47 PM
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Alex_3869
April 25th, 2014, 10:30 PM
I'm only out to one person, and I came out to her over text, but I knew she would be cool with it. If your unsure then don't do that. I mean I make it pretty obvious, everywhere, so it isn't like anyone has a doubt. So I'm sure everyone knows, I just haven't really verbally acknowledged it to anyone. Family is kind of tricky. Just evaluate the situation and do not rush into it, if you don't think the time is right, then don't come out. I only told my friend because I was acting weird in class about a guy and she asked me why. I didn't want her to thInk it was something with her so I told her.
backjruton
April 26th, 2014, 05:23 PM
I told my parents when I was having problems about something else and told my friends in college when one asked who I'm attracted to... I'd always told them I'm bi, but they helped me decide I'm better off saying I'm gay but I still feel awkward. Don't make it the main subject of what you're saying I guess, but I'm only saying this because I didn't :lol:
Babs
April 27th, 2014, 01:17 AM
there are many ways to go about it. you could do what I did, and wait for someone to ask (I identify as queer, I like boys girls and nonbinary folks) or until you bring someone of the same sex home, or you could come out casually and say "hey by the way,i'm gay/bi" or you could sit down with them and have a discussion about it. whichever sounds best for you, and whatever would work best with your family's beliefs and personalities.
gevans604
April 27th, 2014, 08:52 AM
My parents asked who my celebrity crush was, and I showed them a picture of Troye Sivan. They got the message. :)
Aidoon123
April 27th, 2014, 12:51 PM
Well it was actually kind of funny how it happened to me, I was upset and a friend was talking to me and he just said ''you're bi aren't you'' and I just nodded and then he was like ''that's fine, nobody will care'' and then I told all my friends, with his help, and everything was fine :) I'd say the best thing to do is tell the people you really trust, that way you know your secret is safe :)
jayyy-lmao
April 27th, 2014, 01:32 PM
Ways to come out:
Write a letter.
Make a card that says "I'm gay!" on the front, and on the inside "...and not just the happy kind!"
Sit down and talk it out.
Post it note in a place they'll see it. "Hey, chicken's in the fridge. PS- I'm gay"
Upon arriving home, yell "Hey everyone, I'm homo! Whoops, I meant home. But homo works too."
Raven Foxx
April 21st, 2017, 06:44 AM
Ask questions related to sexuality, and stay as vague as you can. If they answer in a positive manner, come out of the closet! Hope this helps!!
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