I dont know how to react

[meme101]

Hi everyone, I have a problem. I recently just broke up with my boyfriend and it didn't go too well, but my issue is that after we broke up I guess he told his friends what happens in bed with us and, one random guy I knew was one of his friends ask me to give him head, and he was serious too, I was dumbfounded, I didn't know what to say or what to do, so I just walked off, should I confront my ex or should I just leave it alone? but I don't want it to escalate into im a slut, does anyone know what I should do? thanks for helping.:)

[Stronk Serb]

I don't really know. But what happens in bed stays in the bed, I guess. I personally would confront him.

[Abyssal Echo]

I think him talking about your sex life sucks but it doesn't say much for him.
You can confront him and maybe he'll stop or maybe since he knows it bothers you he'll keep talking about you. Might be better just to act like it doesn't bother you and ignore him and his friends.

I don't really know. But what happens in bed stays in the bed, I guess. I personally would confront him.

I agree what goes on in bed should stay there.
Sometimes confrontation works to end things quickly sometimes all it does is make matters worse. either way people will eventually get tired of hearing about it.

[Gumleaf]

What happens behind closed doors should stay there. But anyhow, I really don't think that you'll be labelled a slut. I mean, you broke up with your boyfriend, presumably you haven't been sleeping around. A slut is someone who gets around, not just having sex with their boyfriend. As difficult as it is to tolerate the stupidity and rumours that might start, chances are it will blow over in a short time and people will forget about it. I would just sit back and ignore it as much as you can.

[Menzis]

Boys almost always tell their friends what happened sexually it's just we like to brag and/or talk about such things.

[Pensive]

Either ignore it or hit back.

Say 'how could we have had sex, he couldn't keep an erection'.

Pre-ejaculation. Penis size jokes.

He threw the first stone, so the ball is in your hands.

Or you could take the moral highground (I like it up here :P) and pity him.

For that you will simply need to act with sympathy and contempt to anything that is said.

"Poor guy had his heart broken, he's being so brave"

Though both invite insults - that's happening anyway.

The dust from the car crash will settle in time, you'll recover and walk away.

My most immature reply in ages haha... Sorry

Good luck!